The friendzone is something that every single person with an internet connection has heard
about.
If you go online, you’ll find tons of dudes on the internet complaining about how girls
only like assholes, and nice guys always get thrown into the friendzone and left behind.
Hell, if you look up the word friendzone, you can even find subreddits of guys talking
about how much they hate their lives because they can’t girls to like them, and they
always get stuck in the friendzone and it becomes this huge ridiculous circle jerk!
And the worst part is that half the stories are some bullshit like this:
If you’re in the friendzone, and you’re consistently in the friendzone, what that
really means is that you don’t know how to be man to woman with a girl.
Man to woman, is a nerdy pickup artist term but it’s actually useful here because it
basically means that the conversation is sexually or romantically charged.
If you’re in the friendzone, it’s because you don’t how to effectively have romantically
charged conversation with a girl.
Guys avoid being man to woman or steering the conversation in a romantic way out oF
feAr.
Because they don’t want to “lose”.
Meaning they don’t wanna take the risk and show the girl they’re romantically interested
because they’re afraid of the girl rejecting them.
So by being nice, not being polarizing, and playing it safe, they prevent themselves from
“losing” and being rejected.
But the reality is, if you like a girl and you don’t date her, then you’ve lost entirely.
Be willing to take the risk and communicate to the girl that you’re interested in her,
otherwise you’re wasting your time.
If you’re in the friendzone, it’s your fault.
Unless of course, you make your intentions known from the start and do everything right
but she’s just not into you which does occasionally happen from time to time.
In which case you’re still better off than wasting months of your life being “just
friends” and the only action you get with her, is hearing her get banged out by Brad
from her math class while you fold her laundry for her!
The friendzone is really just pussy ass excuse that guys use to complain and put the blame
on the girl when the reality is that they did a shitty job communicating to the girl
that they liked her.
How can you play it safe, and be totally non-sexual or romantic with the girl, and then confess
to her that you’ve liked her and have been chasing her in your mind for the past 2 years
and were too pussy to do anything about it!
Oh yeah buddy, that’ll really turn her on!
Gimme a break.
What you need to do is decide when you meet a girl within the first two interactions,
if you want to be romantically involved with her, then treat her accordingly.
This way, you don’t get stuck in the friendzone to begin with.
Not getting into the friendzone to begin with is the BEST way to avoid the friendzone.
Now another really common reason I see guys get thrown into the friendzone is because
you don’t know how to communicate your sexual value to her, therefore she only sees your
value as a friend or non-romantic partner.
If you never try touching or physically escalating on the girl by holding her hand, putting your
arm around her, and so on, she’ll never think of you as more than just a friend and
won’t see your romantic value.
The easiest way to show other girls that you have sexual and romantic value is to be a
high-value guy to begin with.
You can do this by talking to other girls and having other girls as an example of your
sexual worth and value.
Humans are social creatures so they use shortcuts and judge other people by how others judge
them.
If other girls like you, she’ll assume you have value romantically because other girls
think you do.
It’s like Supreme, everybody camps out and stands in line, and kills each other over
that shit because of all the hype around it, when in reality it’s the same as any other
cotton shirt!
Now I’ve done TWO whole videos on how to get out of the friendzone which I’ll have
linked on screen at the end but I’ll cover it here again and include some points that
those other videos don’t touch on.
To escape the friendzone, you need to be moved from the friend category to the potential
boyfriend category.
To do this, you need to create a radical shift in her perception of you.
I recommend doing this by cutting contact with her for a while so then when you reconnect
you can introduce those romantically charged, man to woman elements into your interactions
with the girl.
The friendzone comes from too much availability, and lack of scarcity.
When you’re too readily available to the girl, there’s no urgency for her to date
you or to even see you.
Without the urgency, there’s no attraction and no sexual tension.
That sense of urgency is absolutely CRUCIAL in creating sexual attraction and desire.
So keep that in mind anytime you have interactions with a girl.
If you want to watch my two videos on the friendzone, I’ll have those linked on screen
now.
And if you want to get access to screenshots of my actual tinder conversations and a breakdown
of how I send the perfect first message on Tinder, then go ahead and sign up for my email
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Zeus out!