what's going on man and welcome to the Tiege Hanley channel
my name is Dave Perrotta aka the big homie dave as some of y'all might know
me this is my first video on Tiege's channel
i'm excited let's get pumped and let's go anyway
first dates let's face it they can be intimidating and if you're not mindful
about it you might not get a second one but don't
worry though we got your back in this video we're going to give you
all the tools tips and tricks that you need
to go out there impress that potential girl your dreams
and have an awesome connection let's get into it number one
is to come prepared and the first element of that
is rocking a dope outfit now you don't need to be walking in there
in some crazy style like cam newton walking into a press conference
but you should have some clothes that fit you well
and the colors reasonably match casual is usually better when it comes to the
style because it creates more of a casual fun vibe
versus something super formal which is gonna give the date a
bit of a more serious tone which isn't really conducive to having a
good relaxed time with a girl next you gotta get the hygiene on
point this means washing your hair washing your face brushing your teeth
and making sure you're out there looking fresh
smelling good and you're on top of your game if you're looking good
you're gonna feel good you're gonna play good which means you're gonna go out
there and perform well on the actual date and
really bro you should be washing your face every
single day because realistically anytime you leave the house anytime you
walk out your front door you've got a chance of meeting a sexy
girl and you want to be prepared plus it'll keep the acne and the pimples
at bay and let's face it every girl loves a guy
who takes care of their skin for me personally i use Tiege Hanley's face
wash it's easy it works well and it keeps me
feeling fresh number two is to keep it simple and man
i know a lot of guys tend to over complicate
and overthink things they try to walk through every step of the date in their
head they end up overthinking it all day driving themselves crazy i don't want
you to do that it's just going to give you a bunch of anxiety which is not
going to help you before the date what you should do instead is keep it
simple and that all starts by choosing a nice
simple and cheap date idea which is why really the
two go-to data ideas i like the most are drinks at a bar not some crazy fancy
bars gonna cost you thirty dollars a round but one even like
the local neighborhood bar is perfect for this doesn't need to be
anything crazy my second favorite simple date idea
is a walk in a park or a walk in a shopping area or a tourist area
this is going to give you guys something to do it's nice and active
and it's going to give you stuff to talk about as well which takes some pressure
off of the conversation and it's free so if you're balling out a
budget you're gonna be all set these dates are perfect because not only
are they cheap but they make it easy for you to get to know her
and see if she is a good fit for you which is the whole point in the first
place one thing you should definitely do
though is stay away from dinner dates dinner dates are the worst they honestly
should have gone out of style many many years ago i don't know how
guys are still going on dinner dates but they're terrible because they're
super formal it feels like an interview like you're sitting across them or
having this big two or three hour meal what's great about the other days
they're a lot more casual they require less investment
and they're more fun so stick with those stay away from the dinner dates
keep it simple and you'll be on the right track number three is to be
engaged a lot of guys show up to first dates with the mindset of
okay i need to do whatever i can to impress this girl let me talk about my
job my money my travels and she's just gonna be blown away she's
gonna think i'm so cool but that strategy doesn't usually work
well what works a lot better is to keep her talking for most of the time when
you get her talking about things like her hobbies
her interests her job her passions her dreams her adventures
all that type of stuff it becomes a lot more fun for her
because people actually feel a stronger connection to you
when they're talking about themselves funny how that works right but don't
just leave her talking and zone out waiting
for the next question to ask actually listen to what she says see
where you can relate back with stories and experiences from your life
and that's how you form that connection a few questions i like to ask to make
this whole process a little bit more fun is first if you can wake up anywhere in
the world tomorrow where would it be second what's your
last big adventure and third and this is a fun one what do
you find sexiest in a guy number four is to be a good guy so you
want to do things like hold the door give her your jacket if she's cold and
be courteous to the people who are serving you
because even if you might not realize it she's paying attention to your every
move and how you interact with your environment
and as long as you're combining this with the other tips we talk about here
you're not gonna come across as the hopeless nice guy for doing this
you're gonna be that courteous sexy guy who she can really vibe with and as far
as handling the bill some girls are going to be down to pay
others are not going to be but this is also why i like to choose a
much cheaper option so something that's going to come to less than twenty
dollars because that takes a lot of the pressure off
if it's less than twenty dollars you can just give your credit card it's not a
big deal but if you're taking her out to like a
two hundred dollar dinner that's when things get a little bit
tense so just like again like i said just avoid those situations keep it
simple and you're not going to have to worry
about that number five see if she's a good fit yeah you want
the date to go well but you also want to see if it's a girl
that you actually want to hang out with again
a lot of guys going to first dates feeling like the girl
is the prize like they need to put on a show to earn her attraction
but that's the wrong way to look at it you should be viewing yourself as the
prize like she's gonna be cool enough to win
you over to do this it's helpful to have a few qualities
that you're looking for in a girl so you can kind of figure out if she has
these qualities throughout the conversation and whether or not you guys
have chemistry for potential future future meetups so
for me some of these things are does she enjoy
working out because i really like girls that are into fitness
does she is she a smart girl is she an intelligent person overall that i could
have a good fun and engaging conversation
with and is she adventurous because i'm the type
of dude that likes to travel go on adventures and i like girls who
are open-minded and into that type of stuff
and if she's none of those three things well it probably isn't going to work out
that well but that's fine because at least i kind
of found out so i don't have to waste my time in the future
the good thing about this is it provides even more fodder for conversation
like you're not judging her you're just seeing what quality she has right
and it subtly asserts you as the prize which is going to make you more
attractive anyway man all of these tips are going
to help you to go out there and crush it on your first date
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will see you in the next video this one has been fun go crush it bro
i'll talk to you soon
peace