You have got to start expecting great things
to happen for you
in order for it to happen.
It is the law of attraction,
it is real.
It is nothing fake about it.
The Bible says a man is as he thinking.
If you live your life in expectation,
that's what happens to you.
If you live your life in despair,
that's what happens to you.
If you say all men are dogs,
you going to meet every last one of them.
"I'll never be rich"
you won't.
You won't.
The moment
you change the frequency
that your Tower emits,
the moment you change that frequency
different things come back to you.
I'm telling you that's how it works.
If you change your attitude
you change your altitude.
We try our best.
We don't always do our best.
And since we are the architects of our own lives,
let's study the habits,
the practices, the routines that we have that lead to
and feed our success,
our joy, our honest pain, our laughter, our earned tears.
Let's dissect that and give thanks for those things.
And when we do that, guess what happens?
We get better at them
Raise the rest of your life,
to meet you.
Don't search for defining moments
because they will never come.
The moments that define you have already happened
and they will already happen again.
We all live in this bubble.
What you got to do, you gotta put more air in your bubble,
you got to blow your bubble up.
Expand yourself.
Take yourself out your comfort zone,
do not live in your bubble.
Put some more air in your bubble.
If there's something that you want
and you have hungry for it,
you've got to do whatever is necessary until,
and when you give the best you can,
and that's not enough, you must do what is required.
So I'm saying learn to be your own bolster.
Start building yourself up.
Start encouraging yourself,
start saying, I can do this.
I can make this happen.
Go do something.
Do the best thing that you can think of,
put the best plan you have into practice.
It's not going to be perfect
and it will change along the way,
but it will change partly because you become disciplined,
pursuing the path.
And as you become disciplined, you become wiser.
And as you become wiser, you become able
to formulate better and better plans.
They are no longer going to live in their setbacks.
They are no longer going to leave
in your reality, your reality of me says, I'm not enough.
Your reality of me says, I can't do this.
Your reality of me says, you won't finish today.
This is your time.
This is your moment.
Shake off the doubt, shake off the negativity.
You're at the right place.
You're at the right time.
Now, all you've got to do
is get in the right frame of mind.
Change anything for you you want to change.
And I challenge you to do that because you can change.
If you don't like how it is for you
change it.
What a day
a life changing day,
the day when you've had it,
and whether it's something major or something small.
The day you can say, Enough is enough.
That could be the life changing day.
The man has finally had it with being a loser
he's had it with mediocrity.
He's had it with those awful sick feelings.
Knowing his wife is at the grocery store looking at two cans of beans,
one mark 69 cents and one mark 67 cents.
The man knows his wife is gonna buy the 67 cent can
and she doesn't even like the brand.
Know why she's gonna buy the 67 cent can
to save 2 cents
The man sick inside says, I've headed with being on my knees
in the dust looking for Penny
We are not living like this anymore.
Look out.
That's the day the I've had it day.
The never again day.
The enough is enough day
powerful.
Hey, nothing is so life changing as a powerful disgust
and there's probably nothing so pitiful as a mild discussed,
the man says, I kind of think I've had it.
How sad.
Not powerful enough for life change.
Now here is the second emotion decision.
Decision making is emotional.
Those knots in the pit of your stomach,
waking up in the middle of the night,
lying there in a cold sweat, trying to decide.
We sometimes call it inner civil war
conflict,
battle of the mind, heart, and soul.
It's emotional, it's powerful and critical.
It sets the course or blinds the courge
It sets the mind or leaves us helpless, drifting, not being
able to make up our mind.
Well, for progress, we must decide.
Come to grips with the surges, the tides, the conflicts.
The best advice I can give you is if it's easy, do it Easy.
If it's hard, do it hard.
Just get it done.
Your self-esteem,
how much you like yourself
your self-esteem,
this is how you feel about yourself, your emotional core.
Your self-esteem is defined as how much you like yourself
but it's more than only this.
The more you see yourself as a valuable and important person,
the more positive and optimistic you will be.
When you truly consider yourself to be important and valuable,
you will treat other people as if they are important as well
Your self-esteem is largely determined by how consistent your self-image,
which shapes your personal behavior, is with
self ideal or your vision
of the very best person you can possibly be.
Whenever you act consistently with who you consider an excellent person to be,
your self-image improves and your self-esteem increases
you like and respect yourself more.
You feel happy about yourself and others
The more you like yourself, the more you like others,
and the more they like you in return
by acting with character in, in harmony with your highest values,
you put your whole life
internally and externally into an upward spiral.
In every area of your life, things will get better and better for you.
Your role models have a tremendous impact on shaping your character.
The more you admire a person in his or her qualities,
the more you strive both
consciously and unconsciously to become like that person.
This is why clarity is so important.
Always behave consistently
whenever you act in a way that
is consistent with your values
you feel good about yourself
whenever you compromise your values for any reason
You feel bad about yourself.
This also means that
when you compromise your values,
your self-confidence and self-esteem go down.
You feel uneasy and inferior,
inadequate and uncomfortable.
When you compromise your values
deep down inside, you feel that
something is fundamentally wrong.
Almost all human problems can be solved
by a return to your highest
values and your innermost conviction.
When you look back,there have probably been situations in your life
when you have compromised your values.
In order to save an investment, keep a job,
preserve a relationship, or
maintain a friendship
in each case, you have felt worse and worse until you
finally broke it off and walked away.
And how did you feel when you finally had the strength of character to walk away?
You felt wonderful
Whenever you use your willpower and strength of character
to return to the values that are most dear to you,
you are rewarded with a wonderful
feeling of happiness and acceleration.
You feel energized and free.
You wonder why you didn't make that decision a long time ago.