What's up, guys. Welcome to another episode of Mantelligence.
What if I tell you that you never have to chase women again?
If you ever got rejected by a girl or you’re simply tired of always wearing your heart
on your sleeves, today’s episode is for you. Today, we will teach you how to make
her chase you again and again. Today's episode is inspired by 21
Studios' video, where he talked about how to attract women and how
to make a girl chase you. By the end of this video, we'll
also reveal some conscious-dating tips because chasing women- the wrong ones, for that matter,
is such a waste of time. 5. Be Like an Onion
You might think that the secret to finding love is to put yourself out there.
While self-disclosure helps build intimacy, putting your heart out on your sleeve
or letting all your emotions hang out too early might be why you're unlucky at love.
If you want to learn how to never chase women again
and know how to get a girl to chase you, you have to act mysterious.
Well, at least initially. According to a study,
being unavailable isn't attractive, but beyong mysterious is.
In the experiment, each woman was told that several male students had viewed
her Facebook profile and rated how much they'd like to get to know her.
One group was told that they would be seeing the four men
who had given them the highest ratings- the "liked-most" condition.
Another group of women was told that they would be seeing four men
who had given them average ratings- the "liked-average" condition. Finally,
another group of women- the "uncertain" condition- was told that
it was unknown how much each guy liked her. The women then viewed four fictitious
Facebook profiles of attractive male college students.
The researchers found that women in the "uncertain condition were the
most attracted to the men. This proves that people who create
uncertainty about how much they like someone can increase that person's interest in them.
Do you want to know why this works? Because this urges a woman to win
you over. Never chase women. Instead, don't give away everything you have
to offer all at once and allow her to peel off your layers one by one. If you
create a dynamic in which a girl feels that she needs to win you over, she will start chasing you.
Men tend to respond to the girl they like based on their emotions toward her.
You might think that indulging her is the best way to win her over but neigh.
If you want to make women chase you, allow her to fill in any conversational gaps,
make her do half of the talking, let her plan some of your dates,
give her opportunities to make the first move, and spark good banter
by challenging her opinions- not just agreeing to everything she says.
Check out this video where we tackled how to stop
chasing women and get them to chase you. 4. Make Her Feel Some Type of Way
One key to keeping someone's attraction is to keep them invested in you.
One of the most effective strategies to spark interest and never chase women again
is to make them associate you with positive feelings.
In psychology, there is a thing called "emotional contagion."
It's how people who observe the emotions and behaviors of another
tend to copy those emotions and behaviors. Emotional contagion can spread through
facial expressions, vocal tone, and posture. It can also arise from interactions between
people, interactions between people and non-humans, or shared experiences.
Why am I bringing this up, you might ask. Well, according to research, we don’t really fall in
love with a person — we fall in love with how we feel when we’re with them. Fascinating?
Here's more: In another study, MIT researchers compared how attractive
audience members rated musicians before and after they started playing. What they found
was that the audience rated the band to be better looking after they played.
So what does that tell you? If you want to know how to make a girl crazy for you
and how to make her chase you again and again,
you got to make her feel some type of way whenever she's around you.
This works because what many of us don't realize is that
we unconsciously take the emotional state we're in – no matter what the cause –
and apply it to the impressions we make of unrelated things,
people, and events around us. Never chase women. Instead,
be creative by doing things that make her feel excited, ecstatic, or even mushy.
Big or small, making gestures associated with positive feelings is your best bet.
Don't chase women. Make them crazy for you. Watch this video to find out how.
3. Appeal to Her Ego Never chase women again by appealing to her ago.
Inspired by Sigmund Freud's psychoanalytic theory, psychologists Eric Berne proposed that
genuinely compatible couples vibe on three different levels-
the parent, the child, and the adult. "The parent" refers to what you've been taught-
whether or not you share the same values and beliefs about the world. On the other hand,
"The child" refers to what you have felt- do you have fun together?
Can you be yourself around your partner? Will your partner get along with friends and family?
Lastly, "the adult" refers to what you have learned-
does each person think the other is bright? Are you good at solving problems together?
Connection in all these levels somewhat creates chemistry.
According to couples therapist and co-founder of the " Couples Institute," Peter Pearson
, if the chemistry is more there for one person than the other, that's tough to overcome.
It's hard to build passion if it's low at the beginning.
If you can appeal to her on all these levels, great.
If not, there's still plenty of fish in the sea. You know what I'm saying?
Deciding to never chase women is easier than knowing how to make her chase you again and again.
We have two more tips to teach you, but before we continue,
I just want to remind you that by the end of this video,
we'll also be teaching you conscious-dating tips, so you never have to chase women again.
Because frankly, chasing the wrong one is such a waste of your time.
2. Hot Damn According to
researchers from the University of British Columbia in Vancouver,
women are most attracted to images of prideful men or, as we all know it,
the bad-boy charisma. Just as men are drawn to beauty, women are attracted to power.
With a powerful man, a woman feels protected, important, and secure.
If you want to make her chase you, you must learn how to embody the so-called
bad boy charm. No, you don't have to act like an arrogant prick.
You just have to display certain body language tricks to make her chase you.
One thing you can do is show an open body posture- that means not crossing your arms.
One 2016 study found having an open posture makes you look more confident
and charismatic whether you're male or female. Oh, and keep your chin up
and show off your jawline. One 2011 review dug into the topic and found
it's more appealing to women for one specific reason:
it's a super masculine feature that shows genetic strength.
Learn more body language tricks to make her chase you. Check out this video.
1. Yes, Hon
Lastly, if you want to keep a woman's attention and make her chase you,
you must respond to her "bids" for attention. After 40 years of studying couples,
psychologist John Gottman says it's a matter of "bids." For example,
if a bird-loving wife points out to her husband that a goldfinch just landed in a nearby tree,
he can "turn away" from her by dismissing the remark or
"turn toward" her by sharing her enthusiasm. If she posts a selfie, leave a heart emoji. If
she obviously got all dolled up for a date, compliment how nice she looks. And even
if you don't agree with everything she says, it might be a good thing to nod from time to time.
According to one 2017 study, when a subject nodded their head,
they increased their "attractiveness, likability, and approachability.
Before anything else, here's the reason why you should never chase women:
When you chase women, you unknowingly give up control over yourself.
When you stop chasing a girl, not only do you regain your power,
you also develop a deeper sense of self-respect. Consequently,
you'll know when to walk away from relationships that aren't worth your time.
Never chase women again through mindful or conscious dating. Here's how you do it:
Get a sense of yourself and what you're looking for in a partner.
Have some standards and set boundaries by defining your non-negotiables
or your dating deal-breakers. Keep an open mind and remain hopeful
that the person you are on the date with has the potential to be a special person in your life.
And be okay with rejection. You win some, and you lose some.
Do you agree that men should never chase women? Share your thoughts in the comments section below.
We hope you enjoyed this list of "how to get women to chase you."
Now that you know how to make her chase you again and again,
you'll never have to wear your heart out on your sleeve
and make a fool out of yourself. And remember, date mindfully.