my friend asked me how do you become the most popular kid in high school or how
can you become popular in high school so before I get into this I want you to ask
yourself why do you want to become popular all right is it because you want
to impress a girl is it because you want to make lifelong memories in high school
is it because you want to sit on the cool table and no longer sit by the
bathroom I think that to want to become popular is too shallow of a want what I
mean by this is that maybe don't look at your high school experience as I want to
become popular maybe look at it as something more meaningful like I want to
create memories have friends that I could share those memories with so I
think by having that type of mindset is actually more beneficial then I want to
become more popular because what happens when you have that mindset of I want to
become more popular but having a mindset of I want you are then going to put
yourself into a habit of doing things in order to obtain so let's put an example
with that I want attitude or that I want mindsets into a person who wants to get
popular in high school they're going to do things that they know are not right
because they want to become popular they want to obtain popularity so they're
going to do things that are immoral but they're still gonna do it anyway because
they want to become something so as a result they become inauthentic they
become polluted in their character in order to achieve something now let's
compare that to a person who is genuinely wanting to create memories
with people they're gonna want to connect with people they're gonna want
to get to know the people that they're interacting with they're not going to be
inauthentic and trying to get something from the people that they're with
whether they're in their class where there's their friends they just want to
learn from them experience life and high
school with them so I guess what I'm trying to say is that to become popular
in high school is probably not the best want for you okay I'm just looking out
for you but maybe the best way to see it is that I want to experience high school
with as many friends as I can so if you if you look at it they see that seed now
I feel more comfortable giving you these pointers because it's more meaningful
it's more valuable to you and your life experiencing high school with friends so
how can you make more friends in high school okay let's not care about being
popular that's that's that's shallow that's weak that's
I need you to get that through your head wanting to be popular is a weak state of
mind it is a weak an invaluable want or invaluable goal instead let's see how
you can get more friends and high school more valuable friends and relationships
so step one join a club all right join a club that you are passionate about
something that you believe in whether it's a charitable Club or whether it's a
club of debate I know I mean or or the bowling club whatever join a club if not
a club join the sport in your high school that you enjoy doing the fact
that you're in high school you have a lot of extra energy all right you have
to Stas their own just coursing through your veins
so that competitive edge is naturally in you you want to compete you want to you
want to get out there if you're not already be sure to practice nofap
because it definitely gives you more time and focus into your extracurricular
activities so other than joining a club or joining
a sports definitely this is the one that you're not gonna like but its interact
with people more get out of your comfort zone and actually talk to somebody all
right the person you're seeing next to in class if you're forced to sit next to
them conversate with them asked him where they're from
ask them what school they went to before high school what they want to do after
high school you may get to know them get to know them outside of what's in front
of you guys at the moment as they make don't don't just ask them like hey
what's what's the Pythagorean theorem my Gurion theorem you could ask them that
that could definitely be the Icebreaker of a conversation but if you want more
meaningful relationships and asked him your name pets
you basically go beyond asking questions just about school and that could
honestly that that just opens up a new can of worms in dating and building
lifelong friendships like we can go from there but I just want this video to
stick on course how to make my friends in high school so yeah join a club join
us sport and practice top getting to people those are my three
tips there's definitely more tips I could probably go from there if you guys
had any tips comment down below alright I don't know let them have it
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I hope I see you guys in the next video I also hope you guys got something from
this remember wherever you are in life whatever trials you are going through
it's all uphill from here so every once again thank you so much for your time as
always god bless you