this video I'm gonna show you how your story is ruining your life and I'm gonna
show you a process that's so powerful for transforming the story you current
you tell yourself and how this will then change your life forever welcome back to
another video my name is Erin and I hope people expand their consciousness and
today I'm gonna help you shed an old story
an old level of identity an old group of belief systems that are no longer
serving you and this is because our beliefs are creating our reality whether
we're aware of it or not our beliefs are would determine what we perceive of in
our reality and normally what we hear from people is that we got to believe in
ourselves believe in ourself but the thing is the problem is the reason that
you may be experiencing negative things in your reality is because you have been
believing yourself maybe not believing in yourself well in a way yes believing
in the little self believe in the little ego that's going around believing that
this physical experience is so real not knowing that you are an internal
spiritual being I live in a temporary human experience the problem is though
the story that we tell ourselves consistently is controlling our life now
the problem with this is that most people believe the story they tell
themselves they believe I'm not worthy they believe I am NOT capable they
believe I'm an awkward person there's something wrong with me I'm not perfect
that belief is the problem and most people are saying just believe in
yourself well if you were to actually start to question the beliefs you have
your whole life would transform and this video is gonna show you how to transform
your life some of the key components to change in everything about you I'm going
to condense what possibly could be and take years of research to find out and
I've been going through this process I am perfect I go through some of this
this stuff and there's been a gradual process where I dealt with some stuff
back in the day back in 2012 when I realized some things about my past and
especially my childhood that I went on for a couple years and
then I come up to something else and then even now something else and it
keeps on going where I keep learning and what I'm gonna share with you is between
the years of 2012 to 2019 which is the year we're in right now
I'm gonna show you how I condensed and transform my life by becoming aware of
certain the principles here and that's because when you've become aware of
these things that's where all the power is you're gonna start to wake up to new
levels of reality simply by watching this video today now here is the thing
everything in your life is the way that it is the repetitive story that you tell
yourself you see you see your vibration is a combination of how you think how
you feel how you act this includes your story the story that you tell yourself
you have a story that you tell yourself about your relationships a story that
you tell yourself about your health a story you tell yourself about finance
and that story is keeping the same things happening over and over and over
and over again all the way till I'm outside of the frame but then I come
back because the story is I'm here to share these ideas with you so I'm gonna
stay here with you okay it's the story I tell myself these stories though are
flexible they can change and you can give new meanings to new things you see
this is the thing that happened in the past something happened what happened
what happened huh what happened something happened I say in the past
something happened like you were sitting at dinner table and you want to say dad
can you pass the mashed potatoes and he said son daughter you're a kid and
you're meant to be seen and not heard I don't care if you want mashed potatoes
see unit not heard and they say then you go okay dad I'm sorry I just wanted some
mashed potatoes okay maybe I'm not worthy I'm not worthy of having mashed
potatoes there's something wrong with me I can't express myself and then it comes
along five ten years later 20 years later you're sitting at dinner table you
just want some mashed potatoes but you don't get it you want to know why you're
afraid and even though you're no longer a kid you still think
I'm not to be seen and not heard that story's been on autopilot subconsciously
for many many years and maybe no longer is it the mashed potatoes but it's
something else there's something else that you desire something else that you
want but yet you don't believe you deserve it because you're not allowed to
express yourself you see the meanings of things that happen when we're kids
absorbed into us you want to know why as well when we're a kid we're primarily in
a theta brainwave state theta brainwave state is where we're just absorbing
we're like a sponge we just think of just like sucking in our environment so
here we are as like this sponge sucking in our environment and what happens is
going to be at a certain point somebody makes a joke about you or something like
this but you don't know it's a joke and you're like oh my goodness you absorbed
that in and you think that that's a part of who you are that's a part of your
identity or you believe that you're not worthy made a joke about this before and
some be like that's a stretch Aaron I talked about how like say for example I
see this sometimes and it makes me so irritated when I see it because I know
this the psychology of a kid is kid kids think these things are real so if you
are with your little kid and you have like a four year old and you're at the
grocery store and they're not coming with you like okay little Johnny bye-bye
and you walk away that little Johnny might believe that you were really going
to leave him in the store by himself and he might start to become afraid that you
could leave he might start to have these inner issues and dependency issues and
some people say that's a far cry but date when you're a kid you're just just
sucking up the theta brainwave say you're just sucking in mean and then you
may give it a meaning that I hope this person doesn't leave this is why people
say I don't say that well this is something that they generally will
acknowledge in psychology some people that have issues where their dad left
abandonment issues they might find that they didn't have abandonment issues with
their significant other that is because of a certain pattern a certain level of
meaning and that meaning will be on autopilot until we become aware of it so
for example I gave some things a certain meaning what happened I had an abusive
ex stepmom ain't even know the story I know
it sounds like a broken record because I Cheryl's a story all the time but I make
I made a thousand youtube videos in a row okay so I'm sorry but you know if
probably sounds like there's only five things that have ever happened in my
life I used to work at Barneys New York I had ADHD and then uh what else and
then oh you had the abusive stepmom and there's probably like it sounds like
there's five things that I've always ever happened to me
but just expressing myself it's stuff that people can relate to if they see
that I've gotten to a certain place where I do what I love and I'm in a high
vibe and I've been through all of this stuff it's more relatable than seeing
someone like a guru on the mountain I want to be like you but I went through
all this bad stuff but now you have something to look at it's someone else
that have done I've done it before I've experienced it I know what it's like and
there's a brighter future on the other side not even a brighter future there's
a brighter present moment that you can tap into here's the key here's what I'm
going to be sharing with you what happened and it's a point in your past
you gave certain things a meaning for me I had an abusive ex stepmom between the
ages of 7 to 15 years old my dad divorced her when I was 15 years old and
then I thought I wasn't worthy thought I wasn't worthy I also thought and
believed that woman in my life were always trying to control me so even
after my ex stepmom my first girlfriend one of my first girlfriend was
completely controlling and jealous so always out of nowhere I was always
had to know what I was doing very annoying and I had to deal with that for
I dealt I didn't have to I chose to deal with that for 4 years probably because I
was used to it and then I eventually had a manager that was almost the same exact
personality type as my ex stepmom I believed I was worthy of having some
crazy stepmom in my life like that so what happened someone treated me bad I
believed I was unworthy now is it true that I I was unworthy no I what happened
is something happened that was a neutral idea many people may agree with me and
say yes your extant mom threw she's like she threw a sippy cup at me once I gave
me black I don't must say him to be negative I'm just saying that that's
what happened now the story that I tell myself what happened is she was very
angry I wasn't worthy she threw it at me there's a big story there that carries
with an emotional baggage she shouldn't have done that she did shouldn't have
done but what happened was a neutral idea you see even though many people in
he would agree that that was a bad thing it is still a neutral idea that I would
have to agree to another for it to be a negative thing for me you see because if
it was under a different context say on a con accident
the thing fell and hit which I mean it's not what happened but do you see what I
mean like if I were to interpret it differently I would get a different
result if I believed that she liked somehow it just magically flew and hits
me I wouldn't give it a negative meaning that I wasn't worthy because I would see
it as an accident wasn't the case I'll tell you that
I don't know if maybe the story tom is old but it's really what happened and
then in for Halloween what I had to pretend was I had to pretend that I was
a pirate and the makeup wouldn't come off because it was embarrassing to
explain to everyone that I had a black eye from someone throwing something at
me so that's the meaning I was given it though but that's what happened then
there's the story that you tell yourself about what happened now if you can start
to see more of what happened you begin to take away the emotional charge all
emotional charge comes from the story that we tell ourselves about what
happened you had an abusive boyfriend or girlfriend there's true that what
happened they may have treated you that they may have done something to you but
the story that you tell yourself about you being worthy of it you deserved it
you're guilty you should have you shouldn't have you should have seen the
signs that's a story but if you could this is the key the key is reframing and
doubting the story itself reframing it I'd say is extraordinarily powerful now
believe in yourself believe in yourself look at this belief lie belief lie lie
beliefs are lies because any belief you have you will eventually get rid of and
any belief you have which is also a story that you tell yourself is most
likely something that is limiting to you the truth is you're an eternal spiritual
being living a temporary human experience we forget that when we're
born and then we go through the level of ego the little self believe in yourself
that a little less believe in your little ego but the key is to move beyond
belief and into being being be present to the moment be fresh in the
moment see things when you're being in the present moment the other thing
you're able to do is you're able to tap more into the present moment what is it
which is more of what is happening this beam not necessarily labeling but just
be now here's the thing the story that you tell yourself what happened is where
all the pain comes from now here's what I did I went through a spiritual
awakening 2012 I learned how to observe my thoughts I learned how to observe and
look at the painful past that I had and what I was able to find was that the
painful past I had led to my spiritual awakening I was able to give it a new
meaning that pain led me to going through within myself
realized in all of these things and then the Epiphany as I go through a spiritual
awakening changes my whole entire life all of this then had a deeper meaning
and many people that go through spiritual awakening have been through
very painful things now the key to all limiting beliefs the problem is you've
been believing yourself for a long period of time you've been believing
you're not worthy you've been believing the story you tell yourself you've been
believing it's hard to take action you've been believing that you're not
abundant what I'm saying is doubt those limiting beliefs don't believe more
don't believe you're worth a million you can make a million dollars this year no
just let go of the belief that says that there's a certain finite amount you can
make let go of the belief that says you're not worthy don't believe I am
worthy then it feels fake doubt the belief that says you're not worthy and
then you will naturally be worthy you see the key is to reframe and doubt the
current stories and the current meanings you give things meaning is everything
you change the meaning you change your life where a lot of people get tripped
up as well is they give certain things a meaning and they blame other people I
could say my ex stepmom I neg ative emotion about for years but then I
realized she's just living out a pattern that she was taught from her dad does
that make it right but it does make me understand more and because I was then
able to see it for what it is I was then able to transform it I was then able to
forgive her I didn't forgive her because she deserved it
I figure of her because I deserved it I forgave her because I saw that she was
just unconsciously playing out a pattern not in a judgmental
like you are so low vibrational more so that she's this on her own path just
unconditional love but me understanding that by having that perspective I then
was letting go out of it of my sense what people don't realize if you are mad
at somebody for something they did to you you project making of energy towards
them that negative energy is still in your energetic field that goes beyond
like around your body so it's like this jealousy this anger about someone you're
like yeah you're gonna get it one day you're gonna get it one day
you walk around with that in your energy field until you clear it that's why one
of the most powerful things you could do is to do ho no Popo no for 21 days ho
oponopono says I'm sorry please forgive me thank you i love you it's forgiving
yourself for being in that situation forgiving yourself for seeing that
person of less than divine understand they're just playing out an unconscious
role and when you do this you clear out your energy field and you raise to a
much higher frequency something else I have is the ho no pono pono meditation
it'll be in the top of description box below listen to up all your driving
listen to it while you're doing things around your house listen to it for 21
days it will transform your life and it will transform your energy field read
the comments to see what it's possible there it came out like a month or two
ago and the feedback from it's been phenomenal so I'll link that in the top
of the scripture box below now here's something else I want to talk about we
have three different archetypes many of us will identify with and it's like
similar to a movie makes it easy to understand we have the victim the hero
and the villain now these three different archetypes will come depending
on the story that we tell ourselves if we tell ourselves a story that something
happened to us we are the new victim if we told ourselves a story that something
happened to us but then we gave it a positive meaning and then maybe we're
like the oldest brother or sister and we had to protect our younger siblings
maybe then we became a hero I know my dad for example he at one point saw the
movie backdraft back in the 90s he said he looked over to my mom my mom told me
the story he looked over at my mom and says I'm gonna do that one day because
he watched the movie backdraft which is about an arson investigator who's like
finding out some crime or something so my dad became a firefighter and then he
became an arson investigator years later to this day he's still an arson
investigator so he saw that hero archetype and disowned and chosen a
moment this is who I am this is my level of identity and
he very much has a hero archetype I believe I had that hero archetype which
isn't always the best positive thing because if you're a hero it means
there's dragons to slay it means everyone needs to be fixed I am somebody
that's trying to fix everything in life and I've had to learn to let go my
family members not doing well here's some here's some things I can help you
fix here's some money here's some of this and I'm learning to not that's not
always the case because a lot of times that can actually enable people but
nonetheless what I'm learning is the hero it's more positive than the victim
and the villain but still it's not necessarily the most positive thing now
my accent mom when in my life would definitely be considered a villain and
even in her own life she's taken away a lot of people's power at least that's
the perspective he doesn't a story I tell myself but you'll see that she acts
like that towards a lot of people in her life and she has that archetype she may
identify with it in order for me to survive the villain a lot of times it
stinks that they justify it they rationalize it so the key is knowing
which of these archetypes do you identify with and can you get rid of the
stories about why this is who you are you may believe you're a victim but
you're only a victim if you think things happen to you if you realize that things
happen for you you then change from a victim to somebody that goes beyond the
victim doesn't mean you need to go to a hero or a villain to a hero it can be
but what I'm saying this is let go of it let go of the meanings like oh of these
things and reframe it and understand you're an eternal spirit shall be living
a temporary human experience now how do you change your story reframing and
doubting the story you've been telling yourself the beliefs you've been telling
the be lies the bulut the lies you've been telling yourself even if you
believe I can make $100,000 a year remember that's a limitation because one
day you will let that go and you will realize you can make $200,000 a year and
then one day that will be a limitation the other is you can make more you see
maybe one day I'm like we're not spiritual beans
we're just consciousness where does consciousness we go beyond even
spiritual beans you see these are all different points of view different
perspectives that one truth in life that everyone will experience is that all
truths are true which is a paradox because they're also not true at the
same time all truths are true whatever you buy into is reflected back to you
you buy into a BS story that does you then guess what that will be
reflected back to you but then you can doubt it and when you doubt it you free
yourself from it what I'm saying is go beyond belief and going to being be
present to the moment become free you are an eternal spiritual being and when
you doubt these things you can then be present to the moment you can have fun
you can enjoy life this is meant to be a very fluid fun experience if you just
allow it to be if you just have a little bit more fun let go of the seriousness
of it you'll find that you start to have more fun in reality so remember there's
two perspectives what happened the story you tell yourself about what happened
the more that you change the story you tell yourself or just completely let it
go or just completely doubt the meanings you gave things in the past is the more
you'll change your vibration if you listen to the whole nope oh no
meditation for 21 days I think it'll absolutely transform your life and
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