Have you ever started a new relationship
and at first was first three months, there
is so much chemistry things are going so
well and it's almost like you two were
created to be together and then only three
short months go by and it turns into a
scene from The Conuring.
It's almost like a demonic plague comes
into your relationship and it turns it
from this beautiful thing into one of the
scariest
shows you could ever imagine now if your
relationships tend to go from rom-com to a
horror movie when it hits that three.
Face.
Keep watching.
Hey there, Adam LoDolce from sexy
confidence.com where I hope you create
your love story and this video is all
about the curse of the three-month
relationship.
Now.
I personally went through this myself for
many years in my 20s.
And in many ways.
I was kind of cool with it because I was
really just enjoying getting out there
dating meeting lots of people and I kind
of realize that you know, most
relationships weren't going to work out
and it's.
Like it was always at that three month
Mark.
Wish it just seemed to blow up now.
If you're at a point in life where you
really want something longer-term
something you can really rely on and feel
like this is going to last the rest of
your life.
Then you really want to make sure you
avoid these three critical mistakes.
The first biggest mistake is only chasing
Sexual Energy.
If you find that your relationship start
out really strong and you just get
completely swept off your feet and you're
finding that the sex is amazing and you
just want to spend every.
Two seconds with that person and you're
not thinking about anything else when it
comes to compatibility if there's a
friendship if you actually like that
person then chances are you're making this
mistake if you're looking for a long-term
potential you really need to keep yourself
in check in those first three months of
the relationship.
Sure.
Great sex is amazing for sure.
You want to be chasing that but you also
need to keep your head on straight and be
thinking would this person be a good
father to my children.
Would he be a good husband is he reliable
do we actually want the same things in
life?
And I found that a lot of people who get
in relationships that only lasts the three
month period are only thinking about the
Sexual Energy at first rather than hey.
Is this actually a real thing like I
always.
You want to find that best friend that you
are also attracted to you want to be
attractive that person have that
incredible Sexual Energy, but there also
needs to be a friendship involved in the
relationship because you'll see if you've
never been in a relationship that lasts
longer than three months.
You'll notice that the Sexual Energy
starts to dwindle and the only thing
you're left with is either a friend or
someone that you don't even like that much
mistake.
Number two is that you're moving too fast
at the beginning and coming on just way
too strong.
I've heard it all before from so many of
you sexy single ladies and I understand
where you're coming from.
You want a great relationship and this is
what you're looking for.
But in those early phases you don't want
to have too many expectations expectations
that they should be committed to you and
only you in the first two weeks of
relationship or expectations that he's
going to be texting you every single day.
Even if you've been dating for a couple
months these expectations are killing you.
I have a really good friend.
She is looking for a long-term
relationship and she seems to always find
these amazing relationships in this first
one or maybe two months.
Everything's going really well and it's a
lot of fun and she's a lot of fun the
relationship but.
Once it hits that month two months three
phase those expectations are killing the
relationship.
She starts getting annoyed and mad at
every little thing he does and he's
wondering what's going on here.
I thought we were just getting to know
each other and mistake number three is
that you're actually subconsciously or
consciously afraid of love and you're
sabotaging the relationship any chance you
can get weirdly this happens more often
than not when we have been burned in the
past and we've had really ****ty
relationships that
just kind of broke us in some ways.
Sometimes when we find a good thing in a
good situation for us.
We find ways to poke holes in it.
So the relationship does if you've ever
done this, I love to hear from you in the
comments below and tell me how is it that
you sabotage relationships in the past now
all of you are here right now because you
want to find an amazing relationship you
want to be loved and you want to give love
in order to have that type of
relationship.
You need to love yourself first and
without really.
Appreciating who you are and what you
bring to the table and what value you
bring to a relationship it's never going
to happen.
So starting from this point forward.
I need you to start working on yourself.
Remember you are number one in a
relationship.
You are the common denominator that exists
in all the relationships that you've been
in so it's time to really start working on
yourself before you get into these
situations where you're just sabotaging
the relationship because you're too scared
and it's just too good and if you do
constantly sabotage relationships, it's
time to.
Terms with it.
It's time to take a look at your past and
just face it head-on take a look out what
has happened in your past and realize that
your past doesn't equal your future and
just because you've been hurt in the past
you've had ****ty things happen.
You've dated ****ty guys doesn't mean this
next time around is going to be that way.
I'm here for you and I'd love to help you
throughout this entire process.
So for being here right now, I'd love for
you to join my free webinar.
You can click on the link right down
there.
You can click it anywhere on this video
and.
Going to really walk you through the three
ways that you can get out there and
attract a great relationship and a great
man for you so that you don't get stuck in
this three months phase and you can find
an amazing relationship that you truly
deserve click on that link or head on over
sector confidence.com.
Thank you so much for being here, and I
cannot wait to speak to you next week you
sexy single lady.
Speak to you soon.
Bye.