10 Clever Ways To INSTANTLY Look More Attractive [0:00:00]
[Music] The first clever hack to look more attractive,
wear a color that compliments your natural complexion.
Okay. I get it, but how do I choose the right color for me? And, by the way, I don’t want
to use any of those colored charts. The easiest solution is to look to your past.
When you were a kid, you tried on a wide range of different colors, different outfits, and
here’s the thing, you probably got compliments on those that just naturally complemented
your color tone. For me, olive green, this shade of blue. We’ve
all got certain colors which we gravitate towards, find yours.
Yeah, it does. But, there’s always a give and take, which you gain with versatility,
you lose when it comes to having a color sit next to your body that can help your natural
tones pop. I mean, you see the difference, right? This
shirt right here, very similar to the gray, but it’s that bit of brown which just gives
it a little bit more energy, a little bit more pop with my color tones.
Next up, on the list, stop shaving, a little bit of stubble can go a long way. So, this
is based off a 2016 study coming out of the Journal of Evolutionary Biology. I really
like this study because they surveyed 8,500 women. They showed them three pictures. One
of them clean shaven, the other guy actually has a little bit of stubble, and then the
third guy, a full on beard. Now, when it came to the full on beard, women
love this guy because, yeah, he’s going to be a long term partner. This guy is going
to be great with kids. And maybe it’s because of his social status with the beard that they
felt this guy was just great long term. But, short term wanting to hook up, it was
the stubble guy. The guy that was clean shaven, nobody seemed to look at this guy. It was
all about that little bit of stubble, there was something sexy, something attractive about
this guy. Now, what about the hair on the rest of your
body, should you go a full on shave? Well, gentlemen, it’s a little bit more complex
than that. So, there was a 2016 study coming out of the Archives of Sexual Behavior, and
what they found is that for the most part, women do like a man that’s well-groomed
except, do not shave your chest. Yes, apparently a little bit of hair in the
sternum right here on the pecks around the nipples, women really like this. Actually,
much better than a fully shaven man. They wanted to see a little bit of hair there,
but apparently on the rest of the body, it’s not as attractive.
The next tip, throw on a piece of leather. I’ve talked about this before that when
you look at all the materials that were used in fashion, leather again and again wins when
it comes to perceived masculinity. There’s just something about leather jackets, about
leather clothing, leather accessories that screams manliness.
And you don’t have to wear a full on leather jacket when it comes to getting the masculine
leather look. Just look how this leather backpack transforms my look. It’s got a classic timeless
masculine strong appeal to it. Now, the problem with bags like this is in
general they’re very expensive. If you went with a designer backpack like this made from
leather, we’re talking well over a thousand dollars.
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personalized embroidery, getting your initials on the bag, or simply getting the leather
that you want. Now, the backpack I’ve got right here is
their new explorer backpack and it’s one of my favorite designs. I like just simply
it’s functional. This is great if you’re a student if you’re a business person, if
you just simply want a backpack that looks great and is going to get the job done.
I also love that they’ve got thick adjustable shoulder straps. As a guy that used to do
a lot of forced marching in the Marine Corps, I can tell you the thickness of the strap
is key to being able to distribute the weight especially if you’re going to thrown in
a bunch of books, you’re going to throw some water bottles right in there, you want
to make sure that you can take the weight. And if backpacks are not your thing, you want
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Next up on our list of clever ways to be instantly more attractive, wear the right fragrance.
Actually, specifically wear the right fragrance that has the right notes that attracts women.
And this is going to change from woman to woman, but in general, I’m going to talk
about seven notes that women absolutely love. One of them, vanilla. Another one, musk. Another
one, lavender. And guess what? All three are in this fragrance right here, which some women
I’ve actually read online, they’ve described this as the crystal meth of fragrances.
Yeah, one woman talked about when her husband wears this, she actually thought, you know
I just love the way my husband smells. But then, she realized for twenty years, he’s
been wearing this fragrance. Too old school for you? Okay, let’s grab
another one. This one a little bit more modern more designer, but guess what? Cinnamon, tobacco,
tonka bean. Those three notes right there, women absolutely love.
I didn’t even know this and I’m wearing this fragrance, I had a woman chased me down
asking me what am I wearing. She absolutely loved it, she had to get the name, she wanted
to write it down for her boyfriend, and she ends up talking to me for five minutes. I’m
a happily married man. I do enjoy the attention and this fragrance will draw it out.
[0:05:04] Next up, we’ve got vetiver. And, understand
that vetiver can smell very different. It can be like lemon verbana or it can actually
be like crushed tobacco leaves. Depends on the type of vetiver, but find the one that
works for you and understand that this grass, there’s just something about it that draws
women in. All right. I can’t help myself, let’s
just keep going. So, rose is another note that some women love, some women don’t like
it, but other women are drawn to it like moths to a flame.
And, I’m going to say this because it needs to be said, don’t listen to all those fragrance
snubs out there that say, “You know what? Don’t go with something like this because
it’s too common. You’re going to smell like everyone else.”
Here’s the thing. These top selling designer fragrances, there’s a reason that they are
top selling designer fragrances. The vast majority of them are actually really good
and the ones that are really selling are just things that men wear and they get compliments
all day long. Yeah, you’re going to smell like a lot of
other guys, but when you’re in close and she’s loving the way you smell, it doesn’t
matter. The next clever way to look more attractive,
read books and read them in public. Now, I’ve talked about this before, but apparently there’s
a whole website out there of women stalkers that are posting pictures of hot men reading.
Sadly, I’m not yet featured on that website, but I attribute it to the fact that if I was,
I probably blow up the internet. Now, the funny thing about this is it actually
does matter what you’re reading. So, eHarmony did this study and they made it available,
so that people could see the books you were interested in.
If a man said he was interested in The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, apparently he got
36% more messages from women. Yet, if he said he’s reading the Harry Potter series, he
got 55% less messages. And, sadly, don’t say you’re reading Lord of the Rings, -24%
or The Hobbit, -15%. But, feel free to mention World War II books because apparently, that
gives you a bump of about 16%. My advice, simply go with nonfiction that interests you.
Now, no RMRS video would be complete without me telling you to put on a jacket. Yes, jackets
make you more attractive and it’s a very easy way whether it’d be a sports jacket,
blazer jackets, suit jacket, leather jacket. All jackets basically do the same thing, they
build up your shoulders, they draw attention to the shoulders. Whenever you walk, they
make your shoulders basically the profile stands out and it makes a man more attractive.
They also slim up the silhouette when you button that button when you’re standing.
When you zip up that jacket just a bit, what do you do? You slim up that torso, that waistline.
It also creates a seamless silhouette because if it’s a dark color that goes with dark
jeans, it doesn’t have a high contrast. But, it also does lengthen the leg line because
a jacket especially like a sports jacket covers the back buttocks.
So, by your top 2/3, this just gives the eyes the illusion of being able to go up and down
easier making you look taller. So many great things about a jacket.
Now, this jacket in particular, do you notice the color? I’ve got that olive green going
back to my first point. So, I’m leveraging colors that I love. Also, do you notice another
color here? Spot it, come on, pretty easy, right? The red.
So, this is base off a 2010 study. I’m seeing this throughout nature as well. This is a
clear signal that I have high status. I’m not talking wearing a full red suit, that’s
not going to convey high status. But little bits of red here or there send signals that
this guy has something going on. This is worth our attention. That’s why red grabs our
attention. It is a very small signal, but this is something
that helps you stand out from the crowd. So, if any of your accessories, you put just a
little bit of red, it can have a huge impact on your overall attractiveness.
And let’s talk about your footwear. Guys, I love sneakers. They’re comfortable, they’re
versatile, they’re great. But, when it comes to a first date, when it comes to something
that women like to see on a man, sneakers, they don’t really rank too high.
What does rank high, dress boots. Boots in general, women absolutely love. And I think
it was one study that GQ did. It was like 76% of women said this is the type of shoe
that they want to see a man wear. Not necessarily, you know, a brogue dress boot, but I would
say this is not a bad choice. This thing right here is beautiful. This, you’re going to
get compliments. And, let’s talk about the height advantage.
All of a sudden, you’re going to go up two inches in height. I’m 5’9”. When I wear
these, I’m 5’11” and I love the fact that they make me look taller because when
you look taller, you look leaner, you look stronger, you just look better.
All right, guys, so I know you’ve got an opinion. I want to hear from you down in the
comments, what did I miss, what would you have added to this video to make it better?
Let me know down in the comments. So, what video to watch next? How about eight
tips to always look stylish and put together? Guys, in this video, I make it easy to dress
sharp. [0:09:24] End of audio