Maybe you've heard of the crazy company (it's also an app) it's called Only Fans. This thing has just
blown up in the past year, especially because of what's going on in the world. People are very
lonely and they can't go to strip clubs anymore. This is like a strip club brought to your phone.
And it doesn't surprise me that something like this is so big. I feel like you look back
in terms of the whole sex industry and you see this pattern. It's like a long time ago
you were to go to the movies if you wanted to see an exotic film. And if you wanted to go to a strip
club, you would do that. But I'm just talking about media. So you go to some sort of theater
and then eventually it was brought into your home and you could watch it with a videotape. And then
it moved to you could watch it online. And then it started to become where there was more than just
actresses who were in these erotic films. But then it was amateurs and then there was all these cam
shows. What I'm seeing here is that it keeps on getting closer and closer and closer to the
consumer. All the way to the point where you are on Only Fans and you are directly paying a girl.
And you can even pay her just a text message you where you guys can be texting
and you guys can get on FaceTime and you guys can be right there for each other. So it gets
closer and closer and closer and now it's so close to the point where you guys are so
connected. And you can do this with thousands of different girls that, of course, this thing
is completely blown up. There is a reason why I'm shooting this video. It's not just to educate you
on the erotic, or porn industry, as you call it. But I do want to give a little bit of
a PSA about how dangerous it is. But let's go back to this idea of how this all works.
This company's I think, I don't know the details, I didn't do too much research here. But probably
raking in many, many millions, multiple millions of dollars here on this. And a lot of it is
in a way taking advantage of very lonely men. Now I'm not putting them down, I'm not trying to play
victim here. We all have our own choice, we make the choices, we do the actions that we want to do.
It is what it is. But what I found is, now it is so much easier for a person to pay a sex worker.
Before you would have to try to find a prostitute somewhere which many men do where you'd have to go
and get over to a strip club somewhere. Now it's so easy. You have your phone, it's a click of a
button. More guys can be take can take advantage of this. And I think that this is very dangerous
because this plays to guys' insecurities and plays to guys' loneliness. What I'm trying to
say here in this video. is this is not something you should partake in. Basically what you're doing
when you are going on one of these things and you're paying whatever it is per month to see
the pictures, the videos or connect with a girl is you are training yourself to start
going into this downward spiral of addiction. It does become an addiction like anything else. It's
very enticing to be able to see photos and connect with a girl who you think is attractive. And
there's... I don't have stats on this but I'm sure so many women are on this thing that you
would never be able to go through all of them. It's just very enticing and very addicting to
see one girl and then see another girl then maybe stop paying one girl and then go to another girl.
And it becomes this addiction, this downward spiral where all of a sudden,
and I know it's I'm sounding dramatic here, but I'm telling you this is what's happening.
You get addicted to it to the point where you're spending all of your money on this and
the only way that you're gonna feel good or turned on or not lonely anymore is by spending your money
on these fake relationships. And these girls are very good, especially the ones that are in the
whatever top percentile make a lot of money. They're very good at making you feel good.
They know exactly what to do to make you feel this artificial love and desire which is not actually
there. It's scary how addicting this thing can be. And I'm afraid that if a guy gets a taste of this,
that he's not going to put himself out there to form a real connection with a real woman
out in the real world. Or even at the very least meeting women on dating apps which is
totally cool. Meeting women on dating apps, but again eventually getting with them in person and
not paying for their affection or for their time. I know there's a whole community of guys out there
who think like well the insel community and this is the only way for a guy who's not attractive
to be able to be with a woman. I just don't think that's true. I think that there are a
lot of things that a guy can do to be able to have a real connection with a woman and do this without
having to pay money or feeding into this really scary addiction that can happen when you get
this dopamine rush of getting the picture or the text or the FaceTime call with this girl and this
spending a lot of money on this. I know guys who I've talked to that have been interested in doing
coaching with me, who have spent tens of thousands of dollars into whether it be prostitution,
whether it be some sort of seeking arrangement, or they're doing some sort of Only Fans or cams
or whatever. They're just pouring their money into this and they hate themselves for it. They do it
because it's this kind of this addiction, it feels good, it feels nice. But they hate themselves for
it. Their self-esteem is completely tanked. They know it's fake, but they're addicted to it because
it feels good and it gives them this sort of pleasure. It gives them this sort of attention.
And they come to me to fix this exact thing, which we do. We get them so they're not putting their
money into that and putting their attention and addiction into that and being able to
transform them to start dating and meeting women in real life. And then proving to themselves that
they have the capability to be able to make a real connection with a woman which feels
10 times better, 10 times more fulfilling and just gives you this more realistic view
into what a connection is. Or if you want to call that love or attraction, whatever word you
want to use there. But it gets them into something that is real. I urge you, if you are a guy who is
spending even $1 on this thing, be careful. Even if you're just curious, be careful. I know
it's enticing and that there's a lot of women on there. A lot of women who are very attractive that
you may want to see what's going on there. But it is dangerous for you to do this. Be careful
and make sure that you are trying to find connection in a more natural way. That's Tripp
here, stepping off of his soapbox and talking to you about this and seeing the phenomenon that's
going on here. If you need help in any sense, in terms of not using this stuff, making connections
with women, meeting women online, real women who are interested in you, going out talking to women
in person... if you need help with this, I coach this. I will be with you one on one. We will be
working on this together through text messages, through phone calls where we are going to
then teach you how to be able to be more attractive and meet women in person instead
of doing it on these silly apps. Hope that helps. And I'll see you on the next video.