dan I have a question for you how does
one as a person develop that ability to
not be touchy-feely in social situations
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your pleaser you want to be liked you
want everybody to like you you want to
get everybody's approval forget it man
forget that [ __ ] I don't know that
surefire way to success but I sure know
that surefire way to failure and that's
try to please everybody it is just
sure-fire way to failure one of the
things out learning life is this you
could care about other people without
carrying what they think you could care
about the people without caring what you
think how they see you how they perceive
you how they view you it's got nothing
to do with you it's none of your
business
it has to do more with them than to do
with you just like on social media I see
comments how people see me how people
view me it's none of my business I
cannot control that it has nothing to do
with me because as a human being we all
walk around with a filter anyway you see
what you want to see you don't actually
see the reality none of us see the
reality we just see what we want to see
whatever that people think of you and
how they think of you that's their
filters that are doing the thinking
anyway so exactly the same thing exactly
the same thing I say right for one
person you could say well that is the
most profound thing I've ever heard one
to another person oh I totally disagree
with them not nothing to do with what I
said it has to do with their upbringing
their background their beliefs right so
it's no point trying to argue with them
and it's stupid to think that you could
change them it's a [ __ ] waste of time
when you'll know that what is there to
be touchy-feely about there's nothing to
change it is waste of time to try to
change people don't bother right mind
your own business however you could care
about people without caring what they
think you know what you felt you know
your values right you know what you
stand for how they say how they feel how
they view but none of that matters
when you understand that any social
setting
you'll be calm you'll be cool and you
don't give a [ __ ] it's okay it's okay
and none of that matters that much
anyway right if you live life according
to people expect a shion's of you I mean
that's a sad way to live life is too
short life is too short that's what I
believe you know what to do by the way
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