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10 Things Successful People Do To Earn Respect
Who do you respect?
And why?
Is it because they demand it from you or did they earn it?
Now, consider how having respect from others affects you.
When people disrespect you, do you feel taken aback, upset, or even outright angry?
You probably do.
That's a normal response.
But you need to understand that respect is something that is earned.
Although nearly everyone values respect, you won't get any if you don’t put in the effort.
If you're interested in forming sincere relationships, they must be grounded in mutual respect.
Without it, your relationship is sure to fail.
Successful people are fully aware of this, and that's why they put in the hard work to
earn the respect of those around them.
Here's what they do to earn respect from others - and you can do it, too:
Number 1 - They're Honest
No one will deny that honesty is essential.
In fact, it's been important throughout all of human history.
To gain someone's respect, you must first gain their trust by being honest.
Why would you respect or trust someone who is known to cheat, lie, or steal?
Dishonesty is not a good look in any setting, whether it's with the cashier at the grocery
store or a long-time business partner.
If you want to earn respect, you must always be honest.
Successful people know that if the foundation of a relationship, either personal or professional,
is built on trust, they will have solid ground to stand on.
If that ground is cracked with lies or is crumbling due to deceit, the relationship
is doomed.
Number 2 - They Are Passionate In Their Work
There's an obvious difference between someone who loves their work and someone who hates
it.
The positive energy that passion brings can make a person shine, and you might even assume
they're a leader.
Respect follows passion.
Imagine that you have an idea to share with your team.
If you're not enthusiastic about it, why would they be?
On the other hand, if you show passion, they're much more likely to support your idea.
Your professional colleagues believe in your passions and respect your dedication and loyalty,
and they will be more open to investing in your ideas.
Successful people understand that passion is crucial for earning respect, no matter
where you are or who you are with.
Number 3 - They Get The Job Done
Have you heard the age-old saying, "If you want something done, give it to the busiest
person you know?"
It comes from the idea that people respect those who work hard.
When you get the job done efficiently, you'll earn respect.
Even honest people can be procrastinators.
They might be great, but they'll lose respect when people see they can't handle responsibility
and finish their tasks.
Successful people work with commitment and diligence, and people come to trust and respect
their reliability.
Number 4 - They Show Gratitude
Studies have proven that gratitude positively impacts one's well-being, and outward gratitude
and appreciation can positively impact others as well.
A sincere thank you or a small gift can go a long way.
When you are optimistic and show gratitude for the things and people in your life, respect
will naturally gravitate toward you.
It's easy to admire positivity, and gratitude creates a positive atmosphere that impacts
everyone.
Friends, family, co-workers, they will notice your appreciation and will want to replicate
that attitude in their own lives.
Number 5 - They Inspire The Best In Others
Another way successful people earn respect is by bringing out the best in others.
If you compiled a list of all the people you respect and why you admire them, you would
probably see people like parents, mentors, teachers, or coaches.
The commonality between these people is that they help bring out the best in you.
Just as they set examples for you, you must also set examples for others to earn their
respect.
Number 6 - They're Humble
It seems as if there's always that one person who needs to one-up everything you say or
do.
But arrogance is not becoming, and it won't earn respect.
Successful people are humble and see themselves as equal to those around them.
This down-to-earth perspective earns them respect, as others see their authenticity.
Number 7 - They're Open-Minded
Life isn't black and white, although many people see it that way.
These stubborn views often foster toxicity in both their personal and professional lives.
When you can see all the gray areas of life, you'll be more open-minded to other people's
perspectives.
That doesn't necessarily mean that you agree with everyone, but you can see, understand,
and respect their ideas.
Successful people actively listen to others.
This goes past merely hearing - and turns to understanding.
When you listen without interrupting, mirror emotions, and seek clarification, you can
engage with people's feelings and ideas in a way that makes them feel heard, and that
will earn you respect.
After speaking with someone, hold onto their words.
If they brought up a better approach or a fresh perspective, consider their ideas with
an open mind.
Even if it doesn't change your mind, you can still foster mutual respect by being open
to what they have to say.
Number 8 - They Stand Up For Others
We’ve all encountered a bully.
They are abusive people who harass, intimidate, and instill fear in others.
And it happens in far more places than the schoolyard.
You might see bullying at home, in the office, or religious groups.
Successful people don't stand by and watch others get pushed around.
They refuse to allow bullies to disrespect or intimidate them or anyone else.
They stand up for what is right, and this earns them respect.
Number 9 - They Keep Their Word
Successful people are reliable, and they always keep their word.
A long time ago, before contracts, your word and reputation were all you had.
If you say you'll do something, you must do it to earn trust and respect.
If your word means nothing, why should anyone believe you?
To be respected, whether in your personal or professional life, you must be true to
your word.
Number 10 - They Aren't Afraid To Apologize
A lot of people find owning up to their mistakes difficult.
Successful people are different.
They are the first to confess to mistakes, big and small.
They are not afraid to address their failures, even when they involve offending others.
Successful people aren't too proud to apologize, and they are aware that genuine forgiveness
may take time.
When you apologize to someone, you have no control over whether they will forgive you
or not.
And even if forgiveness never comes, you should still do the honorable and respectable thing
and admit your mistakes.
Of course, everyone wants to be respected - but not everyone deserves respect.
It doesn’t come automatically or quickly.
You have to earn it.
Just because someone’s in a position of power doesn’t mean they deserve respect.
If you want people to respect you, always remember to consider their opinions, thoughts,
and feelings.
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