Yeah, yeah.
All right, this brother.
He may have set a record for the number
of times he was at the bottom two
but still escaped every single week.
Whoo!
Don't know if we should call him Blake or Houdini.
[LAUGHTER]
Let's take a look at his journey to finding love.
Oh, God.
You guys want more kids?
87% no.
FEMALE: 87% no you don't want more children?
No.
Kids are awesome, but I don't want
to be talking college fund when I'm
working on a retirement fund.
You could be the perfect mom, you can give everything,
but if the dad isn't around, you still have a broken kid.
A kid being raised with one parent,
you think that kid is broken?
Yes.
FEMALE: OK, it was so good talking to y'all.
Blake, I don't want to be belittled.
I don't want to date anyone who's condescending.
Blake's giving me butthole.
JEFFRI: Blake expressed to me that he hates
he has to do this process because he was
like, you're my dream woman.
And so every date I'm going on, he
wants to know what time I'm getting done, who's your top.
I'm beginning to feel like I'm in a relationship without--
Without being in one.
JEFFRI: Yeah.
That's an insecure man.
This is too much.
Damn, I said
I was told that there were some things
that were said that I found a little disturbing.
OK, explain what was said to you.
I don't want to get into the feedback.
Well, so how am I going to answer your questions?
Why are you talking with me right now?
Good question.
Jeffri and I did have energy in the beginning.
Next thing I hear are the things that are
coming up in the women's house. JEFFRI: I'm sorry.
I gotta stop.
It's like living a double life.
No, that conversation never happened.
So let's be clear. Let's just be clear.
Oh, we're done talking.
BLAKE: I've been very consistent through our entire journey.
You're too old to lie, Blake.
You attacked me because I said I wanted a family.
Your exact words were, so basically, you're not going
be happy until you have kids?
So I want to know who hurt you?
For a man to have such a negative outlook on fatherhood
and what a family means, someone did something to that man,
you know?
Like, he needs some professional help.
You also mentioned that you felt the way about the whole Jeffri
situation.
But it's a situation that kept coming up,
and it seemed to start to grow like a cancer.
I feel that way about you.
And I don't think you're a benign cancer, either.
I think you're malignant, and I don't
think you deserve to be here.
MALE: Whoa.
You have been on the chopping block almost every single time.
I think I was on life number 10.
Nine lives.
Coming into this process, I mean, I definitely suspected
that I'd be in the bottom.
I think it's just the way that I'm received.
As you know, I had a connection with Sue-Ann.
Right.
As far as the other ladies, I just don't think
that any of them are for me.
So once Sue got eliminated, with my connection not being here,
I figured I should probably remove
myself from this journey.
OK.
Leaving is a bit disappointing.
But on the other hand, it was a great journey.
I was able to learn a little bit about myself.
And I'm happy with where it's taken me.
All right, man.
Much love.
Thanks.
I look fat on there, huh?
[LAUGHTER]
Do I look fat? - No.
No, you was thick.
You look thick, Tommy.
NEPHEW TOMMY: Blake.
Yes, sir.
MODERATOR: How did we get to this number, 87%?
Please make me understand that.
So I'm pretty sure that I don't want to have kids,
right, so I can say I'm positive.
But I don't have a vasectomy.
And you got to leave room for the person
that you meet that moves you, that has doing things that you
thought you would never do.
What is that, 13%?
BLAKE: Yeah, that's 13%.
There's always that small chance.
But it's enough to not count on.
You want to get the vasectomy?
- I'm scared. - I'm scared.
I mean, yeah--
You like, that's an easy thing.
[OVERLAPPING SPEECH]
MALE: 87% was his percentage.
He's saying 87% that he doesn't want to have a kid--
That means overwhelmingly you have
to be like an exceptional person for him to decide--
Ain't nobody got time for that.
The man's 45!
[LAUGHS]
Tell me this.
How does it feel to be in the bottom, like often?
I thought that Blake's bottom.
But he was staying afloat.
Blake's bottom.
It's not a position you want to go
into when you're going through a process to meet people.
But on the other hand, I felt the need
to still be true to who I was.
I mean, it got to a point where, it was like,
all right, so let me go ahead and bring
my stuff because I already know I'm going on this date.
So it was interesting.
Sue-Ann, is it hard to continue to see your strong
connection at the bottom?
SUE-ANN: The hard part was feeling like I had
to be advocating or defending--
This is your client.
SUE-ANN: Yeah!
It was like having to like explain how I felt every week.
Everybody didn't have to explain every week.
Jeffri, you had an initial connection with Blake.
Yes.
When did you see that it started to go south?
Just our conversation outside of the recording.
It was just a bit controlling for me.
Blake, did you ever tell Jeffri that you thought
you were living a double life?
No.
I think I've been pretty consistent from day one
with who I am and how I am, I mean,
for the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Jeffri, you still stand by that?
Yeah.
He just kept saying, like, hey, you're my vibe.
So he's like when I have to go sit with other women,
I'm not interested in what I see.
And he's like, it's kind of like living a double life.
But in this type of process, you have
to appease the other women.
So he kind of had a strategic process,
and I kept telling him, I was like Blake, but who cares?
Like, we're going to be ourselves.
MALE: Just to add on to Blake, from the boat,
he's like, if she goes, I go, so I can win Sue-Ann.
OK.
MALE: So you can look at it as a strategic move
because we're in the gentleman's lounge and we're all together.
So we're like man, that puts us in a bind.
[LAUGHTER]
Morgan, you called the man a malignant cancer.
Morgan, where did that come from?
I don't know.
[LAUGHTER]
MALE: I had to think about that [BLEEP]
MALE: Me, too.
I was like, you a malignant what?
MORGAN: I just felt like what Jeffri was saying was true.
Do I believe her to this day?
Yeah.
But for what it's worth, I take it back.
Ladies, here's my question to you.
Since we stopped filming, has anyone
seen another side of Blake?
If you connect with me, you have
to have some positive traits.
He's a sweet guy.
He has really good sides to him, absolutely.
I would like to think, Tommy, if nothing at all, I
was able to at least demonstrate that my heart is
in the right place. - You did all right.
From the bottom to your top, now you're here.
[LAUGHTER]
All right.
After the break, we're going to find
out if nice guys indeed finish last
when we catch up with my man.
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