Tripp here from TrippAdvice.com.
Today, we're talking about how to approach a girl who is standing.
What I'm going to do is I'm going to break down one of my students approaches.
His name is Marshall.
He goes and approaches two girls who are standing around, and he ends up starting a conversation
with them out of nowhere.
What I'll do for you is to show you the exact things that he's doing right and what he's
doing wrong in the approach, so you can get better at approaching girls as well.
I want to tell you about my new podcast called How To Talk To Girls.
What that is going to do is that's going to show you how to continue the conversation,
how to get better at conversation after you do the approach.
Watch this video, and then go to the description box below and check out a link that's going
to take you to the podcast How To Talk To Girls.
It's going to show you how to keep the conversation
flowing, how to make it effortless, how to
get the girls interested in you when you're talking to them.
I'm going to give you a very specific done for you openers and examples of what to say
to girls to make them attracted to you.
Go ahead and check that out.
I know that some of you guys are probably like, Tripp, how can you have your students
approach?
How come you aren't approaching?
We want to see you approach.
If you do want to see me approach, all you're going to do is click the box right here.
You can check that out, that is me approaching on national television, specifically on National
Geographic.
You can see me do a bunch of really cool approaches.
You can learn some cool stuff from that.
One of the reasons why I'm showing you one of my students do an approach is because the
best way for you to learn, the maximum way for you to learn this stuff is to learn from
guys who are not complete experts.
It's better for you to learn from guys.
We're making some of the mistakes, we're doing some things wrong and doing some of the things
right.
If you learn from both of those, you're going to know exactly what to do and what to avoid,
so you can maximize your success and getting girls to like you.
Without further ado, let's check out the approach of Marshall right now.
It gets cut out in the beginning, because we're shooting on some camera equipment here
that cuts out every once in a while.
I'm sorry about that.
The first thing he said was, hey, that's really cool hair.
That's really cool hair.
I love that hair on you.
Because she's got some like pink hair.
That's his opener.
He goes up and he walked over as they were standing there.
Then he continues the conversation right here.
Check this out.
And it’s called the flamingo feather.
That was about the random name.
Yeah, it's really cool.
I love it.
That was really good.
I like that he took conversation and stated his opinion there.
Instead of just asking more and more questions.
He said, like, oh, that's such a random name.
He commented on it.
That was really good.
Then from there, he says he loves it.
He gives her a really nice compliment.
That's a great way to do an approach by opening up with a compliment on and something that
you notice about them and of course, her, she has a very bright pink hair.
Great type of approach.
Now I want you to pay attention in this next part to his body language.
Very, very key in what he's doing here.
Different colors in there?
As you can see his body language here is really almost just perfect.
He keeps his arms to his sides, and he's got good posture.
He's keeping amazing body language that shows that he's confident, that he's comfortable.
His energy is great, too.
He's laughing.
He's showing a lot of emotion, which gets the girls all excited.
Look at the girl in the lot.
She's smiling right there.
She's smiling because he's laughing.
Laughing is just contagious.
It's really good that he did this approach, going in there with a lot of energy and solid
body language.
Let's continue.
At this point, he lost a little bit control of conversation.
He said, what are you guys up to today?
Which is basically a crutch for I have nothing else to say.
Now I'm just continuing conversation like this.
At the end of the day, it's not the worst thing to say.
I taught him to say that if you're totally out of options, and you don't know what to
say to continue conversation.
You can just say, what are you guys up to today?
What are you up to today?
Ideally, you should have kept talking about her hair a little bit longer to try to find
another transition, to transition more smoothly into other topics of conversation that might
have come up instead of just going into what do you guys up to today?
Let's see how he rolls with that.
Here now they start getting into the weather, which isn't the best topic of conversation.
But I like that he ends up using a little story of what he was going to do today.
He starts saying some sort of statements, some kind of stories of what he was going
to do to see if they can bite.
That's what you want to do.
He's staying away from just pounding her with questions.
Just talking question, question, question.
Instead, he's making a statement and saying something interesting to see if they can attach
on to that.
Then maybe ask him a question to continue conversation.
There's a lot to learn here.
We're not going to go deeper into this interaction.
If you want to learn more about how to continue conversation, how to get girls interested
in the things that you say, so you can get them to want you to get their number, you
get them so they actually want to see you again, all you got to do is check out this
podcast that I have called How To Talk To Girls.
How To Talk To Girls Podcast is in iTunes.
If you want to go listen to that, go into the description below this video, find the
link and it will take you to that.
You can start listening to the podcast.
It's going to teach you more about how to take these interactions to the level where
they're listening to you,
they're excited,
they're really having a good time talking to you.
It's going to teach you what to say to girls, more opening lines to get conversation started.
Go ahead and check that out, it's the How To Talk To
Girls podcast.
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I want you guys to learn as much as you can and learn how to use these great little social
techniques to get girls to like you.
Go ahead and check that out.
Thank you so much for watching.
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