- How to turn your best friend into your boyfriend.
So, research shows that my most successful marriages
start with friendships.
Now, it does not mean
that every single successful relationship
will turn into a romantic one.
Yet, if you would like that to happen,
in this video I will share with you eight ways
how you can try doing it.
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So without further ado,
I'll just start with with tip number one.
Be a good friend.
Be there for each other.
Don't let him down.
Show him that he can trust you
and see can you actually trust him too.
Feel free to give each other, be there for one another,
have each other's back.
However, when it comes to giving, instead of over-giving
and trying to please him or impress him,
with a man it's better to look at what is fair.
If you will observe are you guys being fair with each other,
you will not go wrong
and you will not be taken advantage of either.
Number two, have a great time with him.
Laugh, joke, talk about your dreams, goals, and aspirations.
So when you're not together,
when he remembers you, it puts a smile on his face.
Number three, if he's quite flirty with you, flirt back.
You know, be playful and fun.
If he's initiating the flirting
and you do like him, flirt back.
However, what happens with flirting a lot of times
between guys and girls is,
you know, when the guy is flirting with you
and you're playing flirting back,
a lot of times girls and guys start to take
these playful flirts very seriously.
And then one or the other foot forward
and starts to share feelings with the other person.
So, if it's him who's doing that, that's totally fine,
because as a man, he should be doing it first
as this is a pursuing step.
As a woman, you do not pursue a guy like that.
So if you are developing feelings for him,
first, if you're just friends try not to overthink it
and try to look at it as more playful fun way
to spend time together, rather than what does this mean?
If you're developing feelings for him
from playfully flirting together,
don't overthink it and take more chilled approach.
Eventually, if he starts to develop feelings for you too,
he will make that first step.
Therefore, wait it out and do not do it first
as taking my first step,
you could actually ruin everything.
And why you should not pursue a man,
check out my video right here.
Number four, be the best of you with him.
Don't go to him if you're feeling sad,
negative, unattractive,
and you just want to nag, complain, vent.
He is not your girlfriend, he is still a man.
And if you're going to go to him
sharing all these horrible feelings about yourself,
looking for reassurance,
yes, he might give you reassurance
because he's a good friend
but his attraction towards you will start to go down.
Nobody wants to date a girl
that feels and thinks badly about herself.
If you have insecurities or you feel not attractive,
instead of going asking people for reassurance
you need to look for the appropriate steps to fix it.
Number five, ask for advice or help when you need it.
If you are good friends, this is what friends do,
they are there for each other.
If you have a problem
and you feel like he could help you with that, fantastic.
Go to him and ask him for his opinion towards that problem.
And if he appreciates you as a friend and fancies you,
very likely he will sort that problem out for you.
Ladies, usually what I find with guy friends,
if they fancy you,
they will sort your problem out like that on the spot.
They're just going to be so happy to help you.
If they don't really fancy you,
they're going to be pushing it back
and saying tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow
and eventually not helping you out with that.
So, in a way, it's a good way to test it
how much a guy likes you.
Number six, don't get possessive
when he is friendly or flirty with other girls.
Or, when he's sharing his dating experience with you.
If he's asking you for advice,
try and keep your emotions in check
and give them logical advice.
When you will start getting possessive
and giving him jealous you looks
when he's talking to other girls,
this is when he will sense it
that you're developing feelings for him
and actually start to mark your territory.
And if he doesn't feel the same,
very likely he's going to be pulling back big time.
And if he does feel the same,
very unlikely your jealous possessive reaction
will make him play more teasing games with you.
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Number seven, be very, very patient with this.
It can take a couple months, it can take a year.
It can even take five years
to turn a friendship into a relationship.
Therefore, make sure to keep your options open
and don't wait around for him.
You can actually even share your dating experiences with him
as long as you're keeping it lighthearted and fun
and sharing just some fun, silly dating stories with him.
Make sure when you do that though,
don't complain or nag how difficult and hard it is
to find the right guy.
Actually, it is when you start to date somebody
and you get more interested in the that person,
this is when your guy friend starts to sense it.
They can see that interest in the other guy.
And that is usually when your guy friend starts to panic
and make these quick moves on you
because he gets scared of losing you to someone else.
Number eight, let him lead your friendship.
So, your guy friend could be doing things
such as like taking you out for dinners,
taking you out to the events, hanging out with you.
You could actually be doing things
that could come across to other people
as you guys are dating.
However, if he has not mentioned to you
any kind of commitment more than friendship,
do not assume that.
No matter how playful and charming he is
and how amazing he is treating you,
do not let yourself assume
that this is more than just friendship.
Be lighthearted and go along with it.
And if he wants to commit to something
more serious than a friendship, he will let you know.
Ladies, these were my eight tips
on how to turn a friendship into a relationship.
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