7 Reasons Girls Think YOU Are UNATTRACTIVE [0:00:00]
[Music] In today's video, gentleman, I'm laying out
for you seven reasons why women will find you unattractive.
And you don't have to take my word for it, gents, all the information I'm presenting
in today's video, backed up by Science.
First up, you smell like her brother or her dad.
Seriously, you don't want to have a similar scent to anyone in her family.
The fact is human beings still use scent as a way to actually determine mates.
And, women, they're a lot more in tune with this than men are.
Subconsciously, they are using smell to determine is this a healthy mate coupling.
Now, this comes out of a 2003 study in the Journal of Experimental Child Psychology.
And, what they did is they studied adults and their ability to pick up smells that are
similar to their own.
In a nutshell what they discovered is that women who were turned off when they smelt
the odor of a man that was similar in biological makeup to their own.
And, I want to clarify this study focused on a man's natural scent, not his choice of
fragrance.
And, as a bonus point, I do want to emphasize a man should have a signature scent.
This is when your find a fragrance that works well with your body chemistry.
When you wear it, it just augments your natural smell, you feel great you're more confident,
and women do pick up on this.
Now, this next one may or may not surprise some of you all, but if you earn less than
a woman, she will find you less attractive.
Now, this is based off a 2015 study in the Quarterly Journal of Economics and they found
that married couples when the woman is earning substantially more than the man, all of a
sudden the happiness levels in the marriage start to go down, especially with the fact
that the woman is still doing the majority of the work at home.
And what this led to and how they measured whether or not, you know, this is going to
end in bad is they looked at divorce rates.
And, yes, if she's earning more than you and she's still doing the majority of the household
chores, guess what?
There's a very high chance she's going to divorce you.
And it made sense to me because if you have a partner and she's earning a lot more and
she's still having to come home and do all the dishes take care of everything, well,
you know I probably would get rid of that guy as well.
To me what makes a great marriage, a great partnership, a great relationship is when
you've got two people that are really clear in their communication of what they want and
they both contribute equally to the relationship.
Next up, let's talk about your presentation specifically your grooming.
So, we surveyed ten women and we asked them would you date a guy with bad grooming habits.
So, the result, nine out of ten said, no, not ever and the one that did she actually
misread the question and wanted to change her answer.
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Next up, don't be too happy.
So, this is based off a 2011 study coming out of the University of British Columbia
and they actually examined three different attitudes that were picked up on with men.
They had shame, they had pride, and they had happiness.
Now, what’s interesting, when men were looking at women, they found happiness to be very
attractive, but the opposite was for women looking at men.
And this was very interesting because shame was higher rated as being attractive than
happiness.
What they meant by happy was giggling happy and a bit over the top happy.
And I can then see this because there's nothing wrong with being, you know, having a smile
on your face, but it is something that when women look at men when it comes to being attractive,
they like more of a brooding look of the, you know, straight strong stern look.
If you are overly happy you smile too much.
You know if I were to sum it up, don't look like something's wrong with you mentally up
there and you’re just, you know, happily and often everywhere.
So, that's what I would say with this like be happy, but don't overdo it.
Damn!
Gentlemen, be careful with the swear words.
So this comes from a 2015 study in the Journal of Language Sciences.
What they find is that women are much less likely to swear than men are.
Basically, women have a larger volume of the orbital frontal cortex and this helps them
keep their emotions a bit more in check, believe it or not, and, men were more likely to be
extreme.
And, in fact, that's when a lot of these emotional swear words come out.
[0:05:12] The issue here is that if you overuse swear
words, you come off as actually less intelligent.
And I want to stress overuse.
Actually, the use of swear words is perfectly fine in the right situation.
You should reserve the swear words for high emotional points and instead try to use other
words, so you don't look stupid.
The next reason women find you unattractive, you can't quit talking about your ex.
Now, in the 2018 study in Psychology Today, they were talking about why a lot of women
find this very unattractive.
It basically shows that you are distracted that you are not ready to get into another
relationship.
Now, I get it that this is a girlfriend or around your buds and you're talking about
your ex talking about things putting them out there expressing your emotions, this is
a natural way to be able to get over something.
But, if you're out on a date, if this is someone you want to explore a relationship with, you
don't want to just be unloading on this person consistently for a long time especially early
on in the relationship.
They don't want to view themselves as a therapist, unless they are a therapist and then, all
of a sudden they feel like they're back at work.
And, gents, let me be clear.
I want you to open up and have people you can be really close with, but when you're
just starting off a relationship, you don't want to come off and unload on this person
come off as a victim because it's just going to make -- it just makes you look bad.
Next up, gents, false praise.
Based off a 2014 study in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, what they found
is that whenever somebody gave somebody false praise and they knew it was false praise,
they didn't ask them to sit on a couch.
What happen?
People would sit farther away from somebody that they felt had falsely praised them, was
basically almost a making up stuff and it wasn't true, it made the person uncomfortable.
So, be careful when you're wanting to impress a woman.
I know a lot of guys like to give a woman compliments, but make sure they're sincere.
Don't just make this stuff up, don't be saying things trying to put her on a pedestal treat
her – view her this perfect princess when she knows she's not.
A woman wants a man that respects her, but also isn't afraid to respect himself and to
simply speak the truth.
And that's one of the beauties by the way of being a well-dressed man is that you actually
can give great compliments because you can pick out the details.
You can smell her fragrance, give her a compliment on that.
You can see that, oh, those are really nice shoes, I like the way they work with the outfit
because you pay attention to small details like that.
You pay attention to her jewelry, you give her sincere compliments.
Those are going to win you points.
Next up, you're like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde once you've had a few drinks.
So, if you're the kind of guy that can't hold your liquor, after a couple drinks you become
someone totally different, you need to be careful because what women pick up on here
is that this guy has kind of a split personality, he's all over the place and they don't know
what to expect from you.
And, to be honest, gents, this describes me.
It's one of the reasons I don't drink.
In the past, after a few drinks I made some stupid decisions and I ended up in jail – twice.
So, nowadays, I'm the sober driver.
I'm taking care of my friends make sure everyone gets home safe.
I'm drinking water.
The point here is to be careful with substances that are going to basically take your personality
in one direction too far.
Because women I know that they're going to view this as, this, you know, it may be funny
when you're a bit younger, but when you get older you realize, hey, this person could
hurt me, this person could hurt us unintentionally, and it is something that you need to keep
in check.
So, what to watch next, gentlemen?
How about this, ten self-destructive obsessions that guys need to give up.
How many of these are you?
Yeah, you obsessed with?
Find out, guys, in this video, I will link to it right down in the description.
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