Uncle C, back in the office and in today's video, we're going to be discussing exactly
how to not be needy and how to not be clingy. Okay, how to not be a clingy man, I wouldn't
be discussing why being clingy repulses women. But ultimately, I'm really going to show you
why this isn't just like a women problem. Like men, men fundamentally don't have women
problems. Men have life problems that reflect in their ability to get maintain, attract
or keep women. So that's what you really have to understand is that if you have a whole
pie, right women is like a small slice of the pie. And your ability to get that slice
is really dictated by who you are as a man on the outside, not necessarily that one piece.
Okay. I know guys who are great with game and great with speaking of women, but they
can't keep them because they strictly don't have all of the other pieces of the puzzle
together. Throughout this video, I'm gonna be showing you the four secrets. These four
secrets is what I use on a day to day basis. These are also the four secrets, I would highly,
highly, highly, highly, highly recommend you using. If you do use them, you'll have success
if you don't use them, you will fail. So if you've ever been needy over text messages
you've ever been clingy over text message if you ever have if you ever can drop things
at the drop of a hat to go see a woman. You're messing up. Let's dive in. Number one. How
do you get over this? There's some people they say, Casey, I just don't know how to
get over it. Well, number one, you're gonna have to stop doing what gets you burned. Let
that sink in. Stop doing what gets you burn. If you've been burned by a woman, like if
you've been heartbroken if you've been overruled, I don't know what you, you project
this energy. I don't even know if week is the right word to use. Because when people
think about weakness, they don't necessarily think of it internally. Or words being spoken.
People usually think weak has a look right? But you can be six foot five, and 280 pounds
jacked. And you can still be weak and you can do the things that you burn when it comes
to dating. Just stop doing it. The real question is, is like do you actually want results.
And most men, they just don't want results enough. If they wanted results, they would
do what's required. And what you'll notice is men who do what's required, it's not just
they have success with women, they literally have success in every area in their life.
Because while most people neglect the work, those are the types of men that chase excellence
to ensure that the work pays off. Right, we all have a certain amount of time, which means
that your time has to be spent ensuring that you don't make past mistakes, or else you
become ignorant. I do not want you ignorant. So number one, stop doing what gets you burn.
What is number two? Well, number two, first and foremost I wrote down is you got to ask
yourself, where is your time going? And you probably need more going on. Let me explain
this to you. When you're a man of value, you have things going on that pull you in a different
directions. Right. I'll give you example with me right now I've managed a small sales team.
Okay, on top of that I have various amounts of clients, I have various amounts of products.
On top of that I like to maintain a body in the gym. On top of that, I like to make sure
my food is on point and I'm prepping myself and I'm good to go and my nutrition is on
point and I'm fully functioning and healthy. Managing a sales team building a business
going to the gym. I mean, I got shit going on around my house, I go I'm doing stuff,
okay. And since I'm doing stuff, I don't have time to pull up my cell phone like this. I
don't have time to sit on my cell phone and talk to a woman all day. I eat like she she
could be the hottest Victoria's Secret model I've ever met in my entire life. And I don't
have time to sit there and go bla bla bla bla bla, why won't you talk to me? I don't
care if you don't want to talk to me good. That's her problem, because I got other shit
going on. Like seriously, if you were high value, you'd have stuff going on. But you
don't have stuff going on because you haven't necessarily created value within your social
circle. You haven't created value within your finances. You haven't created value within
life. You haven't created value with your social circle because of that. Do you really
expect her to actually want to come back to you? Like do you expect her to chase What
is she chasing? That brings me to point number three. Ask yourself if you can be replaced
if she can walk down the street. Number three, ask yourself if you can be replaced if she
can walk down the street and she can replace Tom she can replace frame she can replace
Henry she can replace Thomas she can replace Jake she can replace Anthony Sheikha replace
Henry. whatever your name is if she can replace you in 45 minutes at a local sports bar or
in 45 minutes at a local club or walk down the street and any Joe Blow is going to be
ready and willing to also text her also call her You have to understand you're massively
screwing up. Because you can be replaced she sees no value. If I pull a 10 out of 10 dimes,
supermodel that's feminine and flirty and cooperative and loving. I'm going to ensure
that I play my cards right to keep that Why? Because that woman is going to be very, very,
very tough to be replaced. The same goes for you as a man. So all these men she sees winning
and winning, Oh, she takes me back. Why are you not putting your time in areas that make
you higher and higher value? Everything in life is a value proposition. Which brings
me to point number four. Point number four is because everything in life is a value proposition.
It's not just your issues with women, it's strictly your issues in every area in your
whole life. I'm going to I'm going to give you three examples. Men who are needy operate
out of scarcity, right, this is the only girl I can get. This is the last girl I can get.
This is the only woman I'll ever see this is the only woman I'll ever sleep with. If
I don't sleep with her, I'm gonna have a dry spell for 18 months, whatever the case is,
that's your energy. I Garin asked to you. I guarantee you, every guy who acts like that
their money is not where they want it to be. their mindset is not where they want to be.
their social circle is not where they want it to be. I'm going to give you an example.
When it comes to finances, when it comes to my products, when it comes to the things I
built, I fundamentally tell myself, I will never I like I'll never lose because I fundamentally
believe I have enough value that the people I'm serving need my product need my service
need what I'm doing far more than I need them. So because of that I operate out of leverage.
Okay, that's key when it comes to women. I fundamentally believe that I probably can't
be replaced for her that easy, right? I'm no Jeff Bezos Warren Buffett NASCAR driver.
What's his name, Jeff Gordon, like I'm not, I'm not some supermodel celebrity male figure,
right. But what I'm doing is I'm putting in the work. I'm chasing excellence. I'm doing
the things that in theory should lead me down a very good route and a very good path. I
advise you to do the same with women when they see that once again, I'm operating out
of a standpoint of leverage. If you don't like it, if you don't like me, well, then
goodbye. Because I'm sure I'll find another woman in like a few days by Tuesday that will,
that's the attitude you want to have. The last is going to be your lifestyle. If friends
are exiting your life. If friends are flaking on you, a friends are not respecting your
time. If friends are constantly exiting, you have to understand you probably haven't created
enough value in that social circle where you're respected. Everything is interlinked. This
is why I call it full stack. Which means if you're a man struggling to become full stack,
I advise you to do one thing and one thing only. Go down below and book a call with my
brother Cole. Because if you're a good fit for that, here's what's going to happen not
only you're going to work one on one with me, but you're going to actually get my exclusive
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value full sack man, living the dating life of your dreams with the quality of woman that
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are no longer tied to the scarcity, weak, needy emotional mentality. And finally, what
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