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15 Signs someone is extremely jealous of you Are you unsure why somebody would ignore you,
brush over important milestones that you share, or flatter you insincerely? Chances are that person
is jealous of you, and it can be easy to spot. It usually begins when someone starts giving
off a poor vibe, but it can also be difficult to spot. Some people are good at hiding their
jealousy behind a friendly façade. It is said that people who experience bouts of jealousy are
those who have underlying personal issues such as insecurities, low self-esteem, and anger.
It can become a toxic behavior if it is allowed grow. Understanding jealous tendencies is the
key to preventing it from affecting your life. If you are wondering what the behaviors typical of
extreme jealousy are, check out our selection of signs that someone is extremely jealous of you.
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No1: They may show up as very friendly. Nice behavior, politeness and affirmative
talk don’t always have to be honest. Sometimes people use them so that they can do you harm in
the long run. Extremely jealous people can appear as very friendly. They will have friendly manners,
but that is only on the surface. Tremendous envy can be hidden below polite listening and giving
make-believe advice. Their goal is to subtly break you without you even realizing it. This
so-called friendliness can be explained with their shame of expressing negative feelings.
No2: They want to ruin your relationships with people you care about.
The support system is quite important in everyone’s life. It is healthy and
helpful to have a group of close people you can rely on in both good and bad times.
An extremely jealous person is focused on alienating you from your dearest. Those can
be anyone: family members, friends, partner, co-workers. Someone who feels extreme jealousy
towards you will do his best to make you feel isolated and thus without a sense of belonging.
In that way, he can ruin your life more easily. No3: They often try to be around you.
As we said earlier, extreme jealousy can be hidden below friendly behavior on the
surface. People who feel jealousy towards you will use every opportunity to be around you.
Given that they want to have the things you have, these people will try to find out how to
get them too. Attention, affirmation and praise you receive from other people is something they
would like to get for themselves. They will also try to imitate your success.
At the end of the day, they will know that it isn’t actually their success which will make them
even more inferior and, therefore, more jealous. No4: They spread false news about you.
Extremely jealous people love talking behind your back. They are delighted when they get
the occasion to talk about your flaws, failures and mistakes in front of other people. If they
can’t find or remember any of these, they will point out your traits. For example,
they can comment on your look or style. Because of the fact that extremely jealous people are not
satisfied with themselves, gossiping makes them feel more secure and increases their self-esteem.
No5: They attribute all your achievements to luck. Every success you make: in personal or
professional life causes discomfort in extremely jealous people. It is simple: that is not their
success and, therefore, they can never be happy about you. They will never admit that you achieved
your goals because you were intelligent, talented, skilled or hard-working. They won’t congratulate
you and say you deserved the award and admiration for your success. Instead, they will tell you
you’re lucky and that your accomplishments were only a product of favorable circumstances.
No6: They disrespect your decisions. In order to stop you from achieving your goals,
extremely jealous people will try to frustrate you from making the right choice. That is why
they may make comments that the decision you want to take will bring you no good. What lies behind
this narrative is their aim to make you insecure, induce your self-doubt and shake your self-esteem.
By invoking those feelings, they want to persuade you that the choice you are making is wrong. The
end game is that you progress less in life. No7: They undermine compliments given to you.
Extremely jealous people can’t stand when they see that you are getting all the attention.
In order to make themselves feel superior, these people will undermine every compliment that you
receive from others. They can even tell you that the person you received a compliment
from wasn’t honest with you. This is how they try to make you feel worthless. Every
time they face your strengths, they become reminded of their weaknesses.
No8: They avoid being present in moments of your success.
While you are experiencing good times in your life, you want to share them with other people.
But what if someone from your inner circle avoids being present in moments of your joy? You call
them but they don’t answer, you invite them to join your celebration but they don’t show up? Or,
they are always giving you excuses so that they can evade those events? The
point is that your success increases their insecurity and causes them pain.
It reminds them of how they feel about themselves and they know that joining
your happiness can only make them feel worse. That is why they will avoid these situations.
No9: They dig around to get information about your life.
Extremely jealous people are always trying to find out what is going on in your life. They may stalk
you on social media or ask mutual friends what are you doing, how do you spend your time or how
do you get along with other people. The truth is that they are not interested in your well-being.
They do this only for two possible reasons. One is that they just want to see if there is any
obstacle in your life, so that they can take pleasure in your misfortune. The second one
is that hearing bad things about you can give them the opportunity to use them against you.
Sometimes they might share rumors about you even if they know for sure they are false.
No10: Belittling your achievements
Did you move into a new house? Nice, but the neighborhood “doesn’t seem safe”. Did you buy a
new outfit? Great, but you may want to go to the gym for a while to fit it better. Did your crush
ask you out? You probably can’t trust them, and aren’t their type anyway. Experts on the subject
claim that those who tear down every piece of positive news that you share are very likely
to be jealous. In an attempt to bring down your mood, they focus on the downside of the news.
No11: They treat you badly when they are around you.
Extremely jealous people think you have something they feel like they don’t.
To try to reduce that feeling they will be unpleasant. They may criticize you,
your behaviors or remind you of your flaws. Often, they can do that in the
most inappropriate situations such as embarrassing you in public. They may
compare you to others so that you can feel that you are worth less than you actually are. Their
main goal is to make you feel weak and to feel bad about yourself. And nothing less important,
this is how they make an effort in creating a false sense of superiority within themselves.
No12: They see you as their rival. Extremely jealous people constantly
compare themselves with you. Every success you achieve is a threat to them. That makes
them face their mostly unfulfilled lives and they can’t stand it. Because of that,
they challenge you all the time in an attempt to cause your fall. They always try to one-up you.
They are capable of using all the instruments such as lying, cheating and deceit for just
one goal: to make you feel miserable and weak. No13: They don’t like you for no good reason.
No matter what you do and how hard you try, an extremely jealous person will detest you,
often for no reason. Even if you didn’t have so many interactions with him or her,
you can feel their hostile attitude. Because of their longing for having things,
you have and achieving success like yours, they will despise you. These people crave attention,
but they don’t get it. That lowers their self-esteem and makes them hate you even more.
No14: They cross their legs. Even the jealous people are
ashamed when they become aware of their feeling of jealous. When they face it, they might try to hide
to express their jealousy, but body language is something that is harder to hide because
a person is barely aware of it. This is where the crossing legs come into play. People often
cross their legs when they feel threatened and insecure about something. So, pay the attention
what they do when you talk to them of your new achievement. If they cross their legs
instinctively, that could be a sign they aren’t satisfied with hearing good things about you.
No15: They are happy when they see your failure. If you notice that a person is happy when he
or she hears bad news about you, you can be sure that there is extreme jealousy involved.
These people are having trouble hiding their own happiness when they witness your failure.
The only thing worse than this is that they can pretend that they are here for you and that they
want to comfort you. In these situations, they will use the opportunity only to give you a bad
advice so that you can fall even more down and you will listen to them because you are vulnerable.
Did you have any bad experiences with extremely jealous people? Were you faced with these kinds
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