Hey, we just finished our fourth filming of {The And} B: And they gave us this wonderful {And} packet which is a family edition so
Sid and I get together with family all the time, and you know the card game before--
S [laughing]: That sounds way too much like an infomercial.
B: Sorry! Alright, try again! [laughing]
S: "we got this {And} pack".
B: I actually was excited to try it with you!
What's the first thing you noticed about me?
You weren't white. L: [laughs]
I was real' nervous about that.
Me too! Me too! [both laugh]
Okay!
Do you go on a lot of dates with white people?
No! Not at all. [laughs]
Okay.
[laughs]
How many people do you think I've slept with?
Ten to fifteen?
No!
No, okay alright! You don't even have to add-- okay, alright.
[both laugh]
If you had to seduce me how would you do it, and why?
Uhmmm....
Probably food,
music;
But we're like going out dancing, like probably something like that.
Can you dance?
Not well.
But can you dance?
I think so. L: What kind of dance? J: Like kind of move along under a disco ball. [both laugh]
There's not like a formal style. L: Can you salsa?
I've taken classes. L: Uuuuhhh, okay.
I'm not like great, but I might be competent.
Can you dance? L: No! [laughs] J: Can you salsa?
Rarely [laughs]
Are you trying to learn?
Absolutely!
What kind of person do you think I'm looking for?
Uhm... Socially conscious, funny [both laugh] - it's the first thing that you think of.
That's was correct.
Is it spot on?
Yeah that's cool!
What do you think is my type?
Maybe the artist type - sensitive people.
--Sensitive?
In touch with their emotions.
-Uugh
It's not?
--Sounds uncomfortable.
I know right?! Emotions are weird. L: Very strange, yeah! J: mm-hmm
What is your type? L: Uhmm.. I don't know. J: Me neither. L: I don't really have a type. Shoutout to Rae Sremmurd.
[both laugh]
That line was in my head!
[both laugh]
What do you think I'm insecure about?
Maybe the hair?
Just--
Black man in the working world with like actual, like natural hair--
Could be a bit of an insecurity even though you keep it, but sometimes
It makes you feel a little like "Oh do I look professional enough?" like-- J: Yeah, spot-on! L: Okay, cool.
What's yours?
Honestly, probably the same. I get anxiety every time I go to work and I changed my hair.
I'm just like "Oh god, what questions am I gonna get today?".
No one touches your hair though, right?!
Oh, they do! J: Oh shit. L: I keep a tally of it on like a--
What's it up to?
Uhm, I think the record is 12 in one day. J: In one day??! L: Yeah, crazy. J: Oh my god, that's a lot!
Yeah, I know.
I know, we don't talk about it, it's fine.
Maybe we should talk about it?
[both laugh]
Get a Solange poster or something.
L: Right?! J: Yeah. L: Don't touch my hair.
Yeah, let's be-- Just [don't] read it and they'll know.
Yeah, that's right. That's so funny.
If you had a daughter what advice would you give her regarding love and relationships?
Take care of yourself.
Don't be like
some dudes prop or like emotional punching bag - a lot of guys
don't know how to deal with their own shit, so-- L: Okay J: --they use girls as like objects to deal with shit.
So probably that. Be honest with yourself and don't let someone just take advantage of you.
Oh gosh. Yeah. J: No fuck boys allowed, I guess.
It's real. J: Yeah - wait, what about you?
Advice for a daughter?
Yeah!
Don't trust them until they prove that they can be trusted.
How do you prove that?
I have no idea, but figure it out. You'll feel it.
--You'll know?
You just know.
J: Intuition. L: Yes J: Alright.
What is the most interesting place, you've been intimate with someone?
Mmmh...
Laundry room?! J: Laundry room, that's cool!
L: Is it? J: Is that boring? L: Is it boring? I don't know if it's boring.
Laundry room like in a dorm?
Yeah, oh my god you're just spot on. [laughs]
There's no-- I don"t know how many laundry rooms--
That's the only time you would ever do that any--
Yeah, not like in an apartment building- L: [laughs] Noo J: --that could be a lot. It's like, it's bad.
Right, but in a dorm it's just kind of like I'm just trying to do my laundry
and like okay
I'm gonna let it happen so it's comfortable.
Yeah, what about you?
Ehmm, my old job - I worked at a radio station - like the storage closet.
With a guest or like with someone who actually--
No someone, who worked there. L: Ohhh J: Another person that worked there. L: Ohh nice.
Not a guest at a radio station - that would have been really interesting. L: Yes.
Cool.
I don't think I have the ability to like pick up guests in a radio.
What would your last partner warn me about you?
Damn!
I guess,-- I just like don't really talk about my feelings.
That was a big issue.
Just kind of keep things to myself.
Same.
Yeah? Oh wow, okay. What about you though?
Probably something like similar to that. I would rely on more like my male friends to talk about my feelings compared to my partner.
Which is like, I guess, frustrating.
Yeah for sure. J: Yeah. L: Okay.
Cool.
What about me would make you want to come back from war?
You're funny, you have good vibes and purple, which is my favorite color.
Oh wow cool!
Yeah..
Thank my stylist!
What do you think I learned from you today?
That...
All blind dates might be awkward, but they don't have to be boring [laughs].
Yeah, that's true. L: I don't know. [laughs]
They definitely don't have to be boring, I don't know.
They're interesting. That's my first one, I think.
Me too! Yeah.
Do you feel chemistry right now?
Uhhh...yeah.
That's a weird last question.
Yeah, it is - so strange!
Sort of knew it was coming though, that kind of makes sense. [both laugh]
Yeah, somewhat.
Yeaah, cool.
Yeah, I'm into it, I guess. L: Yeah. J: Nice. Wanna get a drink?
Sure. [laughs]
Cool!
Okay cool! [laughs]
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