Step 1: Don’t be a pussy.
Seriously dude, just stop being a pussy.
Think about it like this… you think the fact that you’re shy and nervous when you
talk to girls makes you special?
This is one of the most basic caveman emotions.
Every one of your caveman ancestors was nervous to talk to the girl they wanted to bang, and
they still did it…
Even now in the present, you don’t think every other guy in the world is nervous and
shy when talking to girls?
What’s your excuse?
What makes you special?
Your feelings are temporary.
Your actions are forever.
Your feelings are only as important as you make them out to me.
Mind over matter.
There are people out there in the world with real issues, and you over here jerking off
in the corner because you’re too scared to approach the girl you like.
In the grand scheme of the universe, you think your feelings of shyness are so important
that they’re an excuse not to take action and go for the girls and life you want?
Pshhh OK then bro… you might be a lost cause.
Now if you’re still too scared to do that, then here are some more practical pointers
to work to your advantage.
Step 2: Turn it into an advantage… go up and literally tell the girl “Hey I was kind
of nervous to talk to you because I’m normally shy but here I am…
I’m Zeus.”
And you can say it in a confident way because it’s actually true, you are currently nervous,
so you can be confident that you’re telling the truth.
You’d be surprised how often being this honest works.
It’s authentic, it doesn’t seem fake, and is just real.
The authenticity that comes with that makes the girl feel comfortable and safer with you
because if you’re willing to be that honest from the start then it shows that you have
strong character.
Being vulnerable and honest like that makes you more human and more relatable.
Now you don’t wanna go up and be like “hey i’m a huge pussy and my heart was pounding
coming over here and i’m sweating just talking to you now and don’t know what to say ugh
help” Don’t get carried away bro… because that’s
just weird and it puts pressure on the girl to carry the conversation.
Step 3: Work on your confidence.
If you’re shy or nervous it’s because you’re not comfortable with something about
yourself.
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Step 4: Meet girls on dating apps like tinder, hinge, and bumble.
The most anxiety inducing part about meeting girls, is well, meeting girls.
The first few minutes when you have to approach and start the conversation.
Using dating apps relieves all that pressure and makes it easier for you to have good game
and show your personality.
Hinge works well for shy guys as well because it’s easy to show your personality because
of the way the app is setup, so if you’re not on Hinge then I suggest trying that one
out… but I mean c’mon knowing you horny motherfuckers, you’ve probably downloaded
every single dating app in the app store by now.
Step 5: Put yourself in situations where you’ll naturally meet girls
Take classes, go to events, and join activities where you’ll be more likely to meet girls.
If you’re a shy dude this is a good way to ease into meeting girls because it creates
common ground and makes starting conversations way more natural.
And that’s it.
I’ll have a summary on screen now.
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