you're in a happy loving relationship and all seems right in the world but as
time passes you notice that your boyfriend who is once overly
affectionate and attentive to started to get sick of you and slip away the
bittersweet news is that it's probably your fault Hey ladies
Amy North here thanks for popping by at my channel for those of you who are
visiting for the first time welcome and for those who have already subscribed
welcome back if this is your first time visiting then allow me to introduce
myself as I already mentioned my name is Amy and I'm a relationship coach from
Western Canada I specialize in women's dating and relationship advice and I've
also written two programs the devotion system and text chemistry now believe it
or not there are certain things that US women do in relationships that cause our
partners to get annoyed or frustrated or bored and eventually pull away or leave
all together the good news though is that I'm about to share with you the top
5 reasons why guys get sick of women and knowing these means you'll be able to
rent them from ruining your love life so stay tuned before I kick off this list
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video comes out sounds good perfect okay now let's talk about why men will get
sick of you number one you're insecure you've probably heard this a million
times but I'm going to say it again men are attracted to confident women so then
if you're constantly complaining about your body comparing yourself to other
women or putting other woman down then he's without doubt going to get sick of
listening to your insecurities the good news though is that this is a really
easy fix you simply have to stop with all the negative talk and instead adopt
a positive attitude of course it can be tough to radiate confidence especially
if there are things about yourself that you'd like to change or you wish were
different but here's the thing I'm willing to
that when you and your man first got together you weren't acting or speaking
insecurely and it's only since you've become comfortable with him that he's
been seeing the side of you so go back to that same early day mentality and
keep your words positive number two you're clingy it's completely normal to
want to spend all of your time with the guy who stole in your heart but that
doesn't mean you should expect this to happen
acting clingy or getting upset or angry when your boyfriend wants to spend time
doing other things or hanging out with his friends will not only make you look
desperate but it'll also push him away if you show them that you have no life
outside of the relationship then he's going to feel pressured to keep you
happily entertained that's a lot of pressure and chances are he won't stick
around long enough to take on this near impossible task instead of suffocating
him give him space to do his own thing and be his own person you'll be amazed
by how happy and grateful he'll feel dating someone who's cool with having
time to be your own persons because this is something every guy wants in a
relationship it won't go unnoticed if you're interested in learning some easy
but powerful tips for becoming your own woman in a way that your boyfriend will
not only notice but also find extremely sexy then check out my site and watch
the free video presentation the link is coach NORTHCOM and i'll post it in the
description below as well number three you're bossy the way you
and your boyfriend communicate is bound to change as you get to know one another
better and become more comfortable with each other
meaning the filter you have with your words in the early days will likely
loosen and become more flexible over time well this can be a great thing it's
also a dangerous one if your words go from kind and compromising to demanding
and aggressive then he's going to get sick of your crappy attitude no
boyfriend on this planet wants to feel like he's spending time with an angry
parent who's constantly barking demands at him or with a spoiled brat who gets
upset when she doesn't get her own way instead of being the one who calls all
the shots all the time or bossing him around remember that you and your guy
should be on level playing ground don't put yourself on a pedestal and keep your
cool number four you're straight-up mean to him would you ever want to date
someone who constantly put you down who told you that your ideas or ambitions
were stupid or wasted time who didn't support you whatsoever
the answer is no absolutely not well guess what neither do men if you're
mean to your boyfriend make him feel undesirable unintelligent
on worthier on loved then he's going to get sick of you with so many people fail
to realize is that abuse comes in many different forms and words hurt if what
you're saying isn't kind then he will get sick of you and more than likely
leave for good sure playful teasing can be fun and may even add intimacy and
closeness to your relationship but be careful not to overdo it and be sure he
knows that you're not being serious a good rule to follow is this before
speaking ask yourself if what you're about to say is true necessary and kind
if it's not at least two of those three don't say it number five you don't like
his friends expecting you to like every person your boyfriend associates with is
one thing but if you find a reason and dislike all of your man's mates then he
may get sick of you here's the thing most of your boyfriend's friends were
likely in his life before he ever started dating you they know things
about him that he wouldn't dare tell you and they want him to be happy if he
suddenly disappears from their lives because the two of you are dating or if
they get the impression that you don't like them or that you don't want your
guy around them they're not going to support his decision to be with you this
might not bug your man out first but as time passes he will start to miss his
buds and you may even blame you for his lacking social life instead of letting
this happen make an effort to get to know the people
your boyfriend calls his friends and give them the benefit of the doubt if
you have a serious issue with one or two of them let your man in on it but as for
the petty stuff let it go well that's just a better wrap for this
video thanks for watching if there are any other reasons why guys get sick of
their girlfriends or wives that you'd like to add to this list then please
share those in the comment section below along with any questions you may have
for me I always love hearing from you and I'll do my best to reply to you as
soon as possible again just a little reminder that if you haven't already
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good luck
you