Still trying to figure out why you don't get respect from others? Watch today's
training because I'm going to uncover what you do to gain that respect back.
So, you're wondering why people don't respect you. And you're trying to figure
out why your advice, your ideas or maybe even what you're doing in your life is
not being respected by your family and friends. Well, maybe you've done some
things recently or over the course of time that you've actually lost respect
with the people around you. So, you know, you're starting to realize. You got to do
something different. Well, where do you start?
What do you do? You know, what's the first step? And really, is this definitely
going to make a difference in earning this respect back? Especially when it
comes to family, friends and co-workers. They've watched you, they learned your
personality, they see how you are. But you got to remember, your behavior and the
way in which you act is either building respect or you are losing respect. And
I've got a few things here. I want you to look at that because you may not realize
what you're doing to lose this respect. And all along, you thought you were okay.
But now you're realizing, "Man, no one's listening to me. Or my ideas are not
even being considered." So, let's take a look at what to actually focus on to
make this change. Number 1 is "no exaggeration." Exaggeration, it will cause
you to lose respect over time guaranteed. Every time you exaggerate on a story, a
situation, a fishing trip, particular result or what you're doing. But when you
start to stretch that truth and start to change it and manipulate it, what happens
is, people start to pick up on that. And you may think it's funny or it's kind of
fun to do it that way. But what happens is, people learn to not listen to you.
Because they can't tell what's true. And I know, sometimes we do exaggeration to
gain the attention of people. But people are pretty smart, they're pretty savvy
on understanding, who's telling the truth and who's not. And when you're caught in
those exaggerating moments, what happens is you are losing those brownie points
like crazy. And you are losing respect. Now, like I said, you could be using
to gain respect. Thinking you're gaining the attention of others but it's hurting
you. And you... Right now, I know, you could say that you're not doing this but you
need to pay attention because you probably are. Because it is the number
1 reason why people would not respect you. Because they can't trust you, they
don't know what's coming out your mouth is true or false or partial or way
overdone. They don't know. They don't know. Second one is, goes right along with
exaggeration is sarcasm. Sarcasm seems like it's, you know, it's not that big of
a deal. You know, it's that extra little, you know, ribbon of your friends are
kind of making fun of something. Or joking or mocking. But these top 2
right here will definitely cause you to lose respect. So, why are they on the build
respect list? Because it says, "Don't do this. You got to stop." But you first got
to make sure you're paying attention and realizing where this is happening. And
that means starting right now, pay attention to the conversations you're
having with people and look for sarcasm and look for exaggeration. Because you
could be totally in the mix of it and not even realizing it's even happening.
But that's got to start now. You know, people who are not really concerned
about respect, it'll catch up to them sooner or later. But these are the first
2 you want to look at. Third to be able to build this experience, you know, to
build to build respect. Now, that you stopped doing the 2 main things
that are going to mess you up is to build yourself a daily routine. A person who
has a high level of obedience to self, really gives off a vibe and a behavior
that is to be respected. The fastest way to build respect of other people is to
live a life of respect. Now, what is the daily routine? A daily routine is where
you wake up in the morning and you have 3, 4, or 5 things you do in the
morning. But it's on a schedule. Every morning you get up and you have this,
this and this that you do every single morning. And you not only are having this
daily routine but you're actually tracking yourself. You know, creating a
little chart on your phone or type yourself up a little tracking chart. Pick
3 to 5 things that maybe motivates you or builds you in the
morning. And you check the chart. Put a little box, a
little check in the each one of those boxes along the way. And then in the
evening, also have a routine. So, you have a routine in the morning and a routine
in the evening. So, you start your day off with some self obedience and you end the
day and some high level of self obedience. Now, what happens is, you begin
to respect yourself. Because you're listening to yourself and following your
own instructions. That gain self respect which then raises social respect. How can
somebody have respect for you, if you're in a level of exaggeration or sarcasm?
And especially if you're not taking care of yourself by following some kind of
schedule or routine? Now, how long do you do this for? Well, you do it for the rest
of your life. A routine raises your self-respect,
a routine builds that self-confidence and that self-mastery. And that is highly
respected. So, build a routine. 3 to 5 things in the morning, 3 to 5
things in the evening. We give you a little sample what that might look like.
Maybe you wake up in the morning and you take a moment to exercise for 15-20
minutes. Maybe you sit down and read a book for 15-20 minutes. If you don't
have that much time, narrow it down a little bit smarter but
do something to strengthen your body, strengthen your mind and strengthen your
soul. That's a great routine. That every morning you strengthen your mind, your
body and your soul. And then in the evening before you go to sleep,
strengthen your mind, your body and your soul. And find some activities that work
for you to cover those 3 different areas. And you will start to gain some
self-respect which then builds social respect. And the last one here, when it
comes to literally building your respect. So, that others can see it and feel it, is
to be sure that you're serving other people. A person that is not respected as
somebody who is taking advantage of people. Of their resources, their time,
their intelligence. But how about you be the person who's actually the giver
instead of the taker. Or the receiver all the time because somebody who serves and
gives really builds up a high level of respect. Because you are outside of
yourself and you're looking to changing and influencing other people's lives for
the best. But take a look at this, these 4 different steps here is really a fast
way to adjust the level of respect you're receiving in your life. If you
don't take the action steps, nothing's going to change. So, to make today the day to
get on one of these and pay attention to it. So, you can make that change happen
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