the brutally honest difference between
loving someone and being in love with
someone number eight
loving is an uphill battle being in love
is simply effortless often you will hear
someone complain about their
relationship they will say things like
it shouldn't be this hard and there is
some truth to that naturally if you
really are in love with someone things
shouldn't be difficult you shouldn't
have to work overtime to get the spark
back or try to stop fighting these
things should never be a problem I'm not
saying that being in love with someone
will be all roses and rainbows but I am
saying that the love aspect should never
take work also after having a rocky
month or two you will still be in love
with the person if it's real your
feelings will have changed but for the
better because you will feel even closer
to your partner
number seven loving means ownership
being in love is a partnership when you
love someone you want the whole world to
know that they are yours so you label
them and you make them your property you
constantly need to tell them that they
are your girlfriend or boyfriend and you
also need them to constantly tell you
that they are yours when you are in love
labels such as a boyfriend and a
girlfriend do not matter both of you do
acknowledge that you are an item but you
both do agree that you are your own
person
keep watching for some more brutally
honest truths about the difference
between loving someone and being in love
with someone number six
loving means how the person makes you
feel being in love means how you make
them feel this is one common mistake
people often make when it comes to love
when someone is asked why do you love
this person they often respond with I
like how they make me feel that answer
is fine but it doesn't mean you are in
love with the person it just means you
love them if you are more concerned
about how you make your partner feel
then it's true love you could say that
true love means being unselfish and
putting your partner before you number
five
loving is a rush being in love has many
emotions
there are many highs and lows with being
in love the problem is they do not
balance each other out in a way that
makes you feel good the love can last
for a while but the second there is a
problem it could all go away it's like a
roller coaster but the problem is that
the ride eventually ends but if you are
in love with someone no matter what
happens in the relationship you never
feel like things are crashing and
burning the reason is you know that you
and your partner will find a way to
figure things out because you both are
in love with each other
number four loving a person means always
needing them being in love means having
a balance always wanting someone to be
around isn't a bad
thing it just means you love them and
enjoy their company but when you are in
love with someone you would like to have
them around as much as possible but you
do realize that there needs to be a
happy balance between you and their
personal time you want them to be happy
so you understand that the balance is
necessary whether it is giving them
their time to enjoy their hobbies or
even go out with friends you know at the
end of the day they are coming home to
you when you are in love with someone
you want that person to be happy and
confident in the relationship
this means understanding that the other
needs to have time to his or her self
you realize that you don't need to spend
all of your time with that person as
much as you would like to and also
understand that the strength of your
relationship can be determined by the
understanding that there should always
be balanced between times spent together
and time spent alone alone time between
couples is healthy and can actually even
make the couple stronger couples who are
in love understand that they are both
individuals and in order to grow as a
couple they have to have that balance
number three
love can end being in love and not love
does not last forever
and can end at any moment according to
statistics almost 50% of married couples
in the United States end up divorcing
each other at some point that just
proves my point that love on its own can
end once the honeymoon phase in a
relationship is over
that is when things get tough arguments
ensued differences begin to rise but if
the couple is in love with
each other they will get past these
differences the reason is that you
cannot picture a life without each other
it is true when you say that you can't
just stop being in love with someone
when you are in love the person becomes
a big part of your life and even becomes
a part of your heart and your soul and
you just can't picture a life without
that certain person that's why even when
a relationship is unhealthy or seems to
be crumbling some couples stay together
they love each other too much and cannot
face going about their lives without the
other person but this can be detrimental
to both partners mental well-being
number two love means wanting the best
being in love means putting them first
when you love someone you will always
want the best for them but does this
mean that you are willing to make
sacrifices to help them reach their
goals if you are in love with someone
that question doesn't even cross your
mind because you would never have any
doubts about it you would put that
person first and do everything in your
power to make sure that they succeed but
it can also relate to making the
person's life easier you will do things
that would take some stress off the
person like taking more shifts walking
the dog organ cooking dinner more often
when you're in love with another person
it is completely normal to put their
interests ahead of yours although this
may not be the most healthy thing to do
in certain situations people who are in
love will always think of the person
they love before making the decision it
is a good thing for couples to think
about each other when making decisions
to a certain extent
putting someone ahead of your own
interests in certain situations is a
sign of love and loyalty while other
situations can actually be detrimental
for example if you stop spending time
with your family or friends in an
interest of your partner each situation
depends on the context and status of the
relationship to people who are in love
are always thinking about each other and
being in love with someone
usually means that you will put their
interests ahead of yours because you
love them so much and you only want to
see them happy
number one you choose to love someone
being in love isn't a choice you have
all the power when it comes to loving
someone you make a decision based on
their personality and you choose to
trust their abilities and morals if
things do not work out then you also
have the power to stop loving them and
release them from your life the same
cannot be said if you fall in love with
someone it can happen at any time there
will be no warning and it's something
you cannot walk away from when you're in
love with someone you'll know you won't
be able to get that person off your mind
you will constantly want to be around
him or her and the thought about being
without that person will make you
nervous when you are absolutely in love
with someone it's also hard to stop
loving them especially if or when they
do something that might hurt you saying
goodbye to someone you're in love with
can be extremely difficult to do this is
why breakups are so difficult for most
couples who are in love
even if you manage to walk away that
feeling will stick with you forever that
is how you know you're in love with the
person love is a beautiful and wonderful
feeling it can be the most indescribable
and deep emotion that anyone can feel
despite everyone being able to feel this
emotion there are many that cannot tell
the difference between loving someone
and being in love with someone it's very
common to believe that they are both the
same the passion may feel the same but
what is different is the intentions so
if you are searching for that warm
bubbly feeling you need to recognize the
difference between the two have you ever
been in a situation where you realize
that you loved someone but weren't
actually in love with them tell us in
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