hello mates what's going on you know what time it is on our way to get a smoothie
it's a nice day outside i guess smoothie uh something a little cool off and we're
gonna sit down and go over a couple things uh but first we're gonna grab a smoothie because
we're on the way and when i go back sit down and talk to you guys in a bit let's go
all right guys we got a little samsung you know
lemonade and cucumber this one over here almost finished hers guys
what the sweat outfit yes or lick it oh it's dead this is good though yeah lemonade uh
cucumber very good very good lemonade you gotta get the key yeah okay so we're gonna drink this
and we're just gonna update you on our pregnancy and how everything's going sit down relaxing take
a shower first we can properly address things and talk about things but catch guys in a bit guys so
before we sit down and talk about something serious i thought i would cheer dominic up
you know lighten the mood he's been down so i thought this would be a great idea and i
know he's going to enjoy it you see that means little does he know let me show you something
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oh look what it comes with it so this is the blaster and then the gellet
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we got the safety goggles right here so you see that means i'm gonna put this right here
okay i'll grab this can you put it right here
me i'm gonna go to the gym right now and do my cardio
okay okay bye
yeah wait i'll i'll call you back come find me what is this gel blast to surge
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is
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so we kind of wanted to talk to you guys and give you guys an update a lot of people were asking us
what's going on with like you know you guys trying to get pregnant and stuff so we actually have an
appointment with a fertility clinic next tuesday guys like this is something that i never thought
that i would be doing like you know i always thought i guess like i i don't know i always
thought that i would get pregnant right away you know that i feel like this whole experience i
definitely kind of humbled us and like put things into perspective and like we always say like
you learn like we learn so many things like as we go and i feel like this we feel like we feel like
this kind of situation that we're going through a lot of people are going through but it's not
talked about that much yeah so and we've always been open with you guys so we feel like being
obviously sharing this as well as the process that we're going through it's nothing that we thought
and it's nothing like pursley like the appointment next week uh it's for both of us yeah like this is
not an ego thing for men or nothing like that like the problem can be either or right so we want to
cover all our bases since snack has never been on any birth control whatsoever and we're still
younger that's the word doing a lot of research it just kind of puts a lot of questions in your head
at least if i took birth control i was like oh maybe it was the birth control i like
it would take longer yeah and like we read and like that's what i like to share things with you
guys because like it's like thousands of heads and yeah ideas put together
and it's basically you guys who gave us the idea to go seek help right to go to the doctors because
the other thing too is like yeah you can wait a whole year and keep trying but then i feel there's
always that thought in the back of your head and you're always questioning then it puts pressure
and stress and like everyone can say like don't think about but like you think about it yeah like
you can just switch it off or something or the worst is like just relax yeah it's it's i mean
it's harder than it seems yeah i get what you guys mean like when people tell you to relax
i get it because i see it too but it's like it's easier said than exactly yeah
and like even though like i said could take like up to a year and stuff like that we have been
trying for a long time yeah and at this point we would get to know if there is an issue if
there's not an issue if there is no issue that's perfect like thank god and we can kind of just put
those thoughts that are in the back of our head to the side and then just focus on relaxing and
then it happens in god time but if there is an issue that way we can address it earlier than
you know waiting a whole year and then like if there is an issue and if there is a serious issue
that could develop even worse later on right yeah so i'm gonna go for an ultrasound and i've
never done an ultrasound or anything so i'm really nervous but um i i'm a little like not worried but
okay i'm a little worried just because i have heavy period and it's very painful
and i always throw up right and sometimes like when i'm on my not sometimes every time i'm on my
period um i lose sense of my muscles like my knees hurt my arm hurts but um it's very bad my mom's
like that too and my grandmother was like that but my mom when i was talking to her she said that
her first pregnancy it took her a little while to get pregnant and people would make fun of her
because they're like oh you can't have kids blah blah blah blah so maybe it's the same you know but
i did get checked out when i was a teenager and they said there's nothing wrong with me and then
later on like i did my pap test everything came out good but i wasn't checking for like ovaries
and stuff like anything specific right so now we've been trying for a long time and i feel like
like i'm still not pregnant i don't understand so a part of me wants there to be like an issue so
we can be like okay yeah this is the reason why i don't want to go in there and for them to be like
everything is normal i feel like that would hurt more and it's like because if everything is normal
there's nothing they can do they say like every month is a new chance new opportunity it seems
like every month stress is a new disappointment yeah because it's like every month you're like
okay you know i don't want to get my hopes up but it's like i do want to get my hopes up i do want
to hope that i'm pregnant i don't want to go into you know like every month be like okay don't get
your hopes up don't get your host because the more i say that the more my hopes are up and we did a
pregnancy test like two days ago it was negative and i was crushed and i was just like i can't
keep doing that and you want to tell yourself that you don't think about it or you don't you
know we'll try something different this month and like whatever but it's hard but it's weird because
you just naturally get excited you know and like doing like the abs or like you know the ovulation
like literally every like we're doing everything there's not one thing that we haven't done
except to see a fertility it's a expert that has obgy gynecologists they have the
it's a specialized they do ivf and stuff like that one of the best in this area or the entire country
so yeah they're the specialists and they're gonna just check it out and you know if we feel a bit
down the next couple days and stuff like that we're going through a lot of things that's why
we kind of also want to tell you so you know keep you guys up to date yeah and uh we might film the
the the appointment we like we don't know yet yeah yeah we'll see yeah so dominic is gonna make sure
he has all so we saw two types of uh tests for dominic there's one where obviously they see if
you have a lot of swimmers quantity and then how they swim yeah and then the other ones the quality
like does he have the caps course yeah basically if they're able to do their jobs like it's not
about just getting there but it's about actually doing the job which is to go through the egg right
yeah so we're gonna make sure that they do all of them because a lot of men they have the swimmers
and they have a lot but they don't have good quality ones the way they're shaped yeah exactly
i don't know like i said we're just going along what we did our research on and they're going
to tell us the experts will tell us what to do i'm supposed to get my period on tuesday
on monday yeah she has to go get the outside during her period the second day first second
or third day yeah and me i have to be abstinent for three to five days yeah for my test and
these steps that they told us is uh i guess they would see if there's something that it could be
supplemental like vitamins and stuff like that if it can be fixed for ovulation if that is the issue
and then it could be uh i ui or iui if if the natural if let's say um they always go the natural
route it doesn't work and then they're gonna tell us when to um dance baby dance when i because
they're gonna like basically know everything about my body right they're gonna know when i ovulate
how i ovulate because right now i like i mean i do ovulate i know what well hopefully i do but
i mean i mean but i mean i do ovulate because i took the ovulation and it told us one but i think
i ovulate for a short amount of time and we always miss it i think that's what it is or i don't know
we're just going to get the information and also like it could be like we saw that there's a lot
of like barrier if there's like a lot of music or like you know like liquid or what whatever it's
called that like is making it harder to swim there yeah so maybe your swimmers don't make it all the
way they're going to take dominic swimmers and put them directly directly into the tubes or yeah
fallopian tubes or whatever that is the next step would be ivs would be like the last one but i'm a
little paranoid because like what if like it's not your swimmers and it's like an accident
like someone else yeah how do i know i need to see them taking it putting in the freezer oh okay
if someone yeah let me see real quick all right there's a netflix video on like yeah i'm scared
so i hope we can like going on it's like our first time and it's very it's very hard going through
this as a couple but at the same time you know we always see what it makes us strong everything
that we go through we've been through so much it does make us stronger i'm going to deal with
it together yeah i believe that um you never god doesn't put you think through things and that you
can't handle so we can handle this you know god put this and put us in this situation and he knew
we would be able to handle it and when we do get pregnant mates my mom had a dream we got pregnant
my mom like she was like i had a dream dominique had a dream yeah we got a positive
i had a dream i did a pregnancy test at seven days after revelation and it was negative
like my big thing is that there could or there could not be something but the amount of time that
we've been through this and just getting those thoughts there's a problem you know
guidance basically yeah it's like it's a win-win there's no negative in doing it now instead of
waiting right so we're here we found like we got we got recommended some people that
they're the specialists right yeah so um i'm excited i'm kind of like
i'm like uh like i'm on my side it's no i don't want
yeah it's like i feel like it would be better if you're you didn't i think it's easier it's easier
if it's dominic that has like an issue than with me because if i if my like ovulation or my ovaries
aren't performing then we can never have kids like it's done i want to get checked because
like it's those two people doing dance and as as embarrassing or whatever it could be like like
from my end uh you know i have to put us first there's no embarrassment me sometimes it happens
yeah i feel like it's harder for guys yeah it's like
because you don't you don't really talk because even when i were making the appointment
they were making it seem like me like they were like okay naka you're gonna know but i was like
okay but like what about dummy like we had to tell them like we want to book this but they
don't usually do that usually they start with the woman but i was like no we're gonna do me both
because you know maybe it's him maybe it's me but maybe it's neither of us but i feel like we just
need guidance like i need someone like like they said that the doctors they can tell you um because
we have whatsapp right the clinics messages you on whatsapp which is really nice so they can
message yeah yeah they can like i talk to the girl and they can message me like okay so tonight you
guys have to dance between this time you have a 24 hour window it's like okay like you know
so i really like the fact that they do things like that like they go yeah they go above and beyond
yeah so that's what i really really like so i'm excited nervous scared but i just want answers you
know i'm tired of being disappointed month after month and it's just like it's just i'm tired of
like hearing you know it's gonna happen when it's meant to happen okay like i know but you know like
it's just don't stress like yes i am gonna stress or like don't think about it when the babies are
coming or like you guys should get going when are you guys gonna have kids like oh my god no
no and that could gain weight is she pregnant like all these things you know it's just like
you get tired of it but i just want to keep you a little update yeah keep you guys in the loop
so tuesday we're going in for appointments that's about it so my period is supposed to
come on sunday monday or tuesday hopefully it doesn't come yeah that would be great that'd
be a good guy yeah but i don't it's going to come thanks for being by our side thanks for supporting
wishing you comment subscribe an amazing day we'll talk to you guys soon bye toodaloo