Only a Super Empath Can Dismantle a Narcissist
Empaths are not wimps.
Empaths are not victims.
And empaths are often quite assertive—they just do so in a way that doesn't attract a
lot of attention.
They cannot only overcome a narcissist's world-views and take control of the relationship, but
they could also slowly become the perfect embodiment of a narcissist.
Empaths also possess so many other traits that they become the narcissists' narcissists
First of all who is an empath?
and what exactly qualifies a narcissist?
For the former, it makes sense for empaths to be assertive, to some degree.
They're in charge of their own emotions, after all; they don't have to react to other people's
emotions if they don't want to.
If they want to get something done, they can just do it themselves.
They aren't pushovers either—but then again, no one ever said that getting pushy is always
a good idea.
An empath can usually get their way without offending anyone, by understanding what the
other person wants and giving it to them.
If someone else has a problem with that, the empath can try explaining their point of view—but
if that doesn't work out well, the empath can just walk away from the whole thing and
leave the other person feeling guilty for being unable to deal with the situation in
an adult manner.
Or an empath could simply avoid conflict altogether by walking away.
As a result, most of the time when an empath does get into a conflict it's because they
can't help themselves; someone else has done.
As for narcissism, it is simply all about self-absorption.
A narcissist is someone whose self-esteem depends on the admiration of others.
Since it is not possible to admire a narcissist, and since admiration is usually gained by
making other people admire you, narcissists tend to be manipulative and deluded about
their abilities.
This is why narcissists are very common in politics.
Telling a narcissist he is a narcissist won't make him feel bad, because he already thinks
he's fabulous.
The only way he can feel bad about himself is if you make him feel bad about you.
He will try to do this by making you look small in front of others.
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Now the next question we should be asking is what defines a "super" empath.
The word empathy is derived from the German word which is difficult to pronounce but simply
means "feeling into."
But that's not really how it works.
When you're using empathy, you're not feeling your way into someone's world.
You're feeling your way out of your world and into theirs.
Most people can do this to some extent.
We all have a rough sense of what it would be like to be someone else, or at least we
think we do.
But a super-empath has turned that skill into an art.
They imagine what it would feel like to be everyone around them.
When a super empath tells you they understand you
They'll tell you they aren't being polite; they're just trying to understand things from
other people's point of view.
And they aren't faking it either: when a super-empath says they understand you, they do.
That's why they are so good at relating to other people and so bad at relating to themselves.
They are always putting on an act for themselves as much as for others.
A narcissist is someone who loves himself so much he can't stand other people having
any of the things he has.
He feels envious when they get anything good unless it comes from him.
because they feed off compliments and money,
and do favors for people who admire them.
In contrast, an empath is generous, kind, and trusting enough to provide all this to a narcissist.
Empaths might be called "tragic" people because of the way narcissists use them up
They're often silent and unhappy because they've given everything to a narcissist
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So how can a super-empath destroy the mind of a narcissist in a relationship?
Yes, an empath can do that by breaking the cycle of the domineering and the dominated.
Some experts will simply say don't give freely without expecting anything in return.
But this cycle is in of form of activities or rewards in an attempt to keep the empath closer.
The empath often stays in the relationship because they feel they need to rescue or fix the narcissist.
There is a well-known psychological phenomenon that occurs in the relationship between narcissists
It is referred to as "emotional vampires" or the "empath syndrome".
others, will seek these needs outside of him/herself.
The narcissist is an emotional vampire whose source for vital energy (narcissistic supply)
comes from external rather than internal sources.
In the case of an empath, he/she will seek out a narcissist to fulfill those needs.
The problem here is that narcissists are very difficult if not impossible to satisfy.
They have such a huge sense of entitlement that they expect everyone around them to cater
to their every need.
The empath will be expected to be there for the narcissist constantly, while at the same
time being invisible and silent in public.
The efforts of the empath will never be enough for them because what they want may be very
unreasonable or unobtainable, even though it may seem completely rational to them at
the time.
The demands placed upon an empath can be enormous and often conflict with each other.
To properly break the cycle of abuse with a narcissist, the empath at first, is already
able to recognize the signs that the relationship is toxic and dysfunctional.
Isolation from friends and family is key.
The narcissist will make excuses for why you can't spend time with them so this is where
a super-empath comes in.
The former, due to his or her social style, will see less of their friends and family
so their feelings or opinions are then validated by an empath when nobody else is there.
Another point to look out for is the obvious psychological advantage the empaths possess
over the narcissist.
By the time the narcissist has finished his tirade, the empath is usually ready to forgive
him.
However, she will let him know that if he repeats his behavior, there will be consequences.
It is only by letting the narcissist know that you are aware of his inappropriate behavior
and will not tolerate it that you can regain control in this situation.
Emotional maturity requires an ability to empathize with others and a willingness to
learn from them.
But the narcissist's self-centeredness makes it difficult for him to be empathetic, and
he will never learn from his mistakes.
So what can you do when you're dealing with a narcissist?
If the empath has tried talking about their feelings or needs but is not having any success,
they will flex their social skills by trying to listen instead.
It may feel strange at first—many empaths are not used to this role in the relationship—but
it works because it communicates that they don't need anything from the narcissist and
they're not looking for approval or acknowledgment.
Being quiet may help change the dynamic in the relationship so that narcissist no longer
feel the need to control or micromanage every detail of the relationship.
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