Hey man, what's going on?
Today I'm excited to talk to you.
We're talking about some of the weird things that women are attracted to.
By the way, don't mind the completely disheveled Wolf Man look.
It's still been a minute since I've been able to go out because things are closed down so
I can't get the things cut.
But anyway, we're talking about some of the weird things that women are attracted to.
And stay tuned to the end.
Because at the end, what I did was I asked a bunch of my friends to send me clips of
them giving their opinion on some of the really weird things that women are attracted to.
It's fun and you'll see a little montage of that towards the end.
For now, let's talk about some things that are things I've brought up before in the past.
The reason why I think they're so weird is because it's counterintuitive.
This is the problem with understanding attraction.
A lot of it is counterintuitive which means that it's not intuitive.
It doesn't come naturally to us guys.
It's hard to understand because everything we've learned about attraction, we've learned
from movies and books and things like that, fantasies, not real life.
In reality, in the real world here, attraction is counterintuitive.
Let me explain.
It's cool too because I'm going to teach you this and it's going to help in terms of getting
women more attracted to you.
When you understand how attraction works, you'll get them attracted to you.
And if not, you'll probably end up in the friend-zone, which is what a lot of guys do.
They take the intuitive, what they think is the right way to approach, land in the friend-zone
and then nothing happens.
You have to learn it this way.
I'll explain it in terms of TED, my system that I've talked about a lot.
TED; tension, entertainment and dominance, the counter intuitive approach.
That is my general theory in terms of attraction.
I want to specifically pick out the T and the E. T stands for tension, E stands for
entertainment, and D stands for dominance.
Let's talk about tension for a second.
Tension is creating tension between you and the girl.
This is a big part of attraction.
What most guys do is they like to give validation, they like to spend money on girls.
They like to do all this giving, giving, giving.
When in reality, tension is about withholding.
It's about holding back.
It's not about give, give, give, but hold back.
What does this mean?
This means you want to be a little bit of a challenge.
You want to be a challenge to her, you can't be so easy to get.
Women are playing the same exact game and it works.
It works on you.
It works on me.
It works on everyone.
This is how it works.
You want to be a little bit of a challenge.
Most guys are not being challenges.
What happens is they're really easy to get, women get bored, it shows weakness in the
guy because he'll be desperate and go for anything and therefore end up landing in the
friend-zone or the no attraction zone.
You want to be more of a challenge.
Let's go to E for a second and then we'll circle back to T again.
We're talking about TED, my system for attraction.
E is for entertainment.
This is very counterintuitive.
Most guys go into situations where they're talking to girls online or on dates or cold
approaches, meaning going up and approaching women in person.
And they'll set out to entertain them.
It's all about entertaining them.
How do I make her laugh?
How do I impress her?
Which is what guys ask and again guilty here.
I've asked that too.
How do you impress a girl?
How do you make her like you?
When in reality, what makes her like you more is not entertaining her but counter intuitively
entertaining yourself.
How can you go into an interaction and make sure that you're prioritizing your fun and
your entertainment over hers?
Because when you're having a good time, that transfers over to her and then she ends up
having a good time.
This is the idea of entertainment.
I'll give you some examples in just a second.
Bear with me while I keep going through some of this theory here.
Let's circle back to T tension.
Another thing you want to make sure you're doing is giving her a wide variety of emotions.
If you're always giving her one emotion all the time, she's going to get bored.
She's not going to be attracted anymore.
Women are a little bit more emotional on this sense.
If you're always doing the same thing and providing the same emotion, let's say for
example happiness. You're always the nice guy, being nice and giving and doing and making
sure there's no drama, no tension and not being yourself and trying to be nice guy all
the time.
That doesn't create much tension, it creates a lot of boring interactions, and it's not
you being true to who you are.
This doesn't help either.
Let's circle back, let me give you some examples.
Let's talk about being a challenge or being more hard to get.
A great way to do this.
Do not shower her with compliments and validation.
I know that I put out videos in the past about how to compliment a girl and sure once in
a while you can do it, but at the end of the day, you want to hold back.
Hold back.
You're doing it anyways to be manipulative and a lot of guys overdo it and it makes them
less of a challenge.
Make sure that you're not always giving her that validation.
Remember when I said a variety of emotions?
That's what's going to do it for her.
If she doesn't get validation from you, but then of course you're gonna eventually say
something nice to her, that is going to be so much more powerful in that moment because
it's not something that you just willingly
giveaway and it's going to be even more meaningful.
There's the more wide variety of emotions.
Here's another one, play a little bit more hard to get.
And you're going to do that by not texting her back.
Try going a full day without texting her.
She's gonna want to know where you are, what you're doing, what's going on.
Don't worry about her.
You're busy.
You'll get back to her a day later.
A lot of guys might be afraid to do this.
I know it's extreme but this is what's going to show her that you're busy, you're not so
easy to get and that you have a life.
You might think "Tripp, this is really manipulative,
why would I do that?
That's not being true to who I am."
Well it should be.
Hopefully you're busy enough where you're not sitting there having to respond to her
text message.
It's okay.
About 30 years ago when there were no text messages and you can just call someone, you
would go days without speaking to someone.
Just because texting exists now, doesn't mean you always have to be communicating with that
person.
Make sure you're keeping busy and not always responding to her texts.
Let's go back to entertaining.
Remember I gave you that idea of entertaining yourself?
There's lots of ways to entertain yourself but here's an idea.
Sometimes if you're being funny and joking around and being sarcastic, that is enough
to make you have a good time.
I'm gonna give you an example.
This might not be something you might use, you can use whatever you want.
It doesn't matter what it is.
Anything that makes you laugh, that's funny for you, the topics of conversation you want
to talk about.
I remember this one time, I was talking to a girl and we're just getting to know each
other and then I said to her, "Would you do me a big favor? My shoe is untied. Would you
tie my shoe for me?"
I know that sounds like that's not really funny Tripp.
It doesn't matter if you think it's funny.
I thought it was funny in that moment.
And I was having a good time because obviously I can do that myself but telling her
to do it in that moment and in that interaction, it made sense and it was funny and I had a
good time with it and she laughed too because obviously I'm joking.
But either way, I'm having a good time.
I know that's a little bit out of context.
But it's an example of ways you can entertain yourself by saying things that are funny,
self amusement.
I know, weird, counterintuitive.
You never thought some of these things would be things that women are attracted to.
Or maybe it didn't surprise you at all, but they're definitely a little bit weird.
If you want some even more weird stuff that women are attracted to, here's a quick montage
of some of my friends who sent in some clips to tell you some of the weird things that
they're attracted to.
Check it out. Weird things that I find attractive about men...
For starters, when men have veiny hands or rough hands or dirty fingernails.
Clearly somebody who has been outside gardening or something and does manual labor with their
hands.
I find that attractive as hell.
I'll text a guy and ask them not to wear cologne.
First off because I don't like cologne.
It bothers me, I have a really sensitive nose and I just don't like them to wear it.
And second, I want to see what they smell like.
I'm really attracted to their natural scent.
It turns me on and I want to see what they smell like.
The voice that guys have when they wake up in the morning.
Like this sleepy, but sexy voice.
It's rich, it's gravelly, there's just something about it that I think is so sexy.
How do they make their bed in the morning?
Are they tidy?
Do they make their bed?
How do they make their bed?
And overall is their house clean?
Is it tidy? Those different things. They're ticklish.
Now that's gonna sound really weird, but I really like to tickle my guy.
I think it's cute, not only is it cute, it also shows that you're letting loose in a
way that you can't any other time.
And it's nice to see the confidence that they have to be able to let themselves laugh and
have a good time with it.
That's really attractive to me.
I think it's really attractive when a guy is respected by his friends and they ask for
his advice because that just shows me that they value his opinion.
I think it's really attractive when a guy has the faintest taste of beer or wine or
a drink on his lips that... you just get the smallest little hint of it.
It's not even like whoa, we went to the bar.
It's just ever so slightly there.