Gentlemen welcome to another episode of Mantelligence.
I'm here again with Kaye and Larry to bring you dating tips and tricks
and help you up your wooing game.
Today, we're breaking down five psychological ways to attract a woman
and teaching you how to be more attractive and get a girl to
like you even without saying a word.
Today's episode is inspired by Alpha M's video where he shared subtle ways to attract a woman.
If you want to know how to get a girlfriend, stay tuned until the end of this video because
we're also revealing what not to do
if you really want to attract a woman and score a date.
Ready?
Let's start.
1.
Mr. Big Shot Ever seen a woman bat her lashes at a man
wearing a suit?
How about a woman whose jaw dropped from being blown away by a man
coming out of a Silver Bentley Continental GT?
These body languages
are common signs of attraction in women, especially around men
they think belong in a high social status.
Did you know that our mate preferences are actually deeply rooted in our evolutionary
psychology?
A woman looking to date long-term, for example, will seek a man
who exhibits characteristics of power, good earning capacity, and higher education.
This is because, through time, women have evolved from a lack of social power,
which made it necessary for them to marry men who can boost their social standing.
So if you want to know how to attract a woman, social science suggests presenting yourself
as high status.
A handsome face, big house, and a nice car, external wealth, prestige,
and social status.
Okay?
So what if you don't look like Brad Pitt or own a red Ferrari?
Don't fret.
If you want to know how to look more attractive to women, fake it till you make it.
Even if you don't have the material resources of a big shot, you can still act like one.
A hefty bank account doesn't mean anything if you don't know how to carry yourself anyway.
According to dating coach Marcus N, your potential for status
is equally attractive with attained status itself.
This means that if your behavior shows that you have the potential to be rich, famous,
and successful, you're automatically perceived by women as being rich, famous,
and successful.
Can't tell whether a girl likes you or not?
Watch this video where we spilled all the body language signs a girl's attracted to
you.
4.
Best Wingman Ever If you're a pet lover, I have good news for
you.
This is probably one of the easiest and most fool-proof ways to attract a woman
and get her to like you.
The secret to successfully picking up chicks is through your furry friend.
In a 2008 experiment, two French social psychologists had a handsome
young Frenchman named Antoine approach 240 randomly selected women
and ask them for their phone numbers so they could go on a date.
The catch was that half the time, Antoine was alone, and half the time,
he was accompanied by a cute little grey dog named Gwendu.
At the end of the study, 10% of the women gave Antoine their phone
numbers when he was doing it alone and 30% when Gwendu accompanied him.
Do you want to know why this trick works?
According to an international study, there are indications that owning a dog or a cat
can signal to a potential partner that you possess caregiving abilities.
Being sensitive, thoughtful, and caring are habits women love.
In fact, according to sexual health physician Dr. Deepak
Jumani, a person's sensitivity is personified by his
actions.
Apart from physical attributes, women are drawn to men who display emotional
traits such as empathy, compassion, and concern for all.
A woman will indeed find a man more attractive when he is seen caring and empathetic to his
pets.
Wondering what girls find attractive in guys?
Find out how to look good the right way with this video where we teach
you all the habits women love.
3.
Bark up the Right Tree Have you ever wondered why, no matter how
hard you try, you just can't score a date?
Have you ever thought that maybe you're looking way out of your radar?
I'm not saying the movie "She's Out of My League" can't happen in real life.
And no, it doesn't necessarily mean girls think you're
unattractive.
I'm just saying that sometimes in life, you got to deal with your cards the right way.
Or maybe you're just not their type.
If you really want to attract a woman, scientists suggest looking for someone in
your own league.
The truth is that men and women are attracted to people they think are as
attractive as they are.
In one study, researchers at the University of California
at Berkeley looked at the behavior of 60 heterosexual
male and 60 heterosexual female users on an online
dating site.
While most users were inclined to reach out to highly attractive people,
they were most likely to get a response if that person was about as attractive as they
were.
If you want to know how to be more attractive to women,
you must first avoid all reasons why girls may think you're not.
Check out this video where we unveil all the reasons girls think you're unattractive.
We're down to our last two items in this list of psychological ways to attract a woman.
But before we give you more psychological tricks to get a girl attracted to you,
we just want to remind you that at the end of this video, we're also revealing
what not to do when trying to sweep a girl off her feet.
Ready to jump back in?
Here are two more ways to attract a woman without saying a word:
2.
I See You A study published in the Journal of Research
in Personality revealed a correlation between a mutual gaze
and feelings of romantic love.
In their experiment, the researchers asked random strangers
to stare into each other's eyes for 2 minutes without breaking eye contact.
After the experiment, the participants reported an increased feeling
of passionate love for each other.
Do you want to know why this works?
Apparently, looking into someone's eyes for a certain amount of time
is one way to prompt our brain to release oxytocin or our love hormone.
So the next time you come across a beautiful woman, look into her eyes
and make sure to do it with a charming smile.
Otherwise, it's just creepy. 1.
Bring Your Girlfriends With You If you want to attract a woman and give your
sex appeal a boost, pop psychology suggests surrounding yourself
with lots of other women.
A new study from the University of St Andrew's, published in the journal Scientific Reports,
has found that men get an "attractiveness boost"
when chosen by others.
This notion is based on the scientific hypothesis that heterosexual women practice "mate choice
copying."
That is, females save time and energy finding a worthy
mate by selecting one previously picked by others.
And who else can help you with that?
Your girl friends, of course.
The next time you go on a night out, bring your gorgeous lady friends with you
and let them put in a good word for you.
Girls make for the best wingmen.
Now that you know all the ways to attract a woman,
it's time we reveal the number one thing you shouldn't do
to make a great impression on any woman.
There will come a time where you'll need to talk to a woman eventually,
and when that time comes,
aside from avoiding blurting out a rather corny pick-up line,
experts advise avoiding being too cocky.
According to a 2014 study from researchers at Hope College and the University
of North Texas, immodesty can kill romance.
In two experiments, researchers had about 200 mostly heterosexual
undergrads read descriptions and personality assessments
of a hypothetical fellow student.
Some descriptions were down to earth, and some very proud.
The experiment revealed that when the student appeared highly humble,
the undergrads were more likely to want to start a relationship with them.
So if you're thinking of making up an over-the-top backstory to impress a girl,
take a u-turn.
Nobody likes a douchebag.
Do you know more psychological ways to attract a woman?
Or maybe you've already tried some of these psychological tricks.
If you want to share your two cents on how to attract women, share your thoughts in the
comments section below.
And that is it for this list of psychological ways to attract a woman.
Can't tell whether a girl likes you or not?
Watch this video where we spilled all the body language signs a girl's attracted to
you.