(00:00): Hello, beautiful
soul. Here is a clip from a recent group retreat that I did in the south of Portugal.
Enj!y (00:22):
One theme that I'm catching for this group. And that I caught right away
is, is a focus on the solar plexus on, on knowing how to come into your power, speaking your truth,
following your intuition, knowing what the heck your intuition is. I got that question a lot.
What the heck is my intuition? I don't know. How do I know the difference between my gut instincts
and my intuition? So we're gonna be talking about that a little bit, but this idea of not
being able to share your truth. So usually when people reach me they'll they'll and if they have,
and if they have a spiritual understanding of what's going on, they'll usually say to me, I
have a problem in my throat chakra. So who thinks it's a problem of the throat chakra? It's not,
it's not why because your chakras develop in a staircase from the bottom up,
the three bottom chakras are fundamental and they are three chakras that gurus tend to not
focus on because gurus are all spending their time up here and transcending an enlightenment
in all this, the way up here, way up here, and nobody's paying attention to the lower chakras.
(01:30): This is why you're seeing a lot of increase,
for instance, in gurus being exposed because of imoral acts or abuse on their followers. And
all of this is occurring because they don't have those lower chakras, uh, worked on this is really,
really important for us now. So even though this looks like this is a throat chakra issue,
it's not, this is a solar plexus issue. Okay. Now why, why is this a solar plexus issue?
This is where your personal power is. This is where your sense of identity identity that can
get a little bit in embroidered in the ego. So your third chakra is where that ego starts to
get developed. And there's nothing wrong with the ego. The ego's beautiful. It has its function.
It starts to get developed when that third chakra comes online, okay? Early adolescence. This is
where the teenagers little early adolescents start to develop their own personality.
(02:23): And then they start to, to dress in a,
you know, in their own way. And they start to rebel against their parents. That's the third
chakra coming online, exerting personal power. And so this is where the personal power comes from.
This is where your identity, the ego identity is also formed. But aside from the ego identity,
the Chi of personal power is here. This is tremendously important for sensitives and empaths,
a poll again of sensitives and pats in the room. Okay? So quite a few of you. This is the key
chakra for sensitives and empaths, cuz this is the, this, when this chakra is strong,
you don't ever worry about imposing boundaries. I don't like to use that word. I don't even like to
use that word because when you are a powerful empath, you don't need to impose boundaries
at all. Your energy, just projects outward from you so strongly that there's no boundary there.
There's just nothing penetrates it. So the example that I love to use is, you know, the, when you're
on the set of a Hollywood movie and they're trying to mimic wind and they have those enormous fans,
have you ever seen those on, on set, enormous fans? And as soon as those fans start going,
can you stand in front of one of those fans when it's in full blown full,
you cannot it'll push you back. That's what an empath does with a strong solar plexes.
Does a fan have a boundary? (03:47):
No, a fan doesn't have a boundary. It's just blowing outward and it's blowing outward with such
strength that nothing's gonna come close to it. So the fan doesn't have to worry about boundaries.
And that's what a powerful empath does. You project your energy outward
so that you only let in what you want to let in and what you don't. You're just like Phew, okay.
Now for you, we don't need to go into, to, you know, the details of child abuse,
but for anyone who, who had difficult childhood trauma in childhood.
Okay. Lot of people. Okay. So what happens with these lower chakras is these are the first ones
to be formed. The first chakra is formed in your mother's womb. It's the first one to go online.
So a lot of times we're going to be doing a ceremony here. I'm waiting a little bit.
(04:38): So you guys,
so you guys get used to the energy before I plunge you into your mother's womb. Uh .
So we're probably gonna do that on Wednesday, but we're going to do a, a regression, womb
healing regression. And it's gonna take you on a really, really cool ride. The reason we do that
is because that first chakra comes online in your mother's womb. So start thinking, how was my
mother feeling? What was my mother going through? When, when, when she conceived me with my father.
And a lot of times people don't realize this, but their trauma actually starts there.
So if, if parents were having a huge problem, if they were fighting, if there was abuse between
them and your mom was carrying you, your first chakra was absorbing that already in utero.
Okay. So that needs to be cleared. So imagine how far back that goes.
(05:31): Okay. And I'm gonna talk a little bit about
even further back past lives back, but let's hold on, hold off on that a little bit. Okay. So first,
second, third chakra affected by childhood abuse because that's when those chakras are being
formed. So that by the time you get to the third chakra, you're around adolescents pre-pubescent
time. Okay. So your extremely formative years is 1, 2, 3. Okay. If, if I have a ladder and
the bottom rungs are wobbly, everything above that doesn't matter how high that ladder is.
Everything above it is gonna be wobbly. So we must work on the foundation always. Okay. So for you,
yes. It's third chakra. We're gonna go deeper into the first chakra.
We're gonna be doing some of that work here. So I'm not gonna go too much into
that. But the third chakra I do wanna focus on because the third chakra is I'm here.
(06:26): First chakra says I deserve to be here. I,
I exist. I, I exist on purpose. I'm not some random coincidence of the universe. No, I came
on purpose. There are a line of billions of souls to come into this plane of existence because it's
a very popular way of the soul evolving the plane ex the earth plane existence is very popular.
So there are bazillions of souls waiting to come in here. And I came in here on purpose.
It's not, my life is not random. I came here on purpose and that's the first chakra here I am
here. I am world. Okay. Second chakra. As when I start to relate to people,
who's had messed up romantic relationships in this room. yeah. Okay. So a lot of times
people say, oh, messed up romantic relationships. My heart needs to heal. Is it a heart problem?
(07:25): Initially
it is not second chakra. Whoever's had messed up relationships, romantic relationships,
second chakra. This is where I start bonding. So the second chakra is the chakra of sexual energy,
but also the chakra of bonding, initial bond, mom, or dad, or, or two moms or two dads or whoever,
grandpa, grandma, whoever's raising me the direct line of the adult. That's raising me.
That's my first bond. That's when that that's when that second chakra first comes online bond with
parent caretaker, okay. Then it moves up by the time I'm an adult, I'm trying to have a regular
romantic relationships with a messed up second chakra. And guess what? That leads to attachment.
Clinginess emotional immaturity in, in romantic relationships, jealousy.
So many of the issues we have in relationships are coming from this second chakra. That's not
grounded. It's not mature in its energy. And it has a bunch of bonding wounds from childhood that
have never been healed. (08:39):
But even if you don't come, so who had a wonderful childhood hands up who had a wonderful childhood?
Great. So the people that put their hands up right now, that doesn't mean that your second chakra is,
is wonderful and balanced. Why? Because even if you come into a wonderful family, you you're still
being programmed by the templates of society. And I would say 99.9% of relationships today
still have bonding issues. Bonding issues were considered normal in relationships up until very
recently. And now we're starting to bring in a new template of relationships. We're gonna be
talking about that in a little while, but we're starting to bring in a new template of romantic
relationships. And guess what? They though the new template is not putting up with bonding wounds.
You try to come into sacred connection with bonding wounds, who you are in for a hell
of a ride. (09:30):
Okay? So that's second chakra initial bonding with, with someone and then
later on possible romantic bonding with someone third chakra. So there we go. Here I am world
second chakra. Ooh. I'm starting to connect with people. Ooh, second chakra. Ooh. That's fun.
Third chakra. I'm starting to come into my power as me. First chakra is me in the group. So first
chakra is considered the tribal chakra me in relation to a group, whether it's a family,
a culture or whatever. Second chakra me in relation to another person bonding third, chakra
me in relation to me, me. This is me in the world. I'm powerful. I have value. I have a
lot to say. That's interesting. Look at that. I have a lot to say, I'm not talking about the
throat. I have a lot to say starts here, which is weird. It may seem weird, but it's not okay.
(10:32): And so the energy then comes up.
Oh, wow. Look at me. Okay. And, and sometimes, you know, in a lot of spiritual traditions, this third
chakra is poo-pooed on why? Because it creates a sense of me and in a lot of spiritual traditions.
Oh, there is no me. We're just all one. And that's true. But at the same time, we're all one,
but we are existing in an earth plain, and we must learn how to work in that earth, plain.
So sometimes when, when gurus or teachers say, oh, forget about all that. We're just one. It's
beautiful to hold onto that. But you gotta also be able to know that you are individuated in a
physical body now. And there's value in that if you wanted, just, if you wanted to just stay in
the consciousness of one, you wouldn't have popped out of the Godhead in the first place.
That's where oneness is true oneness without individuation exists at the origin at the big
bang at the God at, at the universe. So the moment that you pop out of that is your own
individualized stream of consciousness. You do that on purpose, there's purpose
to the individuation process. And so, okay. There's purpose to it. So me, I have value.