Hey guys, hi. I'm Manjita and welcome back to my channel
Well today we will touch with a very very important topic
which a lot of you have been asking me about and
expressing your fear expressing your anxiety and
Asking me tips and tricks of how to face the examiner in IELTS how to answer confidently
especially when you're an introvert person or
how to express what you are thinking in front of the examiner
Well, don't worry. I'm here to help you
These tips and tricks can also be used in appearing for a job interview where there is a one-on-one conversation
Where there is a face-to-face interview
There could be one two or three people in a panel to interview you, use the same technique, okay?
well
Let's get on to today's video and today we're talking about how to change your fear into confidence
Yes, how to move from being fearful
To be confident, okay
Well, let's see. What are the tips and techniques which we can use to better ourselves
Yes, always
Practice in front of a mirror. I have told this to you n number of times in most of my videos
always
practice in front of a mirror
Well, if you think, people will think that you're mad and you're talking to yourself just shut the door of your room
Let no one know about it and you're the king or the queen of your own world. So
Start speaking
Confidently in front of a mirror, okay
while do you do that
Switch on an audio recorder. It could be your mobile device, or it could be a recorder, which you have at home
record yourself forget that you're being recorded
Just look into the mirror and talk
Now, what would you talk talk anything...
Don't take a topic. Just talk to yourself. You can just look at yourself and say hey you're looking amazing
I love those eyes your hairstyle changes every day. Hmm today
I'm looking confident , what happened to you yesterday. I know that colleague was trying to act smart with you or
Why were you crying in the movie yesterday? I think that you are a soft-hearted person
So now you see what I'm doing. I am basically talking to myself I am
Not being judged no one's looking at me. No one's listening to me. No one's knowing what I'm talking
I'm talking whatever I want to talk. I'm just talking
So what happens with this technique... you learn to open up
You learn to speak you learn to add ideas. You learn to gather words
You learn to basically brain dump
Right then everything which you are thinking at that point in time. Just speak speak speak
While you do that you would realize that that fear in you of oh my God what to speak
is vanishing
is reducing... you are gaining step by step step by step that
Confidence to talk talk anything, but talk
Okay, and keep recording yourself
Now eventually what will happen
Once you've gained that confidence of being able to talk then prepare yourself
with a
Question in the beginning. Okay. So just take a question and then say today I'm gonna talk about this question. Take that question
Talk about that question to yourself
the question could be tell me the most memorable moment of your life, or how did you spend your day at school yesterday or
Did you like your son's performance?
at the school event or
What do you think you can improve
To become a better employee or get that Employee of the Month award take any question
Which is related to your day-to-day life or current affairs
Anything just pick that up and try practicing
I'm not saying that. Oh, let me take questions which have been coming in IELTS
Let me take questions, which I think that can come in IELTS
Don't think of IELTS at this point in time
Your aim is to learn to talk learn to think
Coherently learn to get ideas on any topic Under the Sun right now
I have done an amazing video called tree trunk approach
Where I'm teaching you how to speak on any topic which comes to you. All right do have a look at it?
I will either link it above or the link will be in the description box below
Do not forget to have a look at it that will help you to think
In a tree trunk form use that approach and give answers in a coherent way
Now once you're ready with this approach and you're confident about speaking into the mirror then what should you do?
Then move out of your room
Yes now go and talk to people in an individual basis
One on one, right
because in the real IELTS exam you'll have an
Examiner in front of you a live human being and not a mirror, right?
So get that confidence out and try talking to an individual. It could be your family if you're at home
It could be your family or your friends. If you're at work, then try speaking to a colleague of yours
Just pick up any random topic and have a discussion state your opinion
Try to give your two cents try to put in your thought for thoughts forward, you know
start that as a practice because then you have to take it out of
Your room and start practicing slow and steady when you get that confidence
Then start speaking in groups or forums for example at lunch break
A lot of you guys discuss a lot of things under the Sun right start putting your point forward
You you might start with saying two or three points in the beginning and slow and steady
You will see that from two points you started adding three points four points five points
And then you are able to give quite an impressive
answer on that particular point which is being discussed
You yourself will see that people around you are
Noticing this difference noticing this pleasant confidence which is coming in you but you have to put in that effort
Now the last bit to you is that it's no point of putting that effort when you cannot
Review it so review your efforts all the recordings, which you've done
Okay
Let's say you doing an audio recording slow and steady you move into a video recording
You can just keep the camera on and talk
Okay, so whatever forms of recording
You're doing make folders of these write the dates if possible write the topics you've spoken about
Okay, and eventually over a period of a week or a fortnight
Review from the very start look at your own recordings
Okay, and be a critic and then note down the points, which you feel that you've not done
Well, okay and try to improve in the next one
You would see a remarkable difference in you because you can actually see how you've improved
Over the days or over the weeks. Okay, it's you who's making the effort. I'm just helping you
I'm giving you that confidence but you have to do it because at the end you will be giving your IELTS exam
Not me or anyone else, right? So you got to put that effort in and you are my rock star. Don't worry
You are a champion. All you have to do is just practice
Okay, I have done an amazing video on how to introduce yourself
I will either link it above or in the description box below have a look at it
It will help you how interestingly can you answer this very common question
okay, well till then keep practicing like this video if you found this useful and if you think this is what
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How will they speak in front of the IELTS examiner
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Practicing this before and how have you improved?
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