infjs are highly introverted thoughtful and passionate about doing the right thing
this personality type looks for the things that lie beyond the surface
instead of focusing on what they are shown they're also very sensitive can easily pick on vibes and
know how to communicate with others these traits make them not only rare but also difficult to deal
with and sometimes they're mishandled because the rest of the world does not understand how an infj
sees the world in order to understand them better one has to be crystal clear and completely honest
with them because infjs do not trust just anyone infjs have a tendency to be understanding and
compromising where they want to protect others feelings they may pretend to agree with you on
things to protect you from being hurt but they will never change their own stance on the matter
so to find out how to make an infj fall in love with you you'll have to be very careful there are
a few things that you need to understand before reaching out to an infj for any kind of platonic
and romantic relationship we're gonna list them down for your better understanding of them
number one a listening ear infjs are known for their understanding personalities empathy and
great listening skills they're often so absorbed in caring about others problems that they often
end up confusing people's emotions with their own in a relationship they look for someone who
will listen to them attentively and be as good of a listening ear as they are if you want to win an
infj over you have to give them your undivided attention making sure that you're not distracted
by your mobiles notifications or the sound of your television while they're opening up to you
because opening up is not something that comes easily to them and if they're trusting you with
what goes on in their mind they'll definitely demand complete attention number two commitment
infjs do not believe in short-term or one-time intimacy to them intimacy runs deeper than just
physical touch and thus their requirement in a relationship is someone who stays with
them through thick and thin while they demand commitment from their partners
they want themselves offer full dedication and pure loyalty to the ones they love
in some cases there may be exceptions to this rule of no short-term relationships but
generally infjs are attracted more towards a sense of commitment and long-term affection
three emotional availability infjs do not believe in having a perfect and happy relationship only
as much as they love to share happy moments with their loved ones they also require them to be
open about their vulnerabilities along with the light side they're interested in seeing
the dark side of their partner this technically means that you do not need to make fake smiles
or lie to them about your situation instead you can just open up to them about anything
and while they provide you with support and advice they may also come up with solutions so
you see they basically want natural relationships instead of fake ones infjs believe that emotional
understanding and trust is very important for a relationship to work and they will do anything
to be available for their beloved while they also demand the same authenticity from their partners
number four intellectuality infjs want to think about philosophy and the meaning of life they have
a deeper approach toward things and sometimes they can ask irrelevant and philosophical questions
that may not make sense to just anyone to be in a relationship with an infj you have to match them
on their level of intellect and be available for such deep intellectually stimulating conversations
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never miss the latest updates from our channel 5. communication infjs usually have a hard time
expressing themselves because they're highly aware of the fact that people do not see the world the
way they do in a relationship they seek someone who openly communicate with them with transparency
a partner that wants to talk about both their flaws and good qualities is what infjs look for
so if you want to make an infj love you you'll have to be natural with them make them feel safe
so they can finally have someone they can discuss their perception of the world with
infj is a rare personality type and this takes a toll on them as it's hard to find someone with
mental compatibility give them that they're yours 6. growth infjs are always aiming towards becoming
a better person as they believe in personal growth they want a partner who shares their enthusiasm
for improving themselves having a partner that feels happy living in a stagnant routine
can irritate an infj as they see the world as a place where one needs to keep learning as much
as possible the only right choice for a partner would be someone who is genuinely interested in
working on themselves by an infj's side because if you fake it for them they'll eventually find
out and it'll break their trust seven trust and empathy infjs are very serious about trust and
empathy in their relationships they want a partner who's ready to see them for who they are and
understand other people's perspective without judging infjs are extremely empathetic and
reliable they also expect their partners to go an extra mile to protect the bond
once an infj stops trusting someone it's almost impossible to earn their trust back they'll avoid
confronting people for breaking their trust but what's gone is gone and with an infj what is gone
never ever comes back eight independence infjs hate being controlled and micromanaged
they sometimes enjoy solitude the independence to explore their goals dreams and perspectives
for spiritual simulation they may want to sit by themselves and not be disturbed so in order to be
someone that an infj may love their independence is something that you don't need to control
respect the boundaries they've drawn and explore everything they've given you the freedom of
but do not go near what makes them uncomfortable as infjs are polite never want to offend anyone
they may not call you out but it will bother them a lot this is all for now if you found this
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