what's up guys i'm here in boracay island we're just wrapping up the Asia
trip and this is a party island
so a lot of guys hit on girls they go to the nightclubs and you know they wanna I
wanna hook up so I wanted to make this video on the proper way to hit on a girl
whether it's at a nightclub or it's during the day maybe at the beach or at
the mall or really in any situation because here's the thing hitting on a
girl can work can definitely work because it shows your intentions right
away
it shows that you're a man that you are unapologetically hitting on her that you
don't need an excuse to talk to her
you don't need to ask her some big question and hide your intentions
it's very masculine to show your intentions right away but the problem is
most guys do it the wrong way
most guys go to the girl and they start gushing
oh my god you're so beautiful wow are you a model that doesn't work that's
just too much too soon
or they do cat calls they whistle at the girl walking by or they just yell at her
damn beautiful
where's your man at for that one several times as i'm walking down the street and
it just doesn't work
I don't think it's ever worked ever for in any situation where the girl was like
oh thank you and comes walking back to the guy or the construction worker cat
calls don't work so there is a way to hit on a girl that does work and first
of all you have to come from a place that's very grounded
ok so you have to be very calm very centered
take a deep breath that will keep you from overdoing it from gushing and from
causing your tonality go way up is if you your tonality goes way up you sound
like you're overly excited
wow you're so beautiful oh my god
instead it should come from a place
we're just really relaxed like you're talking to your best friend or you're
already talking to your lover
that's how it should snap i'll give you an example in just a second okay
second of all it also depends on what words you use
if you say wow you're so hot or wow you're so sexy
that's a little bit over doing it it sounds a little bit sleazy you don't
want to come off as sleazy you want to come off as genuine and sincere like
you're giving her just a really sincere compliment that you really mean it
and when you do it the right way and use a compliment
such as beautiful gorgeous adorable cute or stunning or even pretty
you're really going to sweep her off her feet it's really gonna make her day
because believe it or not whatever you think you think women get most guys
think women get hit on all the time and you know any situation when they're
shopping or when they're at the beach like hear that they just get hit on
constantly if they're really really attractive and it's not the case
even at some bars and clubs a lot of bars and clubs
I asked women like how many guys have approached you how many guys hit on you
and it's usually a lot of times is none the answer is none
now it does depend on the time of night and also what kind of Club it is if it's
two in the morning or if it's later and it's a pack club and the alcohol was
flowing then of course you know guys have a little bit more liquid liquid
courage but earlier in the night especially if it's not a pack club where
they're afraid that other guys are going to see them they don't approach very
much guys for the average guy just doesn't approach or hit on a girl that
much in fact i read this i don't remember i read this but i believe it's
true
the average guy approaches for women in in his entire life
sober so we basically hits on for women in his entire life when he's sober so in
more of a daytime situation like this
so you have the advantage you just have the balls to do it but you gotta do it
the right way so just to recap
you got to use the right compliment don't overdo it and use and say you're
sexy or you're so hot
round yourself lower your tonality make sure it doesn't go up at the end and
it's going to work really really well
I'll give you an example right now
hey real quick
this is totally random but I just saw you walking
I just saw you are absolutely adorable
I had to come say hi
glass back
I submission
ok so see how that would work much better than saying hey beautiful oh my
god you're so hot
stop doing that guys it just doesn't work
ok so notice in that example I slow down
I was taking my time I was very very comfortable was relaxed my tone Ali
didn't go up at the end like I was so excited and if you do something like
that
I guarantee you it's going to work now at a bar situation where it's really
loud bar club
that's not going to work as well because you don't want to have all those pauses
so you're just going to be more relaxed like you're just like it's your friend
so something like hey you're cute what's your name
but notice my tonality I'm still not going up i'm not saying hey you're so
beautiful what's your name
I'm not that excited to go ahead you're cute what's your name
try it out let me know how it works
now what do you do after that there's a lot of things that you can do after the
compliment
after you hit on her that work and of course there's a lot of things you can
do that don't work so I'm going to teach you exactly what to do after you start
the conversation after you hit on her
I got a special link below click on that link and i'm going to show you
step-by-step how to go from the initial approach and how to get over approach
anxiety all the way to the first date and further
so go ahead click the link right now and i'll see you there
and in the meantime make sure to subscribe to our channel we got a lot
more tips coming up for you and I look forward to seeing you next time
again my name is Matt artist him from the attractive man peace