you believe that you're not worthy or if you tell yourself I'm not enough I'm
here to prove you wrong I'm sorry but I'm gonna debate you here and I'm gonna
show you why you are enough and exactly why you are also worthy welcome back to
another video my name's Erin and I hope you will expand their consciousness now
in this video it's going to be a little bit different I'm going to take this one
thought you might think you might believe this to be true you might tell
yourself I'm not enough you might feel like you need that you compare yourself
to other people you fight feel like you always trying to measure up and and you
feel unworthy and in this video I'm going to show you why that's not
actually true and how when you change that one belief every area of your life
changes realize that we always receive in life a reflection of what we believe
we deserve and if we believe we don't deserve love then we will literally
block it out of our life if we believe we don't deserve money then we will
subconsciously do whatever we can to not get it because we don't deserve it we
don't why would we have it that's the idea from the thought process now I'm
here to share with you that you in the past may have made some meanings
something happened in your life and you gave it a meaning and that meaning then
became on autopilot and first off no it's not your fault no that we growing
up are like a sponge of experience we're absorbing the beliefs of our parents
we're absorbing the meanings of like what our friends and all these
interactions and we're just not aware so it's not actually your fault so don't
feel guilty for it don't feel like you've done anything wrong also realize
this as well I'm not enough and I'm not worthy is the most common limiting
belief that almost everybody has at a certain point in their life even people
that you look at that might have everything going for them I've seen I
was watching like this Taylor Swift documentary a while ago and she's got so
much external validation she's so incredibly successful she's got so much
money but guess what she feel still felt like she wasn't enough she had to go
with she had to understand that she was
basing her sense of inner inner inner fulfillment in her inner worthiness on
an external thing and there's a lot of people even me like when I first started
on YouTube part of me just wanted to help a lot of people but I could very
easily see how some people get trapped within the validation of it you make a
video and it gets a certain amount of love from people that it's like oh now
I'm worthy now people will like me I was a people pleaser for a lot of my life
because of what I went through younger in life having a lot of control in my
life I had an ex step on that very controlling and it made me question my
own worth so then I thought well maybe if I can do a lot for other people maybe
if I can help them then maybe they'll finally love me maybe that maybe then
I'll feel enough and this is something that I'd become aware of and been able
to completely release and just feel this flood of love for myself this flood of
of feeling like I am enough no matter what happens on the outside I know the
truth the truth that I'm enough and I know this truth about you too so I'm
sorry but I'm here to debate you on this let's get into the debate okay so you
over here and you tell me hey Erin I'm not enough and what I would say to you
is says who when you say save me says me but then I would say who really says
that because here's the thing a lot of people miss we believe we're not worthy
because we have a certain blueprint a certain rule in our mind that says once
I obtain X Y or Z then I know that I am worthy and many times that X Y or Z is
an external thing from us I will know I'm worthy when I have a certain number
of love on social media when my mom and my dad texted me every single day and
they say I love you when that this happens this happens and I have the best
relationship and those are all external things but you see all these are many
times our beliefs and meanings that have gone unquestioned for a long period of
time so the question I have to you is you might think you're not enough but
what blueprint do you have what is the inner
blueprint what is the belief you have of when you know you'll actually be worthy
and what you'll find is normally this is some very very hard to meet thing you've
just been so hard on yourself you've been so critical on yourself and
it's okay don't think don't feel like you got to be guilty about it I'm just
saying that what it becomes crystal clear once you become aware of this
inner blueprint this inner belief and you realize that this inner belief that
you have this inner blueprint is just such a hard standard to make and think
about it growing up this is what happens when do we get these rules many times at
a very young age many of the beliefs we have when it comes to in general have
been absorbed from our parents from our friends and from our environment growing
up so imagine this we're generally literally generating
meaning growing up now let's say there's a meaning growing up and says say we
wanted our parents love almost everybody did and imagine that one time you came
back from school and you got a C on your report card or a D or an F and your
parent one of your parents said this isn't acceptable and then maybe you got
punished and then imagine that you at that age thought that then you their
love was conditional on whether you were good enough and we're getting the kind
of grades that were acceptable so from that moment on you then associated
subconsciously not even knowing it no guilty er but that you then associated
that love not being unconditional and that you not being enough because you
didn't measure up to that external benchmark you see this many times is
what happens could have been a grades it could have been something else it could
have been you talking out of turn it could have been you doing something you
shouldn't have been doing breaking a rule and then subconsciously agreeing
that yes I did not go according to that blueprint but guess what
it wasn't your blueprint it may have been your parents blueprint it may be
your friends Bluford that said you must do this to make us happy you must go out
this many times a week you must come play kickball whatever it
was it's a different thing that then we started to compare ourselves and then
realize as well we may even take on the beliefs of our environment and then say
oh watch some news and say oh look at this perfect celebrity do I measure up
to this perfect celebrity that has had all this makeup put on to be put on this
magazine do I measure up to them do I look the same and then once again we are
comparing ourselves to something external and then thinking that this is
the way things are here's the way advertising works put someone beautiful
on that of an a model of someone on that on the front of a magazine or somewhere
and then what happens is you measure up to that and feel like you're inadequate
then you need to do B or or have some type of quality in order to be accepted
in love and then what guess what you will spend whatever money you can to
measure up to be enough it's exactly what a lot of advertising does so the
key to this is understanding this inner blueprint this in a rule see this is the
way it works in reality we've got belief meaning and belief then generates a
feeling if we feel like we're not enough if we feel stuck if we feel frustrated
that comes from first a meaning and then in that feeling in that state we then
have thoughts and then from those thoughts we then eventually take action
or we don't take action and then we eventually get a result which then fuels
that belief so imagine we believe we're not worthy we feel like we're not enough
we're thinking thoughts that say I'm mad enough and then there's an opportunity
to go meet somebody that could be your soul mate or something but you won't
take action because you already feel not enough and you already think you're not
enough so what's the point you see that will also work when it comes to finances
and abundance I'm not worthy of this kind of job I feel like I'm not enough
you go into the interview where you feel these thoughts and you're thinking that
and then guess what it causes your body language your behaviors to match that
inner feeling and guess what then that is a subconscious thing that's projected
out and other people respond to you in that way
here's the key to knowing you are enough let me share with you this argument here
everything in the in the world has a purpose if you look at that of grass if
you look at that of trees if you look at how bees then cross pollinate and all
this magical stuff happens on earth everything has a purpose and because
everything has a purpose like right now it's windy in Vegas it's getting ready
to go from one season to another there's a purpose of it all now knowing that
everything in the world has a purpose you also have a purpose and you are here
for a reason you are having the experience you are for a reason and the
key thing to remember is that you are worthy simply because you exist that's
it creation doesn't make mistakes to say
that you are the one mistake everything else has a purpose everything else is
divinely orchestrated but I am the one unique special snowflake that is not
worthy is extremely egotistical and I'm not telling you to feel guilty I'm just
pointing it out making it look ridiculous to you so that you say you
know what I am worthy I am worthy for just existing for being me that's all
you got to do all you got to do is exist and you are already worthy everything
else on top of that that keeps you from feeling worthy is a belief that you
agree to or imply you don't even know it the key to this is releasing that belief
and understanding you are worthy for simply being you and I love you for just
being you you don't have to be anyone you don't have to do anything you don't
have to act a certain way all you got to do is exist I already love you that
you see this is the key is understanding that that is the key to this process I'm
not enough is just someone else's blueprint that you've adopted thank you
this is who I am now and all you got to do is release that belief when you
release that belief you become free now one of the most powerful ways that I
found to release these deeply stored beliefs of bringing what is in the dark
into the light is a process called meditation there's a certain meditation
technique that I learned back in 2012 it helped me release that belief of not
feeling worthy it helped me release a lot of patterns of my negative past I
kept attracting similar things in my life because of that pattern I was
unaware of I kept attracting woman specifically into my life that were
trying to control me because I had an extent mama in my life between 7 and 15
years old that's the way she treated me when my dad divorced her I had all this
freedom by attracted a girlfriend in my life that I trying to control me after I
broke up with her I then went to a I got transferred to a de better department at
Nordstrom's and women's shoes where the manager was almost the same as my extant
mom and once I released that belief using a meditation technique guess what
happened that manager got fired within two weeks completely got off of thinking
adderall for ADHD I also completely let go of that belief and I became free from
that point going forward I felt like I had my power back I was creating life on
my own terms and I felt 100% worthy whole and
complete now something else that I have right now is I have made the most
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hope you enjoy this video and as always peace much love and namaste