You know what I find funny, that the tactics that we used when we were small children are
so similar to the ones that we use today when it comes to dating.
What I'm talking about here is flirting.
Remember back in the day when you were a young little man and you were on the playground
and you would make fun of the girl that you liked or the girl that you had a crush on
you would make fun of you and tease you.
Teasing was this weird form of secretly saying "I liked you".
The same thing applies today.
When you are 18.
When you are 30.
When you are 50.
When you are 70.
Some of the same rules apply.
There are a few things that women say a lot.
They've said it to me when I was dating a bunch.
They say it to my clients that I work with.
And they see it and it sounds like it could come off as mean or rude and really what they're
doing is they're flirting with you and this is 100% subconscious.
That means that they're not aware that they're doing this to flirt with you.
They're not saying to themselves on a conscious level hmm, I'm going to be sort of mean to
him, I'm going to tease him, I'm going to say this so he knows that I like him.
No, that's not it.
They're just doing this, mainly because they're nervous and they're not really sure how to
react so it comes off in this kind of rude way.
But really, they mean it in a nice way.
We're going to give you the top 5, the most common things that women say to you that are
mean, but they're actually showing interest.
The biggest one of all is shut up.
I want to be very clear here.
These things that I'm saying to you, it's not going to be in a harsh tone.
Tone plays a big part of it.
If a girl says to you shut up, will you shut up!
And her face is crinkled like this and she's giving a lot of negative energy into it like
shut up.
That's not flirting.
But she might say oh shut up and she's got a smile on her face.
Or she's gonna touch you a little bit oh shut up.
Oh shut up.
Oh stop it.
Stop and shut up.
That is her flirting with you.
This is going to be in response to something you might be saying.
By the way, she might be saying this over text.
But mainly this is going to be imperson.
Shut up, stop, stop it.
With a big smile on her face.
She's not literally telling you to shut up.
She's not literally telling you to stop.
But this is her reaction to you saying something.
Usually the reaction in this case and in some of the other examples I'll be giving you today
is when you're flirting with her.
If you're flirting with her and you're saying something to her and you're teasing her a
little bit, she's gonna say shut up, shut up.
So I want you to pay attention to this because if you see that she's doing this, if you see
that she's flirting, this means you can use dominance to take the interaction to the next
level and keep pushing it forward and keep showing just a little bit of interest in her
and making sure that you're taking the interaction further along so it can go somewhere.
Maybe that's a date, maybe that's in the bedroom, whatever it may be.
But pay attention to the signs.
All right, let's go to the next one.
This is going to be her calling you out on being cocky or showing off a little bit.
She's almost giving you this weird backhanded compliment.
And it's gonna sound kind of harsh.
It's not something you necessarily want to hear from someone but you do in this context.
Because in this context, it's flirting.
The first one is you're such a player.
She's saying that you're a player or she's basically putting you in that category of
player.
This might sound out of context because you're probably like what the heck am I gonna say
when she's going to say that?
Sometimes it's nothing, sometimes you're just being really good at flirting or very charismatic
and she'll call you a player.
I've been called a player before and it's funny because at first I thought it was something
that was harsher.
She was calling me out.
But at the end of the day, we moved the relationship forward and we hooked up so she didn't really
care.
She was just teasing.
And I think she actually secretly liked it.
So she's saying that you're a player.
Another thing is she's gonna say you think you're so cool?
Like oh, you think you're so cool don't you?
She's gonna call you out on you being a very suave guy.
Calling you player, calling you cool, saying something like you think everyone loves you
don't you?
These are things where she's saying it and it sounds like she's attacking you a little
bit.
And even if she says in a harsh tone, like you're a player or you think everyone likes
you don't you.
Even this one if she's doing a little bit harsh.
This is her flirting with you.
This is her showing interest.
This is her calling you out because secretly she doesn't want you to be arrogant.
She doesn't want you to be a player.
But on this biological level, I know it sounds so strange, she does because it shows that
you are a valuable guy that people like and people want.
Make sure you're paying attention to this, this one category here; player, you're so
cool or calling you out for being suave or charismatic.
The opposite is true too.
Imagine if she calls you out on being a dweeb or a dork or sort of an insulting term that's
calling you a loser.
But she's doing it in this playful way.
She can even say that like you're such a loser or whatever.
This one is a little bit different if she's saying it to you in a way where she goes you're
a dork or you're a loser or something like that.
That means she's probably telling you the truth there in terms of her thoughts and feelings.
I'd say that's a very rare circumstance you're ever going to have that.
Usually it's gonna be like you're such a dork, you're such a dweeb.
Oh my god, you're such a loser.
But she does it with a smile on her face.
Again this is her teasing you.
When a person teases and I tell you all the time, you got to make sure that you're doing
these light teases too when you're talking to girl and flirting with her.
These light teases are her way of subconsciously flirting and showing interest.
I know it sounds so wacky and so wild and so counterintuitive to what you might think.
But this is just how it goes.
I think one of the reasons why this occurs is because people are too nervous to show
actual intentions like "I like you" or "you're pretty" or "you're cool" or the girls says
"I think I really like you" or "I think you're an awesome guy".
Of course that can happen sometimes but people are nervous to show that and be so vulnerable
and put all their cards out there.
So in this weird way, it's like they make up for it by doing the complete opposite because
they're not sure exactly what to do so sometimes they'll do that.
Alright I have two more for you and they're similar, let's get into it.
The next one is you're the worst.
That's a common one.
I know that sounds similar to the other ones because it's a tease, but this one happens
a lot.
I don't know why but women always say that.
It's just such a common thing when they go you are the worst, you are the worst.
They just say that.
It's a common phrase these days.
You're the worst.
Of course, you might not necessarily say it.
But when she says it, she's flirting with you 100%.
You're the worst.
Really she's telling you, I'm into you and you're the best.
I'm going to give you the next one in just a second here.
This next one is a really big flirt and sometimes women will say this and it's not meant on
a literal level.
This is a flirt.
It's not necessarily a tease.
This is a different category.
Before I get into that, I just want to remind you what we're talking about here is flirting.
And a lot of guys are probably like yeah, this is cool.
But I want to know how to flirt with her.
How do I flirt with her instead of just reading the signs that she's interested in me?
Well I have a whole module in my Hooked program that's called Effortless Flirting.
This is an hour video inside of the Hooked program that teaches you everything you need
to know to flirt with a woman and tease her and specific examples of what to say and you
can find that like I said in the Hooked program and you can find the Hooked program at www.getherhooked.com.
I'll put a link in the description down below.
A lot of guys are getting this program now because they're tapping into this so they
can study it so when they go back out there and they're meeting women, this is going to
help them.
I urge you to do the same.
Go to the description.
Get to www.getherhooked.com so you can learn how to flirt to within this bigger program.
Here's the last one.
It is "you're so bad for me".
A woman will say that, she'll go you're so bad for me or you're bad for me or she'll
say like this is not gonna work out.
You're bad for me.
This is bad news.
You're trouble.
You're bad.
She's saying that even if she says in a harsher tone like no, this is bad, your bad for me
like you're bad for me, this is trouble.
She means that she's starting to become attracted to you but she's not sure about you yet, but
she can't help her primal desire for you so she will say that to you.
A lot of times this is said I feel like over text message because it's such a flirty thing
to say that women might have a hard time saying it in person because they know it's flirty.
It's not necessarily meant to be literal where she's saying you're bad for me, go away, stop
talking to me.
She's just kind of like I'm in the middle of being seduced by you and and I like it
but you're bad for me because of whatever so and so reasons, whatever it may be.
When she says that she actually means that she really likes you.
Pay attention to that one.
Have you ever heard these?
I'm really curious legit.
Tell me down below in the comments.
Have you heard any of these?
If you have, tell me which one you've heard before.
Tell me which one you've heard before.
I have them right here.
I'll do a little recap.
It's shut up, something around you're such a player, another thing around you're such
a dweeb, another one you're the worst and the fifth one is you're so bad or you're trouble.
If you've heard that, write it down below.
I'm curious to hear which ones you have heard.
And I'll be in the comments down below as well.
Don't forget, get the Hooked program today.
Link in the description.
Get Her Hooked dot com so we can help you with flirting and get to the point where you're
flirting so much that she's going to say one of these things to you.
It works like a charm.
I'll see you on the next video.