What’s up ladies and gentlemen, Brad Browning here….
You might know me as “Breakup Brad”, because my videos here on YouTube are usually all
about breakups and getting back together with your ex.
Today’s video is no exception, and this time I’m going to explain how to tell whether
your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend is moving on and getting over you.
I know this is a question that a lot of you have on your mind 24/7 right now, because
I’m asked this by my coaching clients and subscribers here on YouTube many times every
single day.
But I want to start this video by letting you in on a little secret…..
worrying about this particular topic is usually a total waste of time.
It’s totally natural to wonder what your ex is up to, what they’re thinking or feeling
about you or about your relationship….
But, in reality, you’re never going to know for sure.
You can spend hours analyzing their latest Instagram post or re-reading those old text
messages, but the simple fact of the matter is that none of that stuff is going to help
you win them back.
Sure, maybe it can give you a rough idea of where you stand with your ex, but more likely
you’re just going to misinterpret things or cause yourself a whole lot of unnecessary
heartache stressing about what they’re doing or saying.
I’ve made videos on this topic in the past, because I really think overanalyzing your
ex’s words and actions are almost always counter-productive, so you can check out those
videos here on my channel for more about that… but to keep it brief, it’s always better
to focus on the things that are within your control… the things that you can do to change
your situation and improve your odds.
So, here’s what I suggest you do instead.
First, finish watching this video, because I’m about to tell you about a few things
that will actually give you a clear indication that your ex is moving on and getting over
you.
But as soon as the video is over, don’t sit there worrying about the fact that your
ex has shown a couple of these signs already….
Go use my free quiz tool to evaluate where you stand with your ex.
It takes 5 minutes, you just need to answer about 20 questions and then you’ll be given
a score and a list of personalized feedback and recommendations based on your quiz answers.
The URL for the quiz is www.BreakupBrad.com/Quiz… that’s BreakupBrad.com/quiz.
And as always I’ll put the link in the description below so you can just scroll down there after
the video and find it there.
After you take my free quiz, it’s time to stop worrying about your ex altogether.
Like I said, stressing about what he or she is saying or doing isn’t going to help you
get back together.
HOWEVER…
I promised to tell you about some signs that indicate your ex is indeed moving on and getting
over you, so I guess I better deliver on that promise.
Sign #1: It’s been a long time since your breakup.
Woooow, this is a shocker, isn’t it?
Obviously the amount of time since your breakup is going to make a difference to their feelings
towards you… occasionally time can actually be a good thing, but generally speaking the
longer it’s been since you broke up, the more likely it is that your ex is moving on.
Sign #2: Your ex stops making any attempt to contact you.
Again, this can occasionally not mean anything -- who knows, maybe your ex is also a subscriber
to my YouTube channel, and they’re employing the No Contact strategy!
But more likely, it means they’re just no longer thinking about you that often anymore,
which obviously suggests they’ve moved on.
Now, just because he or she isn’t reaching out to you doesn’t mean you need to give
up hope -- but it’s not usually a good sign.
Sign #3: He or she has been dating someone new for more than a month or two.
Rebound relationships are typically something people jump into after a breakup to numb the
pain and post-breakup emotions, and very few last more than a couple of months… but if
your ex has indeed been dating someone new for more than a month or two, that’s not
a great sign.
Sign #4: Your ex doesn’t respond at all to your attempts to incite jealousy.
This is a tough one to evaluate if you’re not really communicating with your ex very
often, but if you’ve used some of the tactics I describe in my Ex Factor program to carefully
incite some jealousy and you’re not getting any kind of reaction at all from your ex…
that can definitely be a bad sign.
Sign #5: Your ex doesn’t reply or doesn’t seem interested when you bring up inside jokes
or happy memories from your time together.
Essentially, someone who has completely moved on and recovered from a breakup is going to
be a lot less receptive to nostalgia… so if you’ve tried to make him or her laugh
with an old inside joke, or brought up a really memorable moment you shared when you were
together, and you don’t get a positive reply or any reply at all... it might mean he or
she is moving on.
Sign #6: Your ex is ignoring you, or acts cold and seems uninterested in continuing
any kind of conversation.
Well, this final sign is pretty self-explanatory, I think…
when you don’t have feelings for someone, it’s a lot less likely that you’ll put
in the effort to continue a conversation or show interest in his or her life.
So, if you find conversations with your ex go nowhere and he or she seems cold and indifferent,
it could also indicate they’re getting over you and your breakup.
OK, that’s 6 things to look for….
Except, like I said earlier, you actually shouldn’t really bother looking for these
signs at all.
Instead, take my quiz at www.BreakupBrad.com/quiz and then turn the focus back on yourself and
making yourself as attractive as possible in the eyes of your ex….
That’s something that will actually have a positive return on the time you invest.
Overanalyzing or constantly worrying about what your ex is up to, on the other hand,
is usually just a waste of time and a recipe for anxiety and heartache.
Got a question about your situation?
You know what to do…
put it in the comments below and I will personally get back to you as soon as I can.
(Unless you write a comment that’s longer than War & Peace… sorry to those of you
who love writing 5000 word comments here on YouTube, but for everyone else, I’ll be
happy to respond to all your comments!)
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Stay tuned for my next video, which will be out in a week or so… talk to you then, bye
for now.