Hi everyone Agnes here, I wanted to do a YouTube for you about trust. Now I know many of you are
having issues with people where you don't feel trust, where you feel suspicious, where you feel a
fear of betrayal, where you feel not important and that the focus might be on someone else
and you also sometimes have the distrust in people's words, that what they say
and what they're doing are two different things. Now I'm going to explain this
in as simple a terms I can and then I'm going to give you three affirmations to practice that will
really help you with this. So when you have such thoughts, feelings, beliefs as these: fear
of loss, fear of abandonment, thoughts such as 'I am scared you're going to screw me over' and
that you're looking for evidence on social media if you are interested in someone and you want
to know what they're up to but you go in there with the emotion of suspicion and you have the
beliefs such as 'I don't trust men, I don't trust women,' these types of thoughts are the breeding
ground to attract things that come in that break your trust. Now I want to say this first too,
if someone is untrustworthy you didn't cause it okay they were probably like that before
so before you start blaming yourself which I know a lot of you do and I want you to take
that weight off your shoulders. If someone is untrustworthy and then they come towards you
the part that is 'everyone is you pushed out' is the fact that they're coming around you. And the
reason they come around you is because you have these types of beliefs, thoughts and feelings.
Now the important thing is this can be changed and you can correct this within yourself and
what you have to do is start to change what you project out, your energy, what you feel
and what you think about trust. Now the first thing to work on is 'I trust myself' okay
like the affirmation 'I love and approve of myself' this can be an affirmation too. 'I trust
myself, I trust myself, I trust my decisions, I trust my gut instincts, I trust my intuition.'
Start to practice those types of thoughts, they will help you to cool down and calm down
that feeling of distrust, that feeling of fear, that feeling of anxiety, that feeling of
like you feel something's going on and you don't know what to do with it.
It's changing your energy around that okay. So that's the first one the second one is 'I trust
life,' now that sounds like an easy one but we have to practice it because so many of us don't
trust life and we don't trust what's going on and we don't trust what's happening, so if you
can practice 'I trust myself' and 'I trust life' that will help you to shift more towards trust and
trustworthy trusting situations with other people okay. Now the other one is 'I trust you.' Now why
do we use that? Because we often have someone in our lives that we're having issues with that we
constantly vibrate that 'I don't trust you, I don't trust you, I don't trust you.' Now if
your intuition is genuinely telling you not to trust that person then follow your intuition.
But if it is you dragging your past distrust from certain people in towards this person and
you think it's that, then practicing radiating 'I trust you, I trust you' and get that oh that
feeling of relief, start to project it out to the person, start to correct and change your distrust
and also give up your distrusting behaviours - checking people's phones, checking people's
social media, checking on people via phone 'oh where are you? What are you doing? Who you with?'
Those type of fishing for information, looking for the evidence of what you don't want okay. So it is
very important to correct your own self and learn with 'everyone is you pushed out' that what is in
front of you is getting dragged in towards you not because you created an untrustworthy person, they
just came in towards you untrustworthy because you had matching and corresponding beliefs,
thoughts and energy. The energy of suspicion, the energy of fear, the energy of 'I don't trust you,
I don't trust you, I don't trust you, what's going on, what's going on, what's going on?'
So if you can start making these changes within yourself, one give up your untrusting behaviours
and start to then correct and change what you've got going on within you, then you can change
from an 'everyone's you pushed out' point of view what comes towards you
will be trustworthiness and people that are trustable okay. So I hope that helps I know this
is a big issue for many of you and I know it's a difficult one and it has been in my own life too,
I don't have that issue anymore but I did have it for many years and it does cause a
lot of pain and a lot of anguish. So I hope that that helps you a little bit, if you've got any
ideas or thoughts or anything you would like a bit more information on
put the comments down below and I will also put down any other YouTube's about trust, which is
treat them with love, treat them as if they love you. That will be in the similar lines of this,
now it's treat them as if you trust them. This is something you can practice okay, treat them
as if you trust them. So you don't go fishing for information, you don't go looking at social media
and you practice changing this distrust within you because distrust attracts people that are
doing things they not very good things that you wouldn't like them to do,
so if you can unhook yourself from that then you will attract that feeling of trust,
that feeling of security okay. And practice also 'I am secure' because that will help as well.
All right everyone lots of love and I will see you as always in the next YouTube.