But there will be no muscles to touch for you?
I don't want to touch them anyways
"Mummy said this red top looks good"
But I preferred the blue one... I would snap
KILL or KEEP? What habit of Japanese boys are unforgivable here in Japan to Japanese girls
What habits might they forgive a little bit more?
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What boy would you forgive? The rugged boy or the skin and bones.
I would keep the rugged one.
I prefer the skin and bones
Tell me why
I like the stoic types
If he is strong he could to anything
Like carry your luggage?
That would be nice
I wanna touch his muscles
Why did you chose the popular skin-and-bones types
If a man has many muscles, he is so manly, I think that is scary.
I think skinny boys look nice and slender
But you can't touch his muscles
I don't want to touch his muscles
What do you like to look at in a man then?
Some like to see a man's arm muscles, but he doesn't have any right.
What is cool then?
I like this line on a man's neck - Ewww
What do you like then?
I look at... his hair. I might want to pat it.
Keep the skinny or the muscular boy?
I might... keep the muscular guy....
I would keep the muscular guy... but I don't dislike either
Why muscular?
The muscular guys seem to be quite stoic and active
People who are strict with themselves are good for me.
Because they do things properly?
They are people who know how to work hard
I can trust that type
I think I would worry more about the skinny type, like I would have to look after them instead.
But the muscular guys do what they like
I like that
Proactive boys or passive boys, what would you keep
Pro-active - Pro-active!
Why? - (laughs) well ....
Passive boys seem to be a little weak
I want a man to actively approach me. Men be proactive!
I want that attention
Would you be ok with him touching you in public?
Holding hands and putting an arm around my shoulder is ok
But since it's public, it should not be too much
Arm around your waist? - That is ok
Butt? - Butt?
Sometimes you can see foreign couples put their hands in their back pockets
If it is in the pocket that is ok but if he just grabs my butt that's a no
I get ya - That's a no
Why did you choose the pro-active boys? - I like proactive people and I want them to make the moves
I don't like boys who are so passive and stand back.
Proactive or passive what do you forgive?
Passive - I like both
She can't decide. Why did you pick passive?
If boys approach me too aggressively, I get scared.
And you still can't decide? - I can't!
I can't make the first move
I hate it when boys approach me, too. But depending on the boy it might be ok.
Might be hard for you to find someone that way.
Narcissist or Chuunibyo Daydreamers?
I would pick the Chuunibyo Daydreamers. - Me too
To explain, Chuunibyo are people with a backstory like "I might have some dark superpowers"
You forgive them for living in that fantasy world - Yes
Must be fun to spend time with them
Narcissist might be interesting, but if they are too into themselves they're a pain.
I get that - Daydreamers might be more fun
I think Narcissists think only of themselves and what they want.
Daydreamers might be more like fun Otakus to hang out with
What if his daydream story is that he came from a kingdom and after a fight he came to earth?
That's cute
I prepped some bad boys for you, which ones would you keep?
The Anime daydreamer or the narcissist?
I would forgive the narcissist - Me too
You would not forgive the daydreamers? - That should stop in middle school
I think they would be embarrassing - Being together might be embarrassing.
Even if you would tell him he is a daydreamer, he would justify it with "yeah I am"
There is no way to solve that, unless I become like a mommy for him
That's why i prefer the narcissist - They seem to also look after their visual appearance
So instead of him loving himself, you think narcissists look after their looks?
I guess so. If he is confident, he must be looking kind of good right?
Some people who are not attractive also look attractive if they are confident
They might take the lead - That is cool
Would you forgive a mommy complex or a sister complex?
What? I hate both...
... maybe I would forgive the sister complex
Why not the mother complex?
If he is too attached to his mother, he might never be able to let that go
If it is about his sister, once they meet less it might get better
I understand. And you?
I forgive the sister complex
And not the mother one?
If he has a mother complex, I have to constantly think of his mother. If it his sister, I just got to get along with the sister right?
If he has a sister complex, you just gotta make his sister your sister - Right
Would you forgive the mother boy or the sister complex boy?
Sister complex!
Why not the mother complex?
If we marry, and he keeps saying "but mummy said we gotta do this" oh no!
Or "mummy did that for me but you won't?"
Younger sisters don't really do much for their older brothers right?
Mothers do a lot for their sons. So if he is too attached to his mummy it would really piss me off.
Then go home to your mommy! - Yes!
What if he is too attached to his older sister?
I love and am too attached to my younger brother.
I think close siblings are ok
Since they just get along well
Unless he says he wants to marry his older sister
As long as he doesn't say that he is safe.
Mother complex or sister complex?
I am ok with both
Both?
Well, if he listens to her more than me it's a no. Like "mommy said the red clothes look good"
even though I like blue, I would get angry.
"Well then go live with your mum forever"
I would think like that
But respecting your parents is a good thing
Depends on the level - Yes
As long as he just respects them
What is bad about the sister complex?
I don't quite understand what that could be.
"My older sister or my younger sister is so cute" - I understand that
I prefer the sister complex boy
If he thinks she is cute, I can do that too
I can't go "your mummy so cute" though
I pick the sister one - You changed your minds
You chose the sister boy - We did
Loud smacking while eating or loud sneezing what do you forgive?
The loud sneezer!
I would pick the loud sneezer too
What is the problem with smacking?
It's simply gross
I want to eat my food in quiet
But are loud sneezes not embarrassing?
If he sneezes too loud I can still say something but it's hard to call someone out for loud eating sounds.
He might not realize he is doing it
If he smacks while eating, it will be taken aback
Taken aback! - Yes
Loud Smacking or Sneezing what would you pick?
Which one I would keep?
The big sneezer - Me too
Why that one? - Going for food together, the loud sound would be embarrassing.
Many girls in Japan dislike guys making eating noises
While eating they would be shocked about the loud sounds and taken aback.
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