The classic fight between good and evil.. A relationship between the super empath
and the narcissist is a connection like no other. With the super empath’s ability to see
right through the human ego - the narcissist ultimately doesn’t stand a chance. But,
what makes this powerful empath one of the only types to be able to truly destroy a narcissist?
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Number 1: Super empaths can easily detect passive aggression
Out of all the manipulative tactics that narcissists are known to resort to in order to
rope in their victims and keep them emotionally vulnerable, their passive aggressive nature
is usually their go-to. Covert narcissists know exactly how to push people’s buttons. They go
just far enough to make it seem like any discrepancies along the way are at the fault
of their victims. However, when it comes to roping in a super empath, this passive-aggressive tactic
won’t work for long. Of course, a narcissist may be able to use an empath’s extreme kindness
to their advantage at the beginning, but eventually, the super empath’s good judgment
recognizes their passive aggression for what it is. Once this happens,
the natural empathetic tendencies of the super empath come to a halt. All of a sudden the super
empath turns into the narcissist's narcissist, using truth as the basis of their main arguments.
This breaking point can send the super empath to the point of spewing well-thought out comebacks
and truth-bombs when faced with the narcissist's passive aggressive behaviour, ultimately leading
them to break down and realize a thing or two. Number 2: Super empaths are always 2 steps ahead
When in a relationship with one of their victims, all narcissists tend to believe
that they’re the more intelligent and dominant partner. They believe they have the upper hand
because they usually don’t expect their partner to clue in to how abusive they really are.
However, when in a relationship with the super empath, this narcissistic belief
couldn’t be further from the truth. In fact, an experienced super empath can intuitively sense
and expect the narcissist's next steps before they have the time to really think it over. So,
while narcissists go about their relationship thinking they’re being sneaky and efficiently
manipulative, the super empath is able to intuitively predict their next manipulative move
and then take the appropriate actions to stop the narcissistic control in its tracks. Interestingly,
the super empath has a way of taking these necessary steps under the radar - without
the narcissist realizing their control didn’t go as planned because of the empath’s interference.
Number 3: Super empaths understand the narcissist more than they understand themselves
There’s nothing easy or attractive about a relationship with a person who holds narcissistic
tendencies. Greed, sabotage and self-centeredness become the focal point of the connection resulting
in a complete inequality of give and take. Because of this, in most people’s eyes,
it’s difficult to see past the unfortunate aspects of the narcissistic personality, yet,
it’s different for empathetic types. The super empath in particular is able to see all the pain,
sadness and insecurity that the narcissist holds deep down inside. And while this can create a
unique type of sympathy that ends up attracting narcissists and sociopaths, the super empath
can surely use this deeper understanding to their advantage. It allows them to go into a potentially
narcissistic connection understanding the underlying motives, in order for their empathetic
nature to know what to focus on. For example, instead of feeding into their desire for money,
compliments, and favors - the super empath can try to expose the narcissist’s deeper feelings
like lack of love and lack of self confidence. Number 4: Super empaths use narcissist as a lesson
While it may seem like a grueling process when in the middle of a narcissistic connection,
for the super empath, they walk away from narcissists with strengthened power, knowledge and
understanding. Although this doesn’t necessarily mean they are destroying the narcissist directly,
it still gives the narcissist the impression that they may not be as powerful as they once
thought. Narcissists want to know they have all the power over their victims,
and they usually maintain this power by keeping their prey in an emotionally vulnerable state. So,
because the narcissist wants to know they are needed, they take serious measures to ensure
their victims feel absolutely incapable without them. Unfortunately for them, this manipulation
doesn’t work for the super empath for long. Eventually, the super empath will see the
relationship for what it is and then use that knowledge to up their boundary setting skills.
Super empaths know their strengths, and won’t let a narcissist convince them otherwise.
Number 5: Super empaths can encourage narcissist to take a better look at themselves
As we all know, narcissists are only as powerful as they see themselves to be in their own
perception. So, the key to truly destroying a narcissist is to bring their awareness to their
ulterior motives. With this deep understanding that super empaths hold, they are able to properly
communicate with the narcissist to find out what's really fueling their narcissistic tendencies. Now,
this is not an easy job of course - in fact, some say narcissists will never truly rid
their toxic behaviors. By talking about past traumas such as lack of attention as a child
or past abusive relationships, the super empath is able to use their kindness to break down the ego
of the narcissist. These hefty realizations can actually cause a narcissist to better understand
their unconscious selves, bringing their deeply emotional issues to their attention.
When this super empath tactic works, the new awareness that the narcissist holds
can lead them to hit rock bottom - allowing them to re-learn what love is really all about.
Number 6: Super empaths are extremely unsuspecting
Kind and reserved, most empaths can easily come off as insecure or shy people, making them seem
like an effortless narcissist target. Luckily this seemingly naive innocence is short-lived for
the powerful empath when faced with toxic, energy draining people. Super empaths can act as a harsh
wake up call for the narcissist who thought they scored easy prey. In fact, although most empaths
have the ability to absorb a lot of negativity before finally cracking, the super empath tends to
be quite frank and upfront about inconsistencies, lies, and deceit right from the start because they
don’t have the tolerance to put up with them. They will begin using the narcissist’s tactic on them,
mirroring the games they play in order for them to get a taste of their own medicine.
It’s not to say that this powerful empath won’t feel guilt through the process, but they
know in the end that it’s for their own higher good, and even that of the narcissist as well.
Number 7: Super empaths won’t accept unnecessary blame
Super empaths have no troubles owning up to their faults, that is if they are rightfully
accused. Unnecessary blame and finger-pointing doesn’t cut it for this self-actualized empath,
because they’ll be the first ones to know where they’ve gone wrong.
Narcissists on the other hand, can’t fathom the idea of apologizing or holding accountability for
their actions because in their eyes, there’s always someone else around who can be blamed.
So, when the narcissist attempts to project that blame by pointing the finger at a super empath,
you can be sure they’re in for the lesson of a lifetime.
Empaths have the gift of being able to see things from multiple perspectives,
so they can clearly see where and how things went wrong in most situations. In these circumstances,
the super empath won’t hesitate to go on a tangent of naming one truth after the other until the
narcissist backs down and comes to the realization that there is nobody to blame but themselves.
Number 8: Super empaths set a good example for narcissists
When dealing with a narcissist, you can expect a plethora of promises and false love. They can
surely talk a good talk, which makes them so intriguing and convincing to their victims.
However, this all stems from the false-self that they create to mask their deep insecurities.
When a narcissist sees how truly free-spirited and self-content a super empath is,
it can provide a refreshing perspective that they’re not used to experiencing.
This act alone can break down the ego of the narcissist as they see the difference
between their fabricated happiness and the super-empaths genuine happiness. Although
sometimes it takes a good amount of mirroring narcissistic behavior in order for them to
really realize the way they act and then make the moves to change it, sometimes all it takes
is a good role model to truly destroy the narcissist and their toxic tendencies.
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