hey what's up it's me Jessica J and I was just wondering if you've ever sat and
wondered what us girls notice first about you is it how tall you are is it
what kind of shoes you're wearing or is it the bulge in your pants well I'm
gonna tell you exactly what the seven things are that we first notice about
you upon seeing you and how to capture our attention in a good way so that you
can catch the girl that you actually want number one your posture and how you
command your presence so you probably have already heard that girls like nice
tall guys but the truth is you don't have to be tall or over six-foot you
just have to carry yourself like you are that's all that means using the full
extent of your height potential you see us ladies are primarily drawn to men who
know how to lead and command armies so if we see that whatever higher at you
are holding yourself up as high as you possibly can and commanding the space
around you in ways that you know that this is your space we'll know that you
can hold us up to and command our ass like this is your ass number two how
fitting and appropriate your clothing and your look and your hairstyle and
basically everything is we notice the fit of your clothes and your hair
because that's what us ladies think about when we go out and about so if we
notice that your clothes are a little too baggy or that you're like totally
overdressed for the whole foods we're either gonna take note in a really good
way or a really bad way so one thing I want you to know is that I don't care
what weight you are you have to wear clothes that fit to your shape I once
dated a really skinny guy who used to wear really baggy clothes because he
thought that well you know if I wear baggy clothes it's gonna make me look
more full but really it just called attention to the fact that he was a
fucking stick because you could see like him swimming in it on the other hand my
ex used to wear t-shirts that he would be like oh my god my belly is
sticking out but because I could see his frame he looked that much sexier to me
in fact all he ever wore t-shirts and jeans and it was like let's go to pound
town right now so make sure you're groomed properly and not overdoing it
for where you are or under doing it a side note is if you don't think you have
the best body maybe you have a dad bod still wear form-fitting clothes I'm not
talking like skinny jeans and wifebeaters I mean like make sure it
fits you right now to three how engaged are you with other people
because that's ladies a little more communal and trained to be more polite
than you guys we're gonna notice how you treat your community and how polite you
are so if you're the guy being a dickhead to the waiter because he got
your order of water wrong or if you're the guy holding up the line because
you're texting while the cashier is trying to ask you paper or plastic we're
gonna notice and think you're dickhead but if you're the guy who's like chattin up
the Cathy behind the register and making her blush and smile or if you're the guy
who's like assuring the waiter that like no I got it it's totally fine it happens
we're gonna take note of that and take note of how you would treat us and our
friends and our family if you're in our lives number four this is piggybacking off the
other one how are other people reacting to you so us ladies when we go out and
about we always have stranger danger as a default but if we notice that other
people around you openly engage with you or laugh at your jokes or chime in or
just want to talk to you in general we're gonna be like oh he can't be a
rapist people like him number five so once we
notice that you're looking pretty good you're pretty nice to people they're
pretty nice to you at this point we're probably close enough to you to smell
you so yes number five what you smell like I once followed a man from the
supplement aisle to the checkout to his car just off the fact that he smelled
fucking amazing I honestly don't even remember what he look like
like that's how into how good you smell we are so before you go out take a good
whiff of yourself and just make sure you got that on lock number six how you treat
other people okay I think I talked about it earlier when I said how engaged you
are but like I've done fucked up so let's just say that we care about how
engaged you are in regards to how much are you paying attention to the people
you're conversing with and we also care about how you're treating them are you
engaged but being a dickhead are you engaged but over talking at them either
way we want you to be a decent fucking human being
so you know you're not at least fake it when you're out and about and number
seven what emotions you may be conveying at the time I've mentioned this before
us ladies are way more in tune with our emotions so if we see you walking down
the street and you caught a little pep in your step I'm gonna be like omg that guy's
really cute maybe I should like walk next to him all
peppy and steppy or on the other side if you're walking down the street and
you're just like we're gonna be like oh my god got away from me eww
I get it we all walk around in our heads sometimes and we're all entitled to feel
whatever we want to feel but if you know you're going out and about you're
scoping out women especially at bars or clubs don't sit your head like ah I'm nervous
is she gonna talk to me cuz we're gonna be like ah I shouldn't talk to him so yeah those are
the seven things that us girls first notice about you without even talking
to you and without even knowing you so if you want to shortcut your way to making
a really great impression on her before you even open your mouth make sure you
take these seven things into account the next time you head out and get your
girl and if you want to send me any questions or comments or even pictures
like Jessica what do you think about this or Jessica what do you think about
that don't forget to write it in the comment box below and I promise I'll get
back to you thanks for watching and next time we're gonna talk about how to stop
being a nice guy so stay tuned for that