hey insider I hope you are doing well I wanted to drop this quick video today
where I'm going to be breaking down the three things successful people will never
do again and the reason being is yesterday I had the fortune of actually
being invited to one of the top universities in England called UCL and I
am saying this to you right now but I'm saying when you are when you've got an
investor in front of you and you can't communicate your message well they're
not gonna buy it some people that they just haven't practiced enough and I
wanted to realize I'm not a natural I've just practiced every single week on
camera on in the mirror in fact just the year ago I wasn't able to speak on the
stage and through mentorship getting the right training I was able to become an
international speaker in fact it's one of the top in the world and I was giving a
guest lecture to people who are studying PhD masters in entrepreneurship and one
of the questions I was being asked is in regards to what I've learned from
transforming my life where I used to be dead broke to creating a life of
freedom and abundance as well as what I've learned from interviewing the greatest
leaders and connecting with the world's most successful people on this planet
the likes of billionaires and millionaires and that's why in today's
video I wanna break down to you the three things successful people will
never do again because one of the things I realize that this was what I shown
yesterday at UCL is you have to realize instead of you trying to reinvent the
wheel trying to figure your own way out realize that the path has been walked
before and there's a great Chinese proverb says to know the road ahead ask
those that are coming back and so instead of you wondering what should I
do and lacking clarity it's important you immerse yourself in education like
the ones we provide a success insider that way you don't have to repeat the
same mistakes that can cost you years to try yourself and so I want you to write this
down if you if you've got notepad in front of you I want you to write down
that experience can be timely and costly sometimes people just wanna try things
themselves and just hope that things work out okay but the reality is is that
could just spend like that could waste so much time and money and resources in
achieving whatever result you wanna get so instead I find so important to
really immerse yourself in right education so that's why I went to pay close
attention and without further ado let's go into the first point which is all
about successful people will never go back to the thing that has not worked
before think about that it sounds so obvious it sounds like
common knowledge but one of the things I realize is common knowledge is not
necessarily the common practice most people I found across the globe they
know so much but they do so little what does it really mean in regards to not
going back to the thing that hasn't worked before think about it in regards
to your life what have you tried let's talk about life for example in regards
of personal development in regards to the routines cause that I believe is a very
key fundamental that you gotta master for example morning routine evening
routine and that's why we've created so many videos to do that do with that on
success insider by the way if you've not watched those videos before make
sure to click over to success insider on YouTube and watch all of the videos
are posted on morning rituals evening rituals so let's talk about just that
for a moment just that element because we could just talk about this and different
elements and we'll be here for many many hours and I'm I've got time to do just
that right now so let's for example just say about morning routine what have you
tried in the past that has resulted in you feeling slump maybe you felt a bit
tired throughout the day maybe for example you woke up in the first thing you did
was check your mobile phone you're just on your phone constantly just tick tick
tick tick tick check any emails and maybe what ends up happening was you you
just like got like the bad news for the email and that created like a big open
loop meaning you was thinking about it for the rest of the day and your energy
levels as a result is slowly declining opposed to slowly inclining so think
about it most people I find they never systemize their life where for example
they write down in there journal this is what doesn't work this is what resulted
in me feeling slumped what happens is they create this into a negative habit
because they're not conscious of this turning to a habit and they'll keep on
repeating it for rest of their life constantly checking their mobile every
single morning without really thinking about the constant quest nor think about
how long they've been actually playing upon this habit same in regards to your
business what have you tried before that's not essentially failed because I
find so many business owners there repeating the same thing over and over
again because they've not really systemized properly and so that's one
way to realize a first point is to never go back to what's not working
if for example the way you're purchasing life right now maybe you're shy maybe
you're like me back in the past if you know being shy is not serving you stop
going back to it find out the solution go get a mentor that can teach you
how to be confident that's what I did you've got to realize if you keep on
repeating the same thing as Einstein once said insanity is doing the same thing
and over and over expecting different results so you've got to do something
differently in order to get to that next level in fact one of my mentors shared
this with me when I was in my early businesses
he said Tim what got you to here in your life isn't going to get you to where you
want to be you have to forget everything you know in order for you to get to that
next level and that's what I want you to realize right now second thing successful
people will never do again is to choose short-term comfort versus long-term gain
okay what does that really mean what is to realize that most successful people
they are able to postpone their pleasure okay to continue with their processes to
finally get the results that they want in other words the difference between
the rich and the poor is the poor just do something for instant gratification
so for example they'll grab a Bob sugary chocolate because they just want that
high instantly while successful people realize for example that little
chocolate bar may not seem like a lot only couple I don't know a couple hundred
calories but is those little habits that played upon every single day that is
what dictates the bigger overall picture it is those millimeter of differences
that you're doing every single day that's resulting in the bigger picture
and that's why you have to get comfortable with being uncomfortable
for example I've shown this with the UCL students yesterday I'm saying how I'm
speaking to you and I was you know the one of the feedback that I got actually
after the lecture it was one of the lecturers came to me and said Tim that
was one of the most energetic lecturers I've ever seen in this entire in this
into that entire class and it's because I've been through with the right training in
regards to public speaking training you know I've been speaking to all across
the globe now international speaker and so forth but the present as a result of
that and one of the things I'll say is when I was learning how to speak which
was a just over a year ago it was hard honestly it was not easy to become a
speaker and yet what did I do I didn't give up right do you think I
jumped on the stage for the first time and thought oh my god this is amazing so
comfortable of course not every single time my heart's like boom boom boom but
I still have to push myself and I'm up in the stage and I'm forgetting what to
say and I'm going through all of this all of this short term pain but then I'm going
to look getting the long term return which is what I get to serve I'll get to
impact millions of people in fact just on YouTube allowing success insider's
message has almost reached 18 million people and that wouldn't have happened
if I would have given in to the short-term comfort and so that's what
I want you to realize the second point is to never give in to the short-term
comfort you're gonna look at the long term and you've got to be willing to
delay the gratification because broke people are always looking for that
instant gratification and realize there was no such thing in life such as
get-rich-quick overnight success you know one of the things I realized is
successful people are rewarded in public for something that they've been
practicing behind the scenes for many many years so you've got to keep at it
and realize this is not a sprint this is a long duration race so you've got to be
persistent now is that pretty cool by the way okay great stuff let's go on to
the final point mmm which is successful people will never become a people's
pleaser what does that mean well I find so many people especially when they're
new to this world of entrepreneurship or for example young students who are
wanting to be more successful in their life they're not making decisions for
themselves they're making decisions because are their parents told them to
do it their parents told them to go into a specific career their parents said oh
this is not the right thing to do and they've been conditioned by the society
to really just listen to their head opposed to their heart you see I don't know
what you want the person who really does is guess who
is you but the problem is is you are looking at that outer world looking for
the verification when in fact you know deep inside when you strip away all of
the layers of the onion your heart knows exactly what you want but the problem is
you're always giving into that little voice that's just talking out of stuff
that's the very thing that keeps you in the comfort zone you know that little
voice that says you're not good enough that little voice that says but what if
what if it goes wrong well what if let me ask you what if it
goes right what if it goes right because our mind remember is always gonna
look at the negative that's the way we've been conditioned as primal
creatures we have to look at the negative because we've designed to
survive the question is are you giving into this because by being in people's
pleaser there you'll never get to follow your heart and take action and truly
create the life you're born to live this is why it for example I get the people
who reach success many millions of dollars unfulfilled they get to the top
of Mount Everest thinking yeah that's success they get to the top of the
amount of another success that they've vision their mind and they think yeah
that must be success they get to the top thinking yeah I must feel great then
they get to top only to realize they wanna jump off just as quick and this
happens because they've been listening to other people trying to please other
people and not trying to please themselves the question I wanna ask you is
what do you really really want what is your heart saying and remember your
heart it's like a little whisper it's a feeling it's intuition but your your
little head your head is gonna be just constantly talking louder loud that's why I
recommend that you do morning routines easy routines to calm this little voice
chatterbox that's been talking new out of opportunities for most of your life
and that's why I recommend you check out more videos on success insider to do
rituals and routines and so that is the third point
stop being a peoples pleaser and realize also if I was gonna give you one
final quote at point before I need to go is you need to know the
difference between advice and opinion for example your friends your neighbors
the people you'd bump into the starbucks they're more than happy to give you
opinion right think about it people create a business idea nowadays and they
go to their parents they're like oh what'd you think of this they're more
than happy to give you an opinion most often not they'll be like are you crazy
right don't be thinking that's not possible
but then why is it if you go to somebody who's reached success somebody who's
dreaming big then instead of saying this is impossible
they're saying how can we make it happen think about that is because there's a
big difference between opinion and advice the problem is I find people kind
entwine the two thinking they're the same thing what advice is advice comes
from somebody who's walked a path opinion comes from people
you maybe surround yourself on a day-to-day basis who's just got an
opinion about something who've never really walked the talk and
I want you to realize this never try to get know the opinions because you'll be
more confused get a mentor go invest in a mentor and then go ask for the advice
because that is if you're gonna in be for example asking for advice because I
do recommend yeah don't don't just try to do everything solo because there is
no such thing as a solopreneur beyond every entrepreneur there is a pack of
team empowering team at that and so if you are gonna get an advice make sure
it's a right advice as well okay does this make sense by the way okay great
stuff so I hope this helped these are the three things successful people will
never do again let me just recite the number the first
thing is never repeat the same mistake stop doing the thing that hasn't worked
in the past stop repeating it it's not serving you it's not serving anybody on
any level the second thing is never choose short-term comfort versus long-term
potential gain okay the third is to never become a people's pleaser
follow heart my friend always and take action on what feels right because at the
end of it all think about it you do not wanna be full of regrets in regards to
what if what if I were to quit my 9-5 and going all into a business my
passion what if for example I would have aligned my business with my future
vision aligned with my values what if I was able to provide my family
my loved ones with the things that they were really really really want that's
what we want at the end of the day we want to be aligned at the end of our lives and we
don't wanna be full of excuses so make sure you take action on what you've
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going to transform the world okay amazing stuff insider I just wanna say
thank you so much for checking out today's video and as always follow your
heart my friend and take action and go create the life you're truly born to
live I'll see you on the next video soon take care