7 tricks to get Your Boyfriend’s attention when he’s ignoring you.
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No.1, Don't let it get to your head.
Getting sad and emotional about it, just lowers your appeal and may be the goal of some men.
Be happy and smile more.
Your days will not be hindered by the fact that he is ignoring you.
The happier you are, the more he'll want to feed off that happiness.
No.2, Don’t nag.
Nagging won’t get you anywhere with a guy.
If your boyfriend feels like you’re nagging him to pay more attention, he’ll get annoyed.
To him, it doesn’t sound like a legitimate concern to you, but rather like you just want
to change him.
Instead, focus on talking to him calmly and seriously about the issue.
If all you’re saying is, “Why don’t you pay attention to me anymore?”
while whining, he’ll feel attacked.
And when that happens, no one wins.
No.3, Give him a little bit of the cold shoulder.
Go hang out with your friends and guy friends.
Make sure he understands that you have a life too, and that he's lucky you're including
him in it.
Most guys will immediately come running back and stop ignoring you, especially if you're
hanging out with other guys.
They'll get territorial.
It's just how guys work.
If he doesn't come back to you and keeps ignoring you, ask yourself if you want the relationship
you're getting.
One hundred percent effort from someone else, is probably better than 50 percent effort
from him.
No.4, Talk to him during a good time.
If you always feel like your man is ignoring you, but the only time you talk to him is
in the middle of his favorite show, that’s your fault.
Don’t try to get his attention when you know it just won’t happen.
Choose better times to talk to him and spend time together.
No.5, Be Mysterious.
The more obscure you can be about how you spend your own time, the more curious he will
be about you, because suddenly you will be a mystery!
Unpredictability is exciting, and mysteries exist to be solved.
If he is curious about you, then he will begin to go out of his way, to find out more about
you, which will mean, out of his own free will, he is paying you attention, finally!
No.6, Do something sweet for him.
Many guys pull away if they feel like they’re not cared for.
Your man could be getting a little insecure about your feelings for him, and that’s
why he’s ignoring you.
He’s pulling away to save himself the heartache.
So instead of getting angry, do something nice for him.
Reassure him of your feelings, and see if that helps him pay more attention to you.
It’s very possible he just wants a little something extra from you, but the only way
he knows to communicate that is by ignoring you.
No.7, Be Attached, but Don't Be Needy.
If you have followed the tips on this video, you should have been able to partially regain
your guy’s attention by this point.
Now The best thing about being in love, is that you get to share your life with somebody
you care about.
Being in a relationship itself is all about depending on each other, but things can take
a frustrating turn if one of the partners becomes needy.
Would you like it if you had a possessive boyfriend to deal with?, Assuming the answer
is no, if you find yourself heavily depending on your guy for just about everything, you
should take a time out and give your relationship a fresh twist.
Show him that you are an independent person just like him, who can get things done in
the same way, if not better