Why would she be doing this? So why the hell is the woman you like and have been dating for a bit
all of a sudden being distant? I know how you must feel, and it flat out sucks. Well you're gonna
hate me for saying this but the truth is it's probably your fault. But the good news is you can
fix this and get her hooked on you again but you need to listen to me very carefully and do exactly
what i say - or you're going to lose her forever. First let's talk about how you got into this
situation in the first place because there's three things that women absolutely hate and chances are
you did one if not all of these mistakes that repel women because quite frankly most guys make
these mistakes first women don't want a man who's too predictable a guy that texts her every single
morning wishing her an amazing day or a guy that texts her as soon as she gets off of work
asking her how her day was now even though it is human nature to have predictability in
your life we don't want this chaotic life of where everything's just random and we have no control we
do want predictability and stability in our life and a woman does want that in her man but when you
become too predictable where she can actually predict your every move then the excitement is
lost so you do need a balance of being random where she doesn't know exactly what you do or
when you're gonna contact her yet also some stability so she knows that you're not gonna just
leave her at any moment number two is being too clingy or being more into her than she is into you
just be careful giving her too many gifts too soon or always trying to touch her or pet her
or you're texting her all the time or and this is a big one which i'm going to touch on in just a
second in more detail is you're trying to make her your girlfriend too soon that can totally turn her
off and the third thing that women absolutely hate and repels them is being a pushover and always
accommodating her she never has to accommodate you you're canceling your plans for her and it seems
like you have nothing else going on in your life other than her putting her as your primary focus
and when she says or does something that you don't like you don't stand up to her instead you just
let it slide and this might be a surprise for a lot of guys but a woman wants a man
that is strong enough to stand up to her no she doesn't want a man that she can walk all over
that will bend over backwards for her and that will just do anything she says and really all
three of these are just a symptom of one root problem chances are she's starting to see weak
qualities in you and she's testing you to see if you're a strong man or a weak man
essentially her being distant is a way for her to see if you need her or not and this
is where a lot of guys screw up because we've been conditioned by hollywood and disney movies
to make women our top priority to make them our purpose and show her how much we need her how much
our life would suck without her and we can't live without her but when you do that it completely
repels her she wants a man who is on his purpose and has a mission a goal a focus of his life
and she's along for the ride she complements his focus and mission but she doesn't become his focus
and mission therefore he doesn't absolutely need her he wants her he likes her he would like her
to be in his life but he doesn't need her because newsflash man you don't need her so stop acting
needy because it's that neediness that's pushing her away and the truth is your life will be just
fine without her because when you keep pushing on the gas and you know keep trying to take things
forward and move things faster and faster she can't help but want to put on the brakes
just think of it like this it's basic biology but of course nowadays biology is controversial
but to win the biological game so to speak right our instincts as a man wants us to procreate as
much as possible the more we plant our seed the better now again i'm just talking biology here
i don't think any of you want to actually plant your seed to hundreds and thousands of women that
probably is not going to end well for you but in terms of our biology that's what it's striving us
to do basically have lots and lots of sex with many partners and according to biology there's
little consequence of doing so whereas for women they can't physically can't do that they can only
be pregnant really once per year once per nine months so their biological strategy is not to
have sex with as many men as possible it's to pick the right man and be in a relationship with him
to ensure the survival of her and her offspring so the point is a man's domain or his focus is
trying to have sex with her at least initially of course a woman's domain is not that it's not to
try to have sex with a guy as quickly as possible it's focusing on the relationship or to be
in a relationship so men focus and drive more towards sex women focus and drive more towards the
relationship so when you as the guy who is dating her and has already slept with her now you're
trying to push for a relationship it confuses her it's like you're taking the feminine role
which puts her in more of the masculine role and most women when you put them in a masculine role
they lose attraction towards you i know i'm going to get tons of flack from the
feminists out there who say women and men are exactly the same but it's common sense
men and women are different men have a more masculine essence women have a more feminine
essence duh so stop pushing for a relationship let her take the reins once you're already dating and
sleeping with her let her take the reins and push for the relationship and when she does
and you want to be in a relationship with her then by all means go for it there's almost nothing more
gratifying and fulfilling than being in a committed amazing relationship with the right
woman which means of course first you got to make sure you're with the right woman and the truth is
most guys aren't because most guys settle for whatever they can get because they don't know
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