- What's up. Welcome back to Dude Dad.
Here's my lovely bride.
Heidi, what's today?
- Yesterday was our 10 year anniversary,
so today is our vow renewal, do over, redo.
- We're redoing our wedding.
- We're not redoing it, we're
- Yeah, we are because it was awesome.
- We're re-celebrating it.
- So we're doing it again.
- Oh, yeah, well it's not a redo, we didn't mess it up.
- We're 10 years older,
10 years smarter
we're 10 years better looking.
(Heidi laughs)
So we're like, let's get dressed up again and
have all of our friends come out and have a party.
Heidi's got a pretty dress. I got myself a new suit.
It's gonna be fun.
- It's going to be a lot of fun.
- Do you still love me as much as you did 10 years ago?
- I think I love you more than I did.
They always say that that could happen, but it does happen
just so you know.
- It's true, it does happen.
I love you more too.
- Aww!
- All right, but before the vow renewal tonight,
we are going to have our own little,
- Water party.
- Ha! Bachelor party redo.
- Yeah!
- We're taking the boat out to do some wake boarding.
- Boat time!
- Hit it Burt!
(whooping)
(boat engine roaring)
- All right, Rick's first time wakeboarding
- So I got the right foot on?
- Put that on for sure.
I got that.
We lost our flag.
(boat engine roaring more intensely)
(whooping)
- First try!
- Yeah, Rick!
(everyone wincing in unison)
(cheering)
- [Taylor] Done.
- He's out.
- [Taylor] He let go.
All right now we're meeting up with our buddy Dean
who's got a wake surf boat and he's going to
let some of these dudes wake surf.
(energetic bass music)
(boat engine roars)
(cheerful music)
- [Taylor] Oh my, oh my, oh my gosh!
- Oh my
- [Taylor] Babe, you straight up went wedding dress.
Talk to me about that.
- Well, once a bride always a bride.
And if I want to dress the part, I will dress the part, so.
- Wow.
That's my bride.
Well, you look fantastic.
Does it feel as much, like as much work as the
first time we did this?
- Like, in some ways because we have like
three extra humans that we have to think about and
- [Taylor] Yeah.
- Y'know.
- Well, hi, Juniper!
- My headband fell off.
- [Taylor] Your helmet fell off?
- No, my headband.
- [Taylor] Oh, headband, sorry.
I'll help you.
What do you think about mommy and daddy
doing a vow renewal?
- It means that we're fancy!
- [Taylor] We're fancy.
It means that mommy and daddy love each other very much.
And that we're going to keep on loving each other
for a long time.
Is that cool?
- And you get to kiss!
- [Taylor] And we get to kiss, yeah.
Do you want to get married someday?
- No!
- [Taylor] No?
- I just want to be a fisherman.
- [Taylor] You want to be a fisherman?
- Yeah.
- [Taylor] Do you like wearing fancy clothes?
Well, you look good.
Okay we're finally all loaded up, headed to the park
to get some photos.
- Yeah but, Dad.
- For all the haters, we're only going
- A block and a half so don't freak out.
- That I'm holding a baby
- You ready, Otto?
Show everybody those suspenders!
Whoo!
All right, we are here.
Okay, everybody, Matt's here taking photos.
Theo already ran away to go check his fish trap.
He's down there somewhere checking his fish trap.
Theo, did you catch any fish?
No?
- We're still waiting.
- You're still waiting, okay.
Okay, we're walking into a new location
so far pictures are going, they're going, I dunno.
We'll see what Matt does with it.
But we look good.
(bright instrumental)
Oh my gosh.
- Perfect representation?
- [Taylor] Honestly, you've captured Rochelle's attitude.
Yep, there it is!
Yeah, It's all in there!
What is going on here?
- Oh, well DJ's our flower girl and we're doing
the obligatory bride, flower girl photo.
- Do I look beautiful?
- [Taylor] You look so beautiful.
Okay, we're here.
We're feeling young.
All of our friends are here.
And Heidi looks smoking hot!
She's eating a taco.
- I'm gonna be careful.
- Any last words?
- No.
- Alright, we're about to do this,
These vow renewals.
(cheerful whistling)
- [Heidi] Haha, whoo!
(crowd cheering)
- I'm honored to come and celebrate with you guys
and be part of your big day today.
- Can we trade spots?
(crowd chuckling)
That's my good side.
- Your hair blocks your face though.
Burt, can you see her?
- [Burt] You're good.
- You can see her?
Okay.
- We are gathered here together in the presence of God and
friends and family,
to celebrate your decision to reenter in,
to recommit to what you committed to 10 years ago.
And we do it in the community of people who have supported
you all along the way.
And you have been adding life in value
through your laughter, through your beauty,
your creativity, your humor,
all the things that you bring to your relationships
and the work that you've done
in the covenant house that I've gotten to see, Heidi,
you've been such a gift to those in need and to our great
city and Taylor
in whatever exactly it is that you do.
(crowd laughing)
- I know your blessing.
- He wears wigs.
- Yes.
No, honestly one of the things
(applause)
I've always loved about your work,
Taylor, is not just, y'know, your humor but your
ability to normalize relationships and normalize marriage.
I think you're giving a realistic picture to the world
that the marriage is not always what we see on TV,
but it's doable and you can do it with a sense of humor.
And so I really love that about you.
In their wedding 10 years ago, you each wrote letters.
Taylor's was apparently a little shorter than Heidi's
so he's had 10 years to work on that.
But Taylor, at this time, would you now go first?
- Oh no, she's going first.
- Heidi would you go first?
(crowd laughing)
- Yeah, let me grab
- We drew straws already.
- Okay. Dear, Taylor
Here we are 10 years into our marriage
and 13 years strong together.
I think it goes without saying that these years have been
filled with a ton of life.
I've reflected on all the ways we've changed and even
some of the ways that we will never change
like the fact that you wanted to play Big Butts
at our dance tonight.
True story.
I keep saying it but I never in my wildest imagination
would've been able to write the story when I first met you
back in Sullivan Hall over 13 years ago.
I wouldn't have known
that I'd changed the whole trajectory of my life,
move to LA and build a life that seemed only written for
Hollywood.
I wouldn't have known that would create three of my most
favorite humans on this planet together.
I wouldn't have known that we would make an income by
dressing up as each other,
to make jokes about marriage and sex.
And I most certainly wouldn't have known that I'd have the
honor and privilege of working with and alongside my husband
that inspires people to be their best selves across the
whole earth.
I know there are many things coming up in our future,
beautiful things and lots of funny things,
but hard things and downright scary things.
And I love that the first thing that
comes to mind when I start thinking of
all that stuff is that we get to do them together.
And as cliche as it sounds,
I think you're the greatest gift of comfort, joy,
and hope that God has given me this side of heaven.
I feel like the relationship that I have with you here on
earth is just a glimpse of what eternity with God is like.
I'm not sure how I got so lucky to strike a jackpot in my
life partner and my best friend.
But I promise that for the days that I'm given with you,
I will continue learning about who you are,
your needs and invest myself in you because I would choose
you over and over and over again.
I vow to be a witness to your whole life
to show up when I don't know what else to do
to still go where you go and stay, where you stay.
I'll be here when we're sick and when we're healthy.
I'll be here when we're prosperous or
when we don't know how we're going to pay the bills.
I'll be here with an open heart and willing heart until God
says one of us has to go because we're too crazy.
But I begged God for a long life together because I just
don't want to ever be without you.
And I love you.
P.S.
I'll still always jump on the bed with you,
but let's make sure the fans are turned off
and out of the way.
(crowd laughing)
- But I wrote a letter too.
And mine.
This is definitely something that I wrote.
- Yeah.
- It's original.
- Okay.
- Heidi.
- Yes.
- You've got a friend in me.
You've got a friend in me
when the road looks dark ahead and
you're miles and miles from your nice warm bed.
Just remember what your old pal said.
Girl, you've got a friend in me.
Some other folks might be smarter than I am,
bigger and stronger too, but none of them
will ever love you
the way I love you.
It's me and you, girl.
So, originally I wrote this as a joke,
and then I realized how true it is
when we first started seeing each other
pretty quickly after meeting,
we became more than friends.
We became romantic pretty quick,
and we never really had a lot of time to just be friends.
But now, after being married to you for 10 years
and moving away together,
being broke together,
being successful together,
having kids together,
learning how to raise kids together,
laughing together,
crying together,
mourning together,
and even having scabies together
(everyone laughing)
just happened once.
But I've now realized that you're not just my wife.
You're also my best friend.
You know me for me,
the good, the bad and the ugly.
And you're still here.
And I've seen you at your best
and I've seen you at your worst
and I'm still here.
I'll always be here
because you're my forever.
So I am recommitting myself to you today.
I promise to wake up every single morning
and choose to love you.
And as the years go by,
our friendship will never die.
You're going to see it's our destiny.
You've got a friend in me.
(cheering and applause)
(high energy horns)
- Okay, we just got remarried.
Well, not remarried, recommitted.
I love you.
- To the marriage covenant.
- It was really fun.
That was honestly like, that was so much fun.
Everyone should do this.
- Everyone should do this.
- It's just fun.
You're older, you're wiser, you're more comfortable.
- I think you said it. I think things are worth celebrating.
I think we've been in this for 10 years.
We know what to expect and we're still here and that's,
that's worth celebrating.
Also after 2020
and knowing how things are not guaranteed,
why aren't we celebrating the things in our life that we
love more?
- Well, I celebrate you.
- I celebrate you.
I love you.
(Dude Dade intro)
(upbeat romantic music)