Alright so this is probably one of the MOST asked questions I get, “Zeus what do you
mean when you say ‘make a move’” “how do I make a move on a girl?”
“when’s the right time to make a move?”
Today, I’ll answer all those questions so next time you’re with a girl, you’ll know
EXACTLY how to make a move on her.
But what does it mean to “make a move” on a girl?
Now I use this phrase a lot, and that’s because making a move on a girl is how you
show her your interest without outright saying to her “uhh…...
I really like you”.
Now, making a move on a girl can mean a lot of things, if you don’t really know the
girl that well yet, making a move could be going up and talking to her, getting her number,
asking her to hangout, etc.
But if you do know the girl better and you’re out on a date with her / hanging out with
her, making a move would mean holding hands with her, putting your arm around her, flirting/teasing
her directly, kissing her, or going up and dancing with her if you’re out at a club
or a bar.
When you’re out with a girl you should do one or all of these things depending on the
specific situation you’re in, BUT if you go out on a date with a girl, you should ALWAYS
do at least one of them.
If you go out on a date with a girl and you don’t even touch her at least once then
you’re setting the vibe that you just want to be friends with her OR that you’re too
much of a pussy to make a move and that’ll turn her off really fast.
Don’t forget you’re ultimate goal which is to establish a romantic/intimate relationship
with her NOT a friendly one.
As far as actually making the move, there is no perfect time to make a move on a girl,
the right time is whenever you feel like it.
If I’m out with a girl and I feel like kissing her I’ll just go ahead and do it.
The right time is when I decide to do it.
Now this doesn’t mean to assault the girl by doing some dumb shit like randomly grabbing
her ass “because you felt like it was the right time.”
That’s borderline rape and that’s not what I’m talking about.
If you’re out with a girl and you’re both having a good time and you think she’s into
you go ahead and lean in for a kiss and if she rejects it then just act like nothing,
no big deal.
It’s better to try it out and get rejected than to never have tried it at all.
Besides if a girl agreed to hangout with you and you guys are both having a good time and
the vibe is right, 9/10 times she won’t reject you.
Now I know a lot of guys like to wait until the end of the date to try and kiss the girl
but I actually think this is a bad idea because it ends up with both of you guys awkwardly
waiting for the “right time” and having dumb small talk until someone decides to do
it or even worse until you guys both chicken out and it doesn’t happen.
I suggest going in for the kiss in the middle of the date when you know things are going
good and you’re both having a good time because it saves you from having the awkward
situation at the end of the date, and it makes you look like a badass since most guys just
wait ‘til the end.
Also, if you guys kiss and it goes well it instantly enhances the vibe of the date.
Long story short, take that bitch to the basket.
But like I mentioned, kissing a girl is not the only way to make a move on her.
Touching her is just as important because it’s a good way to gauge how into you she
is before you go in for the kiss.
Now some easy ways to casually touch her would be to put your hand on her back when opening
the door or just walking with her, holding her hand and leading her to wherever you guys
are going, and putting your arm around her.
Don’t overthink this part, and most importantly DON’T DELAY IT.
If you go to the movies with a girl, as soon as you get in and sit down you should put
your arm around her, don’t do the cheesy bullshit stretching thing that a lot of guys
do because it makes you look like a jackass.
The ONLY time that would be acceptable if you did it as a joke and she knew you were
just kidding around.
And that’s it.
In summary, make sure you touch a girl by grabbing her hand putting your hand around
her, kissing her, etc.
when you go out on a date with her and don’t be afraid to kiss her when you feel like it.
Because if you’re a badass Basedlympian like I know you are, the right time is when
you feel like it.
BOOM mic drop, cue the outro music!