infj anger infj dealing with rage anger is a very normal emotion something everyone experiences in
their lives for some people this is something that happens more frequently for others it seems
easier to avoid becoming angry over most things the issue with experiencing anger is that some
people choose to repress this and that can often make it worse in the long run bottling up those
feelings is something that causes people to lack the ability to properly process their emotions in
a healthy and manageable way everyone has their own way of processing and dealing with emotions
especially when it comes to anger understanding how each time experiences these emotions is an
important step towards understanding them better as well infj's definitely deal with emotions on
a deep and personal level but don't really focus on them the same as some other types might they
care about the emotions of those around them and want to focus on helping others in most situations
when the infj is angry they might try to find other ways to deal with this and might not
entirely process it as openly as they should infjs can sometimes choose to push aside their
own emotions in hopes of helping other people deal with their problems while they do sometimes
bury those emotions there are times when their anger certainly finds a way to express itself
when infjs are sincerely angry and choose to express this it can actually be something that
leaves others feeling frightened with just how intense it is what makes infjs angry infjs become
angry about normal daily frustrations but they can process those small things somewhat easier
the healthy infjs know how to cope with the little things which bother them on a day-to-day basis
but it is often dealing with people and humanity which bothers them infjs can become caught up in
seeing how people behave or treat others and this is certainly something that upsets and angers them
infjs can become bothered by how they see people treat those around them and this is something
that becomes deeply unsettling to them they care about people and want to be able to have faith in
others and believe in the best in them when infjs continuously witness injustices in the world it
can cause them to become distance from the world and in some cases causes them to become very angry
when the infj is truly upset with an individual they try to express this without allowing it to
get out of hand there are however instances where they can experience rather intense and justified
anger one of the most likely situations for the infj to really explode on someone
is when that person hurts another individual especially someone the infj loves they can
become very protective of their loved ones and don't want to just allow people to hurt them
when they witness someone they care for in pain the infj can become extremely protective
they are caring people but can have a somewhat vicious side when the situation calls for it
the infj can really unload on this person and often has a way of knowing their weaknesses
and how to tear them down when this rage comes out from the infj it can be rather intimidating
especially since most people won't really expect this from them the normally caring and even
sometimes reserved infj becomes aggressive and fierce this is something they are only likely to
do when they have been truly pushed over the edge and see no one means of dealing with the situation
coping with the infj rage infjs are people who are often riddled with feelings of guilt
even when they have done nothing truly wrong they experience a sense of guilt over their own actions
always feeling as if they could have done better or helped others more
infjs care about those around them and they care about the state of the world they place a lot of
pressure on themselves to be there for their loved ones but can also be perfectionists when
it comes to their own actions and goals infjs can easily experience guilt if they believe
they could have done better or if they should have done something more for those around them
it becomes difficult for them to cope with those moments where their rage gets the better of them
as they likely feel rather guilty over it the infj is especially likely to feel guilty for expressing
this anger if they have done it for more personal reasons rather than defending someone they love
they can easily justify their own actions when they are protecting another person but if it is
for themselves it becomes difficult for the infj to really move on from their own guilt even when
they realize that they made the right choice it still becomes something that they will have
doubts about later on how to better deal infjs can sometimes struggle to process their own emotions
because they focus so much on tending to the needs of others they can feel guilty for taking time for
themselves but this is something that is entirely necessary for them if the infj really wants to be
able to process their anger or frustrated feelings they need to take time for themselves to really
do this instead of avoiding those emotions and burying them for the sake of someone else's needs
the infj really should take some time to dive into their own emotions and their own inner desires
putting themselves as a priority is actually something that will help the infj overcome
those angry feelings and help them to find better tools for processing what they are dealing with
they are highly intuitive people who are often capable of uncovering the best path for themselves
and others they just need to learn to really trust in themselves more when the infj does learn to
rely on their own sense of intuition and judgment they become more equipped to handle their own rage