Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on signs she likes you. This
is how women pursue men. Have you ever felt like you have to do all the pursuing, like it's always
the man's job to pursue? What most men don't realize is women totally pursue, like totally,
it just looks different from what most men think it should look like. And the guys who can
tell that she's pursuing, those are the guys who get their dream girl, instead of struggling and
being really confused. So you want to be one of the guys who understands what it looks like when
a woman pursues, right? So make sure you watch to the end of this video because each of these
things that I'm going to share with you are super super important. So pay close attention. Now
before we dive into the signs she likes you and how to know if she's pursuing you, if this is your
first time watching one of my videos, welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for
men. I teach you how to stop wasting your time and energy on bad relationships by learning the skills
that get you your dream girl and your dream relationship. The best part is as a certified
coach I do not teach you mind games. I teach you science based facts. So make sure you subscribe,
ring the notification bell, and give me a big thumbs up. Okay, signs she likes you how women
pursue men. The very first thing you need to understand and we all kind of understand it
but we don't realize it, women are feminine. Makes sense, right? Men are masculine. That is why we
are attracted to each other. So what this means is if you try to take away her femininity or if
you try to give away your masculinity that's going to ruin the attraction. That's going to cause an
unbalanced relationship. You instead want a happy relationship, a healthy relationship, right? You
certainly want her to stay feminine and you want to keep your masculinity, right? This is why women
are going to pursue you differently than how you pursue her. You are going to pursue her in a very
masculine way, and that's what women need, okay? That's how God created women. Women need to be
pursued by a man. That's what makes us attracted to you, that's what makes her feel safe, that's
what makes her see you as a man. She needs that. But if you expect her to pursue you the same way
you would pursue her you're going to be frustrated because she's not going to do it. As a matter of
fact research shows that if a woman pursues a man that way, in the same way you would pursue her,
she doesn't feel safe, she doesn't feel feminine, she has to sacrifice her femininity to do that.
She takes on masculine traits to try and feel safe and pretty soon it's just it's not a good
situation. She's not attracted to you the same way. So this is why the way a woman pursues
you is going to be different. Making sense so far? So some of the things we talk about may
sound a little funny to you at first and it's simply because this is how in a feminine way
she pursues you. If she's doing these things these are signs that she likes you. So let's
get started with the first sign that she likes you, first way she pursues, and that is through
her body language. If you've been following me for a while now you guys know I teach you guys about
body language all the time. And the reason why is it is insanely powerful. What body language is,
is when we feel something you can see it in our bodies. You can tell if somebody's angry,
if they're happy, if they're cold, if they're hangry. Sometimes you can tell just by looking at
what they're doing with their bodies. The best part is, is we don't really know we're doing it,
right? This means you can know how she feels about you without her even knowing that you know.
That's pretty cool, right? If she's interested in you, you are going to see it in her body language.
Now sometimes she's not even necessarily trying to hide it. That is often how she'll pursue you. For
instance, one of the most common body language signs a woman will send to you is if she makes
eye contact with you a lot and smiles. This is especially true if she, you know, catches your eye
and looks down. That is one of the biggest signs that she's like, "hey, you should come talk to
me. Hey, you're like really cute." That is one of the best signals a woman can send that she thinks
you're attractive. That is her way of trying to pursue you. What pursuing usually looks like
from a woman's perspective is being very very inviting, letting you know, "hey,
come talk to me. Hey, you should ask me out. Hey, I enjoy spending time with you." She's going to
be very very inviting. If you have not yet seen this video on body language signs of attraction
you need to check it out. I will put a link in the description below. As you study this body
language you're at first you might be like, "I've never seen a woman do that ever." But as you start
paying attention you'll pick it up and you'll be like, "oh my goodness, she's showing signs that
she likes me." That's pretty cool, isn't it? Okay the next sign she likes you and how she pursues
you is when she's very engaged and very invested whenever she talks to you. So if you notice she
gets really excited when she talks to you, that she looks forward to seeing you, maybe she even
looks for you at places where she could expect to see you, if you notice that she's really invested
and she's asking you questions and trying to get to know you better that is how she pursues. Again,
as a woman, she's pursuing by being very inviting, letting you know she enjoys talking to you,
she wants to spend time with you. And so if you notice that she seems really excited and really
encouraging about talking to her and spending time with her, yeah, that's like, that's huge. Okay,
at this point you might be thinking, "great, I'm starting to understand how women pursue.
But what next?" Have you ever wondered that? Like what do you do next? What do you do if you see
she's interested in you? Because you don't want to mess it up, right? If you saw this video you
know that there are some very very easy mistakes that cause the attraction to die and you don't
want that. Instead, you want to increase that attraction, right? You want to make attracting
her really simple really automatic and really powerful, right? Well in order to do that what
you need is a game plan. That is how you make sure that it doesn't go terribly wrong but instead you
really attract her. I'm going to teach you about that game plan in my free masterclass. There's
a link in the description below. I will also put a link in the pinned comment. If you want to set
yourself up for success do yourself a favor right now and watch that free masterclass. Seriously,
click the link down below. I'll see you over there. It's like a party, it'll be awesome. Check
it out. Okay, the next sign she likes you and an additional way that she's going to pursue you
is if she suggests that you do things together or if she talks about doing things together with you.
This is one of the most bold signs a woman can send. "Hey, we should do that sometime." That is
basically her saying, "dude, ask me out, please! Please, I told you what we could do together.
Like please, ask me out and let's go do that together." That is basically what she's saying.
So if she suggests that you do things together, that is huge. She's left the door wide open
for you to pursue her. She's basically said, "hey, it is safe for you to pursue me." That is the
the best way to explain how a woman pursues, is she makes it as easy as possible for you to
pursue her. Why is she doing that? Because she's interested in you and she wants to be even more
interested in you. And so she wants you to pursue her which is going to raise the attraction level
even higher. Is this making sense? I'm actually really curious, is it a surprise to you to learn
that women pursue? I want to hear from you in the comments if it is. I'm legitimately curious.
So please, if this surprised you or anything you've learned in this video has surprised you
comment and let me know about it. You can even just comment "surprised" and I'll know what
you're talking about. Okay, the next sign that she likes you and a big way that women pursue is that
she flirts with you. Unless she's toxic and just wants attention, women don't flirt unless there's
a reason behind it. If she is intentionally flirting it's because she's interested, it's
because she wants your attention, and she wants you to notice her and think that she's attractive.
I'm actually thinking about doing a video on flirting and signs that she's flirting with you.
Is that something you would be interested in? Should I make that video, should I not?
If you think I should, if that's something you would enjoy, signs she's flirting with you,
just comment "flirt" in the comments below to let me know. I love hearing from you guys. It helps
me so much as I prepare new material. So if you want that video be sure to comment "flirt" down
below and let me know. Okay, another sign that she likes you is when she tries to get your attention.
This is another huge way that women pursue. Some examples of how she might do this is she might
brush up against you when she walks past you. She can be doing that without even knowing she's doing
it. She's just thinking about you so it ends up happening. Or she might um always stand next to
you whenever she can. Even if you're in a group of friends she always tries to stand next to you.
She may, like I mentioned earlier, she may try to catch eye contact with you and then look
away. She might laugh a little bit more loudly when you're around to get your attention. There
are simple things that she can be doing to get your attention because she thinks you're cute,
she wants you to notice her so bad. Another example is if she does nice things for you
or if she remembers special occasions. If she's trying to get your attention
it's for a reason. It's not just because she gets a kick out of it. Unless she's toxic but again
we're not talking about those women. Okay, let's sum up what you have learned so far about signs
that she likes you and ways that women pursue you. The first one is through her body language. If
she's sending signals that she's interested, even if she doesn't know she's sending those signals,
then she's sending signals she's interested and it's because she wants you to notice her,
she wants you to pursue her, she likes you. The second thing is if she is engaged and invested and
interested when you're talking and interacting. If she is encouraging, talking, and talking more,
that's huge. Another sign that she likes you is if she talks about doing things together. She
may even suggest that you do things together. That is huge. That is basically her saying, "ask me out
right now." Another sign that she likes you is when she flirts with you. If you notice that she
flirts with you consistently that is huge. That is like huge huge. That is definitely
one of the main ways that a girl pursues you. And another sign that she likes you is when she
tries to get your attention. You don't just try to get somebody's attention for no good reason,
unless you're just weird. So make sure she's not weird, which is a pretty good,
you know, general rule. But if you notice that she's trying to get your attention
that is a huge sign that she likes you and she's trying in her own way to pursue you. Thank you
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