Amba verts are a very common breed in
fact most people are at by verts you
might even be one and you don't even
know it confused as to what an ambivert
is people who are ambiverts consider
themselves a good mix of introvert and
extrovert sometimes they prefer social
scenes and hanging out with a lot of
people while they also equally love
their me time spent alone depending on
the day and time Amba verts can enjoy
solitary activities like reading books
alone or partying it up with all their
friends some people proudly state that
they are social introverts or extroverts
introverts or even introverted
extroverts but all those terms come
together under the umbrella term
ambivert do these traits sound like you
then you might be an ambivert after all
research suggests that two-thirds of the
population are ambiverts
think of ambivert as fluid people with
shifting personalities so you might be
an ambivert or not but maybe someone you
know is one and maybe just maybe this
sounds like a certain someone you might
have a crush on so how do you tell if an
ambivert likes you or even like likes
you one they single you out at large
parties or gatherings a great way to see
into the mind of an ambivert is by
watching how they act at parties it's
already been established that ambivert
enjoy parties occasionally but their
goal isn't to be the center of attention
unlike true extroverts you can tell if
an ambivert is interested in someone at
a party because they will single them
out the ambivert might approach said
person and have a one-on-one
conversation with them that spirals into
an hour-long debate over the movie
Inception in the quiet corner of the
kitchen if you ever find yourself in one
of these conversations it can feel like
the world is moving around you people
are partying and coming in and out but
it all seems like a meaningless blur
compared to the one that you're
currently intent on this means that said
person feels very comfortable with you
and truly enjoys your company it's not
that they were uncomfortable before they
came to speak with you as they may have
been laughing and joking with the crowd
before they set eyes on you when it
comes to that special person that they
have true romantic feelings for they
prefer to interact one-on-one with them
rather than in a group situation number
two they spontaneously ask you to hang
out ambivert scan on occasion be
unpredictable you might know someone at
school who's fairly shy and quiet
doesn't socialize too much and enjoys
working alone so when this person asks
you to hang out it can be quite a shock
amp efforts tend to act differently in
social situations and in work or school
environments so although they may be
very shy in a professional setting
they're actually very fun and sociable
outside the key feature of ambiverts is
that they enjoy their alone time but
when they get too much alone time they
change very quickly into being a social
creature who desperately needs social
interaction if someone like this
randomly asks you to go see a movie or
grab a cup of coffee it's probably
because they're an ambivert
number three they seem like they're
hesitating around you when ambivert
are around people they have feelings for
they aren't sure what to feel on one
hand there is a strong urge inside of
them to go home and chill well on the
other hand their brains might be
screaming at them to build up the guts
to ask out their crush from the outside
looking in it can seem like the person
is being virtually pulled in two
different directions it's not that
they're nervous per se it's more that
they can't decide whether taking the
next step with their crush is the right
decision for their social lives they
might be flirting confidently one minute
and then shy away and close into
themselves or they might be only words
away from saying will you go out with me
and then walk away because they
chickened out last minute this doesn't
mean that they don't want to go out with
you it's just that they're insecure
introverted side is telling them that
this is a risky question and to just
back out these ambiverts wouldn't be
hesitating if they didn't see you as an
important person in their mind
they say the idea of going out with you
is a very big deal and an important
decision to make it's just that they're
introverted and extroverted sides are
arguing with each other over who is
right number four they are inconsistent
when interacting with you online
you can tell a lot about someone by how
they behave online after chatting online
for a few minutes in today's day and age
you can usually tell what kind of person
they are and if you click amber verts
have a love-hate relationship with the
internet and social media or some days
they can't stop posting and the next
they don't even glance at their phones
preferring to be alone with their
thoughts this can seem like mixed
signals if they're texting you for hours
on end one day and then seemingly
ghosting you the next just relax
this doesn't mean they've already moved
on and forgotten about you they're
probably just taking a break from social
media this behavior is also shown in
phone calls texting and even in-person
interactions don't stress out about this
though especially if their relationship
forms just give them time and they'll be
back into your phone soon enough
number five they show you their playful
side and their serious side one of the
most compelling things about Amber verts
is that they are incredibly
multi-dimensional getting closer with an
ambivert can be like peeling off the
layers on an onion you keep discovering
new sides to their personality amber
verts can either show you their
personality upon meeting like an
extrovert or hide themselves like an
introvert and as you start to get more
intimate with them they open up when
this person starts to show you this
hidden side of themselves that's when
you know for sure that they like you
they're comfortable enough to share
their quirks and secrets with you which
means they trust you they don't want you
to fall for just their extroverted or
introverted side but for their entire
personality and who they truly are
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