thank you my name is Marni up from here on out I am going to be your very own
personal wing girl and it's my job to give you the no BS honest truth about
what women want versus what they say they want I put up new videos every
Monday so please keep an eye out for my videos in this video I'm going to decode
the subtle science women give you when they are flirting with you and I'm also
going to explain the signs and wouldn't give you that on the surface level say
I'm not interested really need it I'm totally into you silly fool make your
move already so keep watching I was out the other
night with one of my single girlfriend Sarah paintable picture Sarah's 30 she's
blonde tall the personality she's your typical girl next door type of girl why
we weren't help me bumped into this one guy let's call him Jared and when I say
let's call him Jared it's because his name is Jared Jared is this guy that my
friend has been totally into for months but he's never made a move nor has she
ever told him that she's into him I've only heard of Jared but this time was my
first time meeting him and from what I could see when they were talking he was
totally into her I don't know why she was so confused by this and by the way I
see this happening all the time to people who obviously want each other but
are both afraid to make moves and move things forward and say it out loud which
i think is a big waste of time so after Sarah talks and Jared for a few
minutes she comes back to the table to ask me what I thought about their
interaction I told her then from what I could see he was into her and I wish he
would just stop playing games with him and either be more overt with her
flirting or just ask him out already it's 2019 not 1920 she quickly shot me a
glare that said I'm a woman I'm not making the first move which quickly shut
me down so we moved on to ordering drinks and another conversation with
some other random guy even though I could tell that Sarah was totally
fixated on whether or not Jared was noticing her but here's where things got
interesting and this is where I want you to pay attention because most likely you
have been on the receiving end of this very confusing behavior that I'm about
to describe and most likely you've interpreted completely incorrectly and I
don't blame you for it after we got our drinks Sarah want to socialize in the
hit on or get some attention as she labeled it and we moved around the bar
and talked to a bunch of other guys and every guy that Sarah talked to she made
damn well sure that Jared could see it while talking to each guy her moves were
over exaggerated so flailing around she kept touching them she laughed when
there was really no need to laugh and I'm a good sense of humor and they were
not funny and every few moments she would glance
over to see if Jared was looking at her and if he was she would give him that
quick smile maybe like a little wave keep in mind this is a girl who was in
her 30s and still doing the same things that I used to be when I was in my 20s
which is like a lot of other women put me that these childish things we do to
get attention do not stop in adulthood label it as
games or testing or whatever it is that you like but I'll let you know that from
a female point of view it doesn't feel like a game at all games are fun and in
this process I'm trying to get someone to notice you without being overly
masculine and aggressive is freaking exhausting because I'm a wing girl I can
see how confusing this behavior was to Jared with her actions
Sarah was trying to be coy about her interests in Jersey what a parents RC
media are too obvious to combat this she showed disinterest and flirted with
other guys which seems totally silly right but it's it's what we do
Sarah didn't know that her actions were actually confusing Jared and leading him
to believe that she had absolutely no interest in him what Sarah was hoping
for was that it would make Jared think Wow lots of guys want Sarah she's a hot
commodity I better get to this girl right now before somebody else nags her
but most likely he's probably thinking she's not interested in me if she's
talking to all these other guys or even worse he's thinking Sarah's just a flirt
she's not interested at all then Sarah made her most stupid move of the night
the same move that so many girls make that screw them out of what they want
the night was coming to an end we paid for our bail grab your coats and walked
right by Jared giving him a simple wave goodbye soda I've learned that with my
girlfriends I can't always pay the expert and just
to shut up and be the supportive friends so I didn't say anything but deep down I
knew how stupid Sheila's being she was so obviously into him and going about it
the complete wrong way and I'm sure you have experienced this exact behavior
before and as I said I'm sure that just like Jared you totally thought to
yourself this girl is not into me and again I don't blame you because from the
logical information being presented to you it seems that she doesn't but when a
woman does what Sarah did it means she's totally into you and wants you to take
action she's too nervous or insecure or uncomfortable just putting it out there
just like you she doesn't want to be rejected or find out she's misread the
situation she wants to feel like a wanted woman
who is being pursued and gotten by a confident old man now I know you're
probably thinking women are so annoying why does she have to play games like
that and why is it my responsibility as a man and you're right you're totally
right to think those things just remember it's my job as your wing girl
to give you insight so that you get what you want my job is not to fix women it's
a hard job so you can pout about the way women are or you can laugh at this
childish behavior and then capitalize on this knowledge by understanding and
acting on it I would have loved to see Jared come up to Sarah halfway through
the night and say something like I know what you're doing or when's it my turn
to flirt with you with a big spark on his face and then continue to tease her
and engage her in flirty conversation and then finally ask her out as the man
I want you to always be leading leader towards what you want and she'll let you
know if she does not want to be led there don't waste your time or her time
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