Controlling wife
signs. Hi, my name is Paul Friedman, I
founded The Marriage Foundation
and I'm going to try and help you
gain a little bit of understanding about
your wife
so you can go,
"Okay, so there's signs that she's
controlling,
so what? She's controlling
and I'm this, and she's that, and I'm that
and I'm this."
None of us are perfect but I want to
tell you
a joke. It's maybe inappropriate it
doesn't matter to me.
If it's inappropriate because I think
it's one of the funniest jokes I've ever
heard.
So this friend of mine dies and he goes
to the gates of heaven
and there's two lines. One line
says, "Henpecked husbands form
line here," and the line goes so
long -- it's all the way back to earth. And
the men are standing there waiting to
get into heaven
because they've endured a wife
henpecked as an old expression. It
means that the wife is constantly on
them
and the other line says, "Non-henpecked
husbands form line here."
And there's one guy, so my friend goes up
to the guy and he says,
"Dude, what are you doing in this line?" And
he answers,
"Hey look, my wife told me to stand here
and until she says
it's okay this is where I'm going to stand."
Human nature can be divided into
male and female. Again,
this nonsense about gender equality
when it comes to "we're the same" is just
nonsense.
Of course everyone should earn the same
amount of money, of course everyone
should be treated with
the utmost respect, of course, of course
of course.
But when it comes to the differences
between the male who is in a male body
and that's why
there's differences in a female. Again
they create different
thoughts, ideas, feelings, defense
mechanisms
in the mind. You're not going to change
your life,
you're not. You don't want her to change.
You married her for her heart.
Look past
the controlling. Look past
the this and the that.
Those don't matter. Do a workaround,
see those attributes as cute.
Read one of my books. It'll give you so
much more
insight into what I'm talking about but
you know what I'm talking about just by
putting it out there like that.
So you're not going to change her, don't
worry about the signs
whatever you're seeing that's the sign
and it's real
but don't even entertain the notion
that she will change. Love her
for who she is, her heart
not the attributes. Okay.
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marriage but you should really read one
of the books
and leave a comment if you'd like. A lot
of men
leave snide comments but that's okay, I
don't mind.
If it's too snide, I'll remove it. If it's
funny, I'll leave it and blessings to you.
Blessings to your wife
and your family! Take care!