I live a magical lifestyle. World travel, get to love on my kids, have that family
time. I get to grow amazing businesses. I get to spend time with some of the most
amazing people on the planet. And my wife no gets to our foundational work and so,
reality is there's not a lot of stuff right now that I need very different
than really what is. Because you guys have seen be-do-have, have-do-be, you
understand that model? Here's reality: You cannot base your
happiness on what you have or what you need or what you perceive that you need
or what you want. The secret to having it is learning how to master your state so
you can be happy now. So, yeah. There's a ton of things. There's... There's always
going to be my entire life a next level. And I'll always be going for it but at this
point it's not to satisfy my needs it's to satisfy my need for growth. Tony
Robbins this last sugars been on has been a great mentor to me. Bronwyn, if you
can find them those slides they're about the 6 human needs, I want to share with
you something that Tony taught me that has had a really big impact on me. He
says that humans have 6 human needs. And this is worth riding down it's not
in your book. And if you understand this, it'll help you transform in powerful
ways. The first of the 6 human needs is that we have a need to feel significant.
To feel what? Now by the way, you can get significance a number of diffe.rent ways
What are some of the positive ways of feeling significant?
Achieving something? Building a company? Doing something incredible? Hitting some
new achievement? But you can also do it in a negative way. You could also be
Osama bin Laden and you could be going after genocide as a way to be
significant. The second need, certainty. How many of you have a huge need to be certain of
what's going down in your life. How many of you need certainty? Hho are my
certainty people? A lot of you ladies in the room, that nesting instinct that says,
"I need to know where, i need to know how, i need to know when." You know what I'm
talking about. Certainty. But there's a couple other really core needs. One of
them is love, connection and the other one is uncertainty. Which is kind of
strange. If everything becomes certain then we crave what? Uncertainty. So, these
are the 4 basic human needs. 90% of you in this room statistically thrive
massively on significance and certainty. The most unhappy people on the planet
strive for significance and certainty. Trying to prove, trying to know that
you're okay that you're safe. Because we've been hurt.
But once you outgrow some of these he needs, there are 2 greater needs. Needs
of the Spirit. One of those is growth. The spirit wants
to grow and the second one is contribution. One of the things that I
heard from Dale and many of you is how can we give back?
And I love that. How many of you actually put that down that there's some great
way that you want to give back to others? I want to tell you right now that there
is a science to achievement but there's an art to fulfillment. And then the art
of fulfillment, I want to invite you to try on that if you have a need insight
to do some philanthropy, when... When could be the best time to start that? When you
have access of money, right? Only when it would be really easy to do, right? To do
it when? Why? Because money doesn't change you. Money magnifies you. So, get this
right now. You changed your core values because what you valued in childhood is
not the same as what you need to value as an adult with a different destiny. How
many of you get that? And there's no different here my friends. The person you
want to become, be that person today. You can... You can start tango right now. You
don't need an instructor you could literally go and watch some YouTube
videos and learn some steps and have a blast. Find a way to make your dreams a
reality today. One of the things that Tony says is that the quality of our
life is in direct proportion to the amount of uncertainty that you can
comfortably live with. If you can abandon your need to be made significant by
others, if you can abandoned your need for so much certainty, then the quality
of your life can massively increase.