now there's no way out now that I look
at this this place in their life and
that you're the ones going to help them
heal but here's here's the system in
which I operate from what is true I
believe that first of all you're born
you come in this world and then you're
born into a specific environment that
means your mom has coping skills your
mom may be insecure she may be jealous
she may be angry your father may be
jealous and secure angry they have these
environmental skills you pick up from
these skills they have problems and you
learn from where you come from and from
this experiences you begin to develop
your own coping skill based on the
references that you are exposed to and
from these experiences then you begin to
operate within the world and then you
create successfully your current
problems based on how you see it based
on what you've experienced and based on
how you internalize it now most people
they get to at one point and they
operate from two basic ways to see in
the world one it's from my experiences
and not realizing I'm the one who's
producing it but rather I come to this
world and they are doing it to me it
means I'm a little bitty baby marks on
tell me what to do the teachers the
school teachers the bosses my husband my
ex-husband my current wife my ex-wife
the current president they're doing it
to me there's nothing I can do about it
I'm just going to have to suffer through
this now of course I believe that
there's two ways of seeing the world
some will say this is codependent and
the other is yes you do experience
problems you do experience people but
inside you you internalize these
experiences inside you you have pictures
images and sounds sensations and you
have how to that's that's the ability to
produce whatever it is you know how to
produce and a reason why you produce
what you produce is because first of all
you come from an environment that wasn't
perfect your parents had problems they
had their own skills they had some will
financially good with money some will
horrible with money somewhere emotional
intelligence some were not so
emotionally intelligent some had
rejection and emotional issues and some
did not in whatever you experienced
you learn to cope and deal with it you
may had a big brother who was mean to
you jealous because you were born and
took his place who knows but from this
you start to operate within the world
but not realizing you internalize this
stuff but you're still thinking and
operating that the world is doing it to
you therefore you're the victim and they
are victimizing you but I believe that
you're fully in control of that and once
you change and start owning up to what
you do inside you which is really the
key and so what is a belief a belief is
something you feel strongly about you
have strong emotions and you have
internal proof that means inside you you
have pictures sound sensations and it's
from these you create an idea or belief
about yourself the world and the
environment and from this experiences
which is by the way all memories of
course in your life you experience your
mother your father your dad whoever it
is and inside your mind you recorded
this information and the interesting
thing is is when you go back to five
years old and you remember what your
father did to you or your big brother or
what happened to you at 12 years old
although you're not 12 you're
40-something years old when you hold
this memory inside and whatever occurred
they're no longer doing it to you but it
is you doing it to you this is an
internal affirmation this is how you
believe about yourself and how you build
esteem esteeming self is by what you
hold the interesting thing is you're the
movie director and no one are you the
movie director but you're all actors
you're the one of using you now and you
are not only the victim but the
victimizer and if you give your power to
this memory all of a sudden you're a
slave to what's inside you and if you're
a slave to what's inside you there's
nothing you can do about it because you
don't know yet that you can change what
you do within you and your memories
changing your memories is the key
because it's within your memories it
encodes your mind how to produce what
you know how to produce you successfully
produce it because of what you hold
within you and of course you operate
from the model of the wall that means
how you see it is right for you that
means you always see it basically the
same basic way haven't you ever noticed
that you keep marrying a
the same people the same bosses keep
showing up over and over again and the
common denominator is used so inside you
you have a certain way of seeing it the
reason why you see it is because you
have memories that support this not only
because of the memories because you
create a belief system and it's all
based on what you've experienced in life
of course at some point in your life you
go lint why am I so screwed up what is
wrong with me why am I so broken and of
course depending on who you hang around
with you may listen to some book or read
some book or somebody may tell you well
the reason why you're screwed up is
there's the eg oh inside you this ego
was causing you all these problems it's
trying to edge God out well the
interesting thing is is there really a
little ego running around and I say
there is no ego nor is there a saboteur
within there is no little man called The
Saboteur inside you but what is it now
if you go to someone else to say well
the reason why you have problems is
because your past it's because what
happened to you as a child what happened
to your mouth and your father whatever
they did you that's why you're screwed
up and then you can blame your past for
your current issues by the way it's not
your past but how you internalize and
represent your past now and then of
course well the reason why you have
problems is because you know before you
came to this earth you decided hey I
like this and you know I got all these
choices of different lives I choose this
one you chose your mom you chose your
dad you chose uncle drill to do whatever
he did to you whatever it is you chose
short legs whatever it is this is why
you have a problem again each one of
these is pointing outside you that
source it's too late you already bought
the bought the farm you're stuck with
whatever problem there is and the reason
why you have problem is because of your
past your past lives so of course you've
had to pay off this karmic debt that you
picked out somehow way in the past you
probably trip Jesus up or or you or
Judas or you were your evil in the past
whatever this means so the reason why
you're stuck and why you have problems
discuss your past and trying to burn
this off and then someone else says I'm
this is my life lesson I'm trying to
learn this lesson and I asked the lady
how many times have you experienced this
and this is the true she start counting
since that I experienced it 17 times
and I said are you a slow learner or did
you just fall in love with the lesson I
don't believe you buy these lessons I
don't believe that it's because of the
lesson is because this lesson is there
because somewhere in your life you
experienced it you held on to it you
think it's going to protect you and
guide you but in reality then whatever
you hold inside you attract and everyone
says the reason why we have problems
because it's genetics or energies passed
down to the lineage or the world or
whatever and I believe the reason why
you have problems is this one simple
fact that you were the fastest swimmer
you got to the egg and you were born all
problems start at birth and the moment
you are born you begin to experience way
back here you're dropped in in this
environment your mom and dad the stage
was set before you and you sir
successfully survived you built your
skills whatever happened and now you're
currently producing a result and the
result is because you are great of
course the most powerful force in the
universe is of course unfortunately I
believe it is pain pain is reason why
people will come to see you pain is why
you're watching this video because you
want to heal yourself and it's because
of this pain you say you don't want it
but you do want it because you don't
want it you keep replaying it you don't
want to let go to the memory you
rehearse the memory you imagine what the
worst is and then you keep getting it
over and over again
unfortunately pain is a main driving
force but the crazy part of it is behind
the pain is love this pain is trying to
keep you safe this pain is trying to
keep you in connection way back here to
your mom your dad your environment and
by the way don't change my bad memories
who will I be without these bad memories
and I said you'll just be happier you'll
still be you and you can still create
problems I want to try to help you not
create so many problems learn to love
yourself and as you begin to love
yourself then you start to honor
yourself and you start letting go of all
your problems and of course when someone
comes to see us now we operate from the
belief system there are no broken people
and you are successfully producing
whatever it is you know how to produce
based on what you have within you so
when somebody comes in and say I have a
problem and the biggest question the
best question you ask
you know and then I listen I know
because I have a sensation I know
because of my past I know because I have
some idea of past life I know because of
my mother my father must I have this
horrible mark on us or whatever it is
and then I start to listen to figure out
how you manifest and create this problem
and then you and I will go and we'll
start addressing your great ability to
manifest and produce what it is you know
how to produce and as we start changing
and releasing right back here the
feelings releasing these emotions these
hurts these pains changing your proof no
longer as your father whipping you but
your father is saying I love you please
forgive me let's go fishing
and somebody said well aren't you
changing reallity well I said that used
to be real it's not real anymore it's
all made up if you keep replaying bad
stuff that used to happen is no longer
real and then ask yourself why am i MS
this is because you practice being a
mess and if you build a shrine around
bad memories you only get what you build
a shrine around make peace with your
inner self and every person in your mind
is really you everything is you I have
met the enemy and the enemy is us it's
you
so that means when you shave or shower
brush your teeth when you look in the
mirror the problem is looking right back
at you and so when someone comes to see
me I'm going to use a measurement to
understand how I know you have a problem
how strong the problem is so I'll use a
sub unit from 0 to 10 tins really strong
zero can't feel it at all and to make
the emotional feeling strong as I
possibly can I want to put you right in
the kitchen I mean I want you to right
there in the memory looking out your
eyes feeling it as strong as you can for
the very last time and I begin to use
this tote that means we test it you
think about it's a 10 then we operate
you can tap picture switch there's so
many ways to make a change tapping is
just one but it's a very powerful one
because it addresses the mind and the
body at the same time and as you address
both systems at the same time it's easy
to get changes because this is what
happens whatever you think not
surely your body follows the mind is the
body is the expression of the mind the
mind will use the body to say feel and
produce what it thinks to be true and of
course we test we operate we test again
or once we get down to zero we quit we
exit it's all gone now some of us are
really really good at having problems
and you may do a toke tio tio test
operate to celebrate to celebrate test
operate does operate all the way down to
when you get it finished and I can't
feel it anymore when you get down where
the memory has no emotional charge we
want to flop it over we want to make it
positive so instead of your father
beating you now he's hugging you and he
says please forgive me let's go fishing
I love you I did the best I can my
father did the same to me and it's time
for us both to grow up and of course
with any problem in order to have a
problem you got to be successful at it
that means inside you you have avenues
memories references sensations and so
each time you go to a member from 0 to
10 we tap it all are down to zero we tap
it down to zero and I say get angry and
you said I can't get angry I said try
harder and then you think about this
memory we tap it down I say get angry
again and then all of a sudden I said
get angry she says I don't know how I
said try harder I bet it upset you that
you can't get angry she said well it
bothers me a little bit so we tap on
that - because being angry is a skill
being depressed is a skill to
successfully produce failure you have to
work hard at producing failure and you
got to have proof and references and
emotions to make it feel as if it were
real by the way it's just a product now
some people will come to see you and one
person has experienced the same thing
the other person experienced the exact
same thing one person you can do one tap
whammy it's completely gone
one super miracle tap but the other one
thought about it a lot they rehearsed it
they made emotional connections and
memory connections and it happened over
and over again and they keep playing
this memory and they have so many
resources to prove that they should have
this problem and of course that person
you're going to spend a couple hours
maybe days or a lifetime but the most
important thing no matter how long it
takes do what it takes
to heal yourself as always said tap
until it's gone or until you pass out
and if when you wake up your world to be
different and somebody say well I'll be
tapping for the rest of my life I said
that's the best decision you made today
and you will tap for the rest of your
life even on your deathbed and it will
make it a lot easier you're going to
look better feel better act better
you'll be happier and who knows what
else and your love will be greater
because first of all it all starts with
you learning how to love yourself
because first of all it does start with
you and when you love yourself you're
going to love other people a better way
oftentimes people do have five or ten
memories of the same reference so
oftentimes there are some of the basic
same programs so usually if I have ten
memories all of them have the same
emotional charge same basic program when
you start tapping on what's going to
happen the emotional overlap of all the
emotions all of it begins to fade off
and change and disappear because again
in order to feel bad you've got to be
good at it you've got to have your
resources and when you begin to make
peace with you inner self all this
begins to change
now the key of making all changes it's
very very very simple all you have to do
is identify that you have a problem I
have this problem the second thing is
how do you know you have the problem I
know because I have this memory I have
this sensation I have all these
references and proofs I have this
problem because I just know I have this
idea this past life this experience
whatever I do and produce inside you it
feels real to you that's how you know
list it out write your list whatever the
list is add at everything you could
possibly think about if you don't have
any problem but you know a lot of people
who do write about your friends problems
and you'll discover whatever bothers
that whatever problems they have it's
really you because you're the one that
it bothers write it down address it tap
it and release it and then tap and tell
each one of those have no emotional
charge whatsoever and then I always say
make it come back if you can make it
come back tap on it again see if you can
make it come back if you cannot make it
come back maybe it's all gone and once
you go back
that memory and is completely changed
make it a positive flip it over make it
feel good make it the way you want it to
be it doesn't change what really
happened 50 years ago because you're not
there 50 years ago but you can change
what you do right now that's what really
matters the past is over and that's the
best thing about the past and you can
ruin your present moment by focusing on
something bad in the past or something
good why is it that you only remember
the bad because at one time it was
important that past that pain kept you
safe so it wouldn't happen again and the
crazy part is you're still acting that
way and it's still happening again let
go of your fears make peace with your
enemies and once you do that the world
begins to change for you all the keys
all the problems start with you and the
best thing about it is once you begin to
love yourself loving yourself is letting
go with what you hold inside loving
yourself is forgiving every person that
is inside you because every person is
really really you your father may be
dead ten years ago and he may have had
problems when he was raising you but
it's now only you and so when you make
peace with that inner self that part of
you then you begin to heal and change
and the awesome thing is that you have
been exposed to this mindset here and
it's logical it's rational you don't
have to sell the farm to believe in it
because you already do believe in it yes
you were born yes your experiences did
happen but they're not real and you
develop this idea about yourself and the
world and once you change how you see
you the whole world starts to change
sound good
is it all fit very good
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