Texting, text messages, SMS whatever you want to call them, they are very
important these days because this is now the new tool of communication and
probably one of the most popular forms of asking a girl out.
On today's video what I want to do is give you some text messages that make
her want to respond and make her a little bit more interested in you. Of
course as anything goes there's no guarantees that she may respond. I don't
know what happened in your initial interaction. I don't know what happened
with you guys before you texted her but let me give you some text messages to
use so you'll be able to at least have the best opportunity to be able to meet
up with her. I urge you I urge you to stick around til after I give them to you
because you need to understand why these work. Most importantly, you need to
understand this because the concepts of why these text messages work so well are
gonna have a big part in your strategy for attracting the kind of women that
you desire. Here are the text messages that you're going to send her. The first
one is "You're gonna be a bunch of trouble aren't you?"
Here's the next one "You're dead to me." And the next one "You're such a player
aren't you?" Okay so let's dissect these one by one so you can understand
when to use it and really why it's gonna work so well in terms of getting her to chase
after you. The first one saying you're gonna be a bunch of trouble aren't you
basically you're teasing her, you're flirting with her well technically all
of these you're flirting with her right but this one is sort of a rhetorical
question but it gets her chasing in a way to try to prove to you that no she's
not gonna be trouble. You really can't go wrong with this one because whether
she says yes or no leaves you in a good spot. If she says no no no that means
that she's just trying to qualify herself and she's gonna be chasing after
your validation you know that you're trying to say that you're trouble and
you're doing this in a very light way and if she says yes then she's flirting
back with you saying yes she is gonna be trouble. When do you
send this one over text? B asically anytime, anytime she's maybe flirting
with you, teasing you back, anytime she says that she likes something, that she
doesn't like something. Anytime that there's an opening for you to kind
of give your opinion on her which is what this is right you're saying you're
gonna be trouble that's a good time to use it. The next one you're dead to
me. This is a good one because you're saying it as a joke and you're saying it
to her after she says something that you disapprove of. Sort of similar to the
last one, if you disapprove of something you can say oh you're gonna be
trouble aren't you. This is the same thing saying you're dead to me
and the way you're gonna do it is no exclamation point maybe just a period
but you're just gonna say you're dead to me. And obviously it's a joke, you're not
being serious when you say something like this to her. You're just saying it
as a flirty way and it gets her chasing you because she's gonna say oh no no no
like why, why are you saying that? But obviously you're doing in
a very teasing way but again it it kind of creates this frame of her trying to
get you to accept her again. The next one is awesome. You say to her
you're such a player aren't you. The reason why I like this one is because
that is a common thought that a girl has on a guy. Like she doesn't want to
be with the player. She wants to make sure that she's not with the player.
Girls don't want to be with a guy who is technically a player. So if you reverse
it and you're calling her a player, you're teasing her now you're reversing
the roles and again it gets her to chase you because she's gonna try to prove to
herself that no no that's not what it's like. That's not what it is. I've
heard people say before that this kind of getting a girl to chase you
is kind of dark or it's just kind of like not a cool thing to do because
you're trying to put a woman down and get her to validate
herself and you're kind of creating this moment that's making her feel like
she's losing you. But here's the thing, these are obvious, very jokey, very light
text messages. So I wouldn't worry about it and if anyone's watching this
thinking oh this is like playing games or this is manipulation, it's not. This is
flirting okay flirting is light hearted. If you're
doing this in a way that is actually just trying to make her feel bad about
herself, we have a whole different situation here.
Again you're using this in a light flirty fun way and that's the mentality
behind it. I'm glad you stuck around and you're still watching this because I
think this is the most important part of the video. I really do because you have
to understand that this is the kind of mentality you need to have when you are
talking to a girl. Mentality of being flirty being fun and teasing. A lot of
guys are a little bit wound up kind of tight and they're kind of serious and
they don't joke around enough and you know they don't like to show their
intentions, they get really scared of rejection so they make sure to not put
themselves out there and say things like this. Again it's not necessarily about
the words but it's about the attitude behind your words and what you're trying
to convey when you are talking to a girl that you're not caring as much of the
outcome you're not caring as much about what she thinks of you and you're having a
good time enjoying that moment and that carefree attitude translates to
confidence. That's what we want from you. If you want more text messages to send a
girl, I want you to check out the 7 text messages that she can't resist.
It's free, it's a little video and it's gonna show you the 7 text messages in
every different situation so you can get her to meet up with you. Get that in the
link down below. Go ahead write a comment down below after you get the 7
deadly text messages that tell me which text message you're gonna use and let me
know if the girl replied to you. Let's get some replies let's see if they work.
Some of you it's gonna work for, some of you it won't. But let's get some
courage going and let's send these text messages to girls and see what happens.
This is my last day here at Alexa been here for like
eight days and you see there it is right there. I'm outside right now with the new
light which is working pretty well and I'm just excited to to move on to the
next spot but I'm also sad because honestly the people here were so nice
just taking care of everything, making sure that we were you know well
fed, well taken care of, so helpful. I have never been to a hostel as awesome as
this one so Alexa is the place to go to if you're checking out Chang Mai.
I highly recommend it and I'll be excited to check out the next hostel which is
gonna be a little bit different. This is more of a chill hostel, this is something
you want to go to if you're just having a nice relaxing time. But very soon
tomorrow actually I'll be going to slumber party hostel where it's gonna get
a little wild. Time to get back to the room and go to bed and prepare
for my flight tomorrow all the way to Krabi. It should be a very
interesting new spot that I'm excited to check out for
now. It's bedtime so I'll see you tomorrow. Peace.